Bedroom Only D/s

I'd love to hear from others with bedroom only D/s relationships, past or present. As in, not 24/7. You might have kids, or are just not interested in 24/7 D/s dynamics.

I'm wondering how you foun ...

Wed Jan 02, 2019 7:26 pm • 10 Replies • 8265 Views

Sub is turned on by everything

Is this a new relationship? Is she in sub frenzy?

Fri Dec 28, 2018 5:56 pm • 12 Replies • 7528 Views

Am I submissive?

SnappyJ, soz but it is exactly that kind of overthinking that Miki was talking about... Lots of words and letters, nothing else..

You, and she, are entitled to your opinions. I found the article en ...

Fri Dec 21, 2018 8:34 pm • 15 Replies • 8142 Views

Am I submissive?

I stumbled on this article - it makes both vanilla and sub pretty clear.

http://www.kinkweekly.com/article-guest-author/vanilla-genuinely-submissive/

Fri Dec 21, 2018 7:16 pm • 15 Replies • 8142 Views

Books for submissive newbies

I highly recommend Exploring BDSM - this is a workbook for beginners by Morgan Thorne. Very thorough, and she's got great YouTube vids, too.

Wed Dec 19, 2018 6:48 pm • 7 Replies • 5082 Views

Books on BDSM.

[quote="depraved dolly"]I highly recommend the Kushiel series by Jacqueline Carey. It's not erotica but it does have a lot of great BDSM type themes and is a great read.

I second this series, espec ...

Tue Dec 18, 2018 5:34 pm • 16 Replies • 15098 Views

Connecting

Dom hub and I were just discussing this last night, and it's not easy for me to explain without you knowing a bunch about our dynamic. But, in a nutshell, we've also been married FOREVER and are also ...

Sat Dec 15, 2018 12:37 am • 4 Replies • 2605 Views

Who’s here seeking dom/sub relations (online) that they’re hiding/can’t have at home?

I met my husband online a million years ago (at the dawn of Internet dating), so to us, there's not much distinction between "cheating" in person and "cheating" online.
I am, however, in a somewhat ...

Thu Dec 13, 2018 5:54 pm • 54 Replies • 26081 Views

Mentoring

Thanks, everyone, for your input. Yes, we'd be looking for just an outside sounding board - we have no interest in bringing another person into our dynamic.

Tue Dec 11, 2018 8:13 pm • 4 Replies • 2874 Views

Mentoring

I’m wondering if mentoring a married couple who are new to the lifestyle is even a thing. I’ve seen offers to mentor subs and Doms, but what about couples? How would this even work?

TIA

Mon Dec 10, 2018 11:46 pm • 4 Replies • 2874 Views