Question for the D types

Figured I’d update. Today is a week since I asked him again about getting a coffee or drink and he never brought it up again.
So yesterday I told him I wanted to slow down until we were actually dat ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 6:56 am • 25 Replies • 9726 Views

Any words gross you out?

Gratuitous, cliche "dirty talk" during sex - not to be confused with humiliation or degradation, which I love - almost always turns me off, but it does not gross me out.

I guess I still can't thi ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 6:28 am • 46 Replies • 10940 Views

Any words gross you out?

I was going to respond to this a week ago but I couldn't think of any words that gross me out. I still can't.

There are plenty of words that I think are funny, some that are downright silly, and so ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 6:11 am • 46 Replies • 10940 Views

Exploring BDSM solo

Miki pretty much covered it all.
You don't really have many choices: find someone with your husband's blessing, find someone without his blessing, find someone without his knowledge, deal with not be ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 4:44 am • 8 Replies • 2709 Views

Sex and Playing

In the past couple of years the rules have changed a bit with respect to how much we are even able to do anything in person. For many of us the majority of sex/play/BDSM has not been an option so onli ...

Mon Oct 11, 2021 11:49 am • 12 Replies • 5444 Views

Question for the D types

I think is important to distinguish between two people who are still chatting and spending time getting to know each other (who also happen to be D/s) and a Dom and sub who consider themselves to be i ...

Mon Oct 11, 2021 5:57 am • 25 Replies • 9726 Views

Can we stop equating Brats to

Being a brat is not the same thing as a bitch - except when it is.
Being a tamer is not the same thing as being an abuser - except when it is.
Being A is not the same thing as being B - except when ...

Sun Oct 10, 2021 9:37 pm • 20 Replies • 5616 Views

He doesn't want me to say "Sir"

Some things to consider:

1. As with all relationship-related things, you must talk about everything. For instance, he may not feel a need to hear or use honorifics and pet names, but unless he is d ...

Sun Oct 10, 2021 8:29 pm • 24 Replies • 7940 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

Pick only 3???

All giving:

1. Nipple torture
2. Orgasm torture
3. Watersports
(4. All 3 at the same time)

1. Erotic hypnosis. I have been studying it for several months but I have yet to t ...

Sun Oct 10, 2021 7:26 pm • 35 Replies • 10667 Views

Blocking

I tell all new users that I meet, or anyone who asks, "the Block button is your friend. Use it."

Yes, it sucks to be blocked, especially if you have no idea why it happened, or if you have never e ...

Tue Jul 27, 2021 9:43 am • 72 Replies • 17353 Views