To Chase or not to Chase

Love the question TopekaDom, thanks for posting it.

And wow, some beautiful responses, a joy to read, lot's of resonating going on inside of me.

To me, chasing or being chased is secondary to op ...

Thu Oct 19, 2023 6:02 pm • 12 Replies • 1988 Views

'Can we talk? Can we be friends?'

It's sadly commonplace and seems especially in evidence online. We live in a Burger King drive thru world where people have been seemingly conditioned to "have it your way" almost instantly, and with ...

Wed Oct 18, 2023 4:27 pm • 17 Replies • 2314 Views

Check List - Cum Eating

If you will. And when a woman says it tastes bad, or they'll gag or something, I tend to not believe them. My mind screens, "cop out". If I can eat broccoli, you can eat vitamin K. Just my thoughts. ...

Mon Oct 16, 2023 3:23 pm • 18 Replies • 3079 Views

Re: Check List - Cum Eating

Subs: Do you feel that is required of you as a sub? Will you do it, even if you find the taste nauseating?

Discuss:

i'm more bottom than sub. i've been with very few Men Who open and a ...

Mon Oct 16, 2023 2:59 pm • 18 Replies • 3079 Views

Lifestyle BDSM

This is not a perfect analogy, but it helps give me perspective.

i approach the lifestyle trying to base it on what is vs expectation of what should be. One way i think of it is as we have appet ...

Wed Oct 11, 2023 4:05 pm • 18 Replies • 2140 Views

Solo Play

@tallslenderguy:

Interesting.. And opposite of what a lot of people want to think when it comes to men.

The old adage "90% of men whack off and 10% lie about it" shit.

Who cares, re ...

Sun Oct 08, 2023 6:58 pm • 7 Replies • 1395 Views

Solo Play

I guess our situations are quite different then. I feel that my sexuality is mine to share or not with another person, but it isn't dependent on them. The sexual sensations that please me may be bro ...

Sun Oct 08, 2023 6:46 pm • 7 Replies • 1395 Views

Solo Play

i hesitated to respond to this because i don't engage in solo play. i even don't like to masturbate.

If i died and someone had to pack up my belongings though, most would doubt the above comment. ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 11:43 pm • 7 Replies • 1395 Views

Collaring

Not trying to be an ass here, but i'd suggest asking your Dom. We do not know them and the D/s dynamic, imo, is a very individual thing. i've been in situations where one or both parties had this unsp ...

Sat Oct 07, 2023 8:35 pm • 7 Replies • 1211 Views

Any Doms who do it for fun?

Sorry to break the flow albeit very briefly:


I (used to) stick my hands in pants for fun.




Was there someone wearing them at the time?

Fri Oct 06, 2023 11:41 pm • 22 Replies • 3381 Views