Seeking Greater Understanding...

I'd say a good Dom/me of any gender would want the same things as the rest of us where as the ubber-dom/mes want nothing but to control and dominate the world as is seen by their summaries

i apprec ...

Fri Sep 29, 2023 8:37 pm • 6 Replies • 1695 Views

Fuck up my YouTube Music Playlist

Tallslenderguy OMG that first song (group) is my new obsession!! They remind me of Pentatonix on a guitar. Ahaha...thank you much for the introduction to them. On to the next one...

i know, right? ...

Fri Sep 29, 2023 7:11 pm • 9 Replies • 1892 Views

Fuck up my YouTube Music Playlist

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P9mybTArlsk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNzzK1dUtCI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ATMR5ettHz8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uKlRPaQmbM

https://www. ...

Fri Sep 29, 2023 6:55 pm • 9 Replies • 1892 Views

Playing with no Committment

I would say, please don't date boys or girls. They can be of any age and are simply not ready if you want and need a real deep connection.

This has happened to me more times than i can count... to ...

Thu Sep 28, 2023 9:21 pm • 34 Replies • 8516 Views

Objectification : Yay or Nay?

This is a complicated one for me. i think there can be a level of intimacy that runs so deep that it appears objectifying, but takes bonding to a different place, if not different level?
For instanc ...

Thu Sep 28, 2023 8:10 pm • 10 Replies • 3070 Views

Re: Playing with no Committment

For those of you who consistently just want to find someone to play with for an hour or two, or other short term arrangement, do you have any type of reaction when the playtime is over?

Can you wal ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 9:17 pm • 34 Replies • 8516 Views

Lack of Dominant gay men on The Cage

i'm a gay male, total bottom with some sub thrown in. i've been part of The Cage community for ~4 years. i too have experienced the wish for more gay folk, but have also enjoyed and benefitted troddi ...

Tue Sep 26, 2023 3:53 pm • 7 Replies • 2233 Views

Dominant Styles

i went to read the profile of the OP, but it was not there for me.

Tue Sep 26, 2023 3:30 pm • 19 Replies • 5556 Views

Let’s get the facts straight

'insta-doms' (or insta-anyone) are sorta like an unsolicited slap on the face. To me, the worst part is the utter presumptuous ignorance and disconnect. They take something intricate and reduce it ...

Sun Sep 24, 2023 7:42 pm • 29 Replies • 6583 Views

Jugging reationships

i'm gonna be cliche and quote: "necessity is the mother of invention."

We are all complex individuals. Sure, we fall into groups and we come up with terms and labels to help us communicate, but no ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 8:21 pm • 2 Replies • 1104 Views