New Sub

i know i look at "collaring" a little differently than BDSM tradition, and do not claim to be all that familiar with it as a tradition or practice. my brain and emotions do take and run with the word ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:52 pm • 17 Replies • 2170 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

maybe someone gets what i wrote. What im trying to say.

i think i may "get what [you] wrote," at least in part?

We don't have classes on relationship in school. Instead, we relegate intimate r ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 6:36 pm • 60 Replies • 7410 Views

New Sub

Yeah, wow. i don't wanna presume, but that sounds sort of like getting a new puppy, playing with it for a day, putting a collar on it and then isolating and chaining it up in the backyard while he g ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:58 pm • 17 Replies • 2170 Views

Chastity devices

i have seven chastity cages. i buy them when really horny and usually only try them on and then they go in a drawer for lack of a Man and relationship with Someone Who wants to use one on me. my favor ...

Tue Sep 12, 2023 5:24 pm • 16 Replies • 2559 Views

Do all Gals/Guy's have ball busting fantasies? Asking for a friend.

Not me.
i do not have much, if any, physical masochist in me. The only exception might be spanking where my Top uses only His hand. Then it's not about the pain, but the marking and mind fuck of it. ...

Sun Sep 10, 2023 5:27 pm • 19 Replies • 2634 Views

The first time telling parents

my parents never discussed their sexuality with me. It strikes me as a pertinent question: "why should parents expect their adult children to explain their sexuality to them?" Or, why should we feel ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:55 pm • 6 Replies • 866 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Same as "I'm a private person, due to my profession, that's why my profile is empty - but feel free to ask questions"

Omg, that one drives me berserk. Or "feel free to ask questions" twin s ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:21 pm • 60 Replies • 7410 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

When there's inconsistencies. He tells you something then says or does the exact opposite. Communication and trust is the "frame" of any relationship whether that be vanilla or a D/s relationship. ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:13 pm • 60 Replies • 7410 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Force, bullying, particularly when its an assumed or expected trait for a "dom" or "top." For me, it's an instant turn off (and run). It strikes me sort of like the guy who puts a pair of plastic tes ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 9:56 pm • 60 Replies • 7410 Views

Re: BDSM, Love & Romantic Relationships

In romantic relationships with a bdsm component, it feels like sometimes you get pushed to provide that emotional high but with people who may not understand how to support you through it :/

i'll ...

Tue Sep 05, 2023 10:28 pm • 11 Replies • 2145 Views