Do all Gals/Guy's have ball busting fantasies? Asking for a friend.

Not me.
i do not have much, if any, physical masochist in me. The only exception might be spanking where my Top uses only His hand. Then it's not about the pain, but the marking and mind fuck of it. ...

Sun Sep 10, 2023 5:27 pm • 19 Replies • 4608 Views

The first time telling parents

my parents never discussed their sexuality with me. It strikes me as a pertinent question: "why should parents expect their adult children to explain their sexuality to them?" Or, why should we feel ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:55 pm • 6 Replies • 1376 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Same as "I'm a private person, due to my profession, that's why my profile is empty - but feel free to ask questions"

Omg, that one drives me berserk. Or "feel free to ask questions" twin s ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:21 pm • 60 Replies • 11705 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

When there's inconsistencies. He tells you something then says or does the exact opposite. Communication and trust is the "frame" of any relationship whether that be vanilla or a D/s relationship. ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 10:13 pm • 60 Replies • 11705 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Force, bullying, particularly when its an assumed or expected trait for a "dom" or "top." For me, it's an instant turn off (and run). It strikes me sort of like the guy who puts a pair of plastic tes ...

Sat Sep 09, 2023 9:56 pm • 60 Replies • 11705 Views

Re: BDSM, Love & Romantic Relationships

In romantic relationships with a bdsm component, it feels like sometimes you get pushed to provide that emotional high but with people who may not understand how to support you through it :/

i'll ...

Tue Sep 05, 2023 10:28 pm • 11 Replies • 3569 Views

Hookups

Scattered thoughts.

For safety, a BDSM club makes sense to me... not a perfect fix but seems safer and more practical than a profile on a hook up site. At least you've narrowed your potentials to ...

Mon Aug 14, 2023 6:51 pm • 60 Replies • 15891 Views

Does your mate touching your boobs turn you on when you are not aroused?

i'm glad i stopped to read this thread. i kept passing it because i'm not particularly a breast man, giving or receiving, but there are a lot of gay guys who state their "cock is hardwired to" their n ...

Sun Aug 13, 2023 6:25 pm • 20 Replies • 6919 Views

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

What Sasa wrote.

and

i believe "bad habits" (or good) are not intrinsic to any particular group, but are individual. Granted, there may be a lot of individuals in a particular group inclined t ...

Sat Aug 12, 2023 6:10 pm • 43 Replies • 15576 Views

Wife wants a scene

Up front, i want to acknowledge this is just my opinion and thoughts. We've all so different, i wouldn't presume to make this universal, just offering my thoughts since you ask.

To me, a "scene" or ...

Fri Aug 04, 2023 1:05 am • 18 Replies • 4664 Views