Re: Subspace

My submissive headspace has always been something that I can achieve naturally. I find myself feeling more pliant and relaxed doing things as simple as cleaning the house, or grocery shopping. Lately ...

Sun Mar 20, 2022 6:24 pm • 5 Replies • 2880 Views

How to honor the masculine

i like the question, or at least, where it can go.

An ongoing question for me for several years has been: "what actually constitutes feminine or masculine?"

So far, my attempts to answer that ...

Thu Mar 17, 2022 3:38 pm • 34 Replies • 19297 Views

Boldily Physique

Majority society and culture seems to swing to extremes. There was a time when "fat jokes" were mainstream humor, even comedians would exploit their own size in a self deprecating way. The pendulum ha ...

Mon Mar 14, 2022 6:59 pm • 41 Replies • 12541 Views

Training a submissive

I am new but after spending a month here I still don’t understand why we need training. Do we need to train someone into a dom or sub? I thought the dom/sub nature is naturally born with.

If it’s ...

Fri Mar 11, 2022 10:12 pm • 28 Replies • 14924 Views

The instinct

It's in your feminine nature to naturally submit so it sounds really wonderful what you are experiencing. That's why D/s play can be so wonderful. It just affirms and reinforces our natural gender ro ...

Fri Mar 11, 2022 8:34 pm • 19 Replies • 5750 Views

Training a submissive

In my personal point of view,
Submissive people need to be trained and/or mentored by submissive people and the same with slaves. I, myself, was taught my particular set of skills by an alpha slave. ...

Fri Mar 11, 2022 8:11 pm • 28 Replies • 14924 Views

Dumb sub brain

i'll venture a response lol.

To me this reads like you were in a hyper emotional place. i don't see that as "dumb" though. Our emotions don't always make sense or have a rational explanation. Ou ...

Thu Mar 10, 2022 6:07 pm • 7 Replies • 2792 Views

How to get out of kink

i think there are some great replies here. i'll add some of my own thoughts to the mix, qualifying i don't think there is a generic answer to your question.

If you have not already, i think it woul ...

Wed Mar 09, 2022 5:16 pm • 9 Replies • 3057 Views

Training, Communication and Connection. Positions of power and personal responsibility.

Tallslender... Fabulous. Thanks so much for the kind words. I think they might be a little over the top?

My comment about the "person who doesn't know shit" is a begrudgingly subtle shout out to t ...

Wed Mar 09, 2022 12:52 am • 5 Replies • 2000 Views

Training, Communication and Connection. Positions of power and personal responsibility.

Wow, Brandallofu, what great posts. i found you balanced and engaging, important stuff i would look for and want/need in a Dom. The only pause i had was when i read:

"Who decides who should train? ...

Tue Mar 08, 2022 11:40 pm • 5 Replies • 2000 Views