Re: Should I stop and leave the community?

So, I struggle a lot with mental health and I can be very insecure. I'm working on it and I'm in therapy getting help. I just run into the same issues again and again. I'm very timid when it comes to ...

Sat Dec 09, 2023 9:03 pm • 12 Replies • 1846 Views

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

If we take the thread title: "Am i wrong for setting an age limit?" and instead ask: "Am i wrong for setting a limit?, i think few would say "yes."

To me, the point is individual vs universal stand ...

Mon Dec 04, 2023 4:48 pm • 49 Replies • 6465 Views

Re: Age-Gap Relationships | Rich or Poor

Which is creepier?
A rich 60 year old man dating a 25 year old women
OR
A poor 60 year old man dating a 25 year old women

i took this to be tongue in cheek, or an attempt to expose perceived hyp ...

Sat Dec 02, 2023 5:52 pm • 22 Replies • 2517 Views

Coming across as a Domme

The gay community uses identifiers like: "Top, bottom, versatile, and more recently side" extensively. "Dom and sub" are pretty common, but are considered more of a kink from my experience, whereas t ...

Tue Nov 28, 2023 4:55 pm • 7 Replies • 1242 Views

Re: Introducing Daddy Dom/lg Lifestyle into a Pre-Existing R

But I’m not sure how to bring up the other parts that I need from him, and I’m worried on how to express it to him in a way that makes sense.

Any advice?

Show him the whole message you wrote h ...

Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:41 pm • 6 Replies • 1025 Views

Fetish or erogenous zone(?)

If someone tries to suck my toes, I'm gonna kick him 😶‍🌫️

Hmmm, ever met someone with a kick fetish?

Wed Nov 22, 2023 7:46 pm • 8 Replies • 1051 Views

What's your addiction?

The Great British Baking Show

Sun Nov 19, 2023 11:43 pm • 224 Replies • 38317 Views

What is your go to fantasy to get you off?

Sex for me is mostly about connection with another person at a deep and intimate level. Connection of mutual need/desire. While i do masturbate after the sexual tension gets to be so much, it's alway ...

Sun Nov 19, 2023 7:24 pm • 22 Replies • 3397 Views

Re: Daddy Dom advice

I hear them being happy with results of our play but I don't know if it's starting to fizzle out for me because I'm not there with my tactile touch or am I still not getting what I need? So what do I ...

Sun Nov 19, 2023 6:29 pm • 7 Replies • 1000 Views

Humiliation and Degradation Questions

Yes, there is the age-old discussion around whether or not it’s healthy to do piss play. I have taken part in these discussions, read about it, and become as aware as I can be. Everything we do ca ...

Sun Nov 19, 2023 3:17 am • 27 Replies • 3696 Views