Re: Looking for advice

I have been in a relationship with a submissive for a year and a half and we've gotton along very well.
I miss being with her and she feels the same.
When we sit down to talk though, the conversa ...

Fri Jan 19, 2024 5:30 pm • 18 Replies • 4042 Views

Writing vs phone vs chat

For those who want to nerd out, here's some science on the topic (it's long). Interesting find that with kids, texting can actually help develop communication skills and establish/maintain bonding... ...

Sat Jan 13, 2024 7:00 pm • 13 Replies • 3149 Views

Writing vs phone vs chat

I liken face-to-face as getting to know eachother from the outside in. Whereas writing I see as getting to know eachother from the inside out. )

i love this!! This describes how i feel so well. ...

Sat Jan 13, 2024 6:00 am • 13 Replies • 3149 Views

Writing vs phone vs chat

To me, generally the 'best' format for communication is face to face. That incorporates things like tone, visual cues, as well as words.

Online? i like writing as a means of getting to know someo ...

Fri Jan 12, 2024 10:29 pm • 13 Replies • 3149 Views

Surviving online with a new sub

Big topic.

To me, comparing online with irl is sort of like comparing a Hummer with a Swatch car. Both are technically cars, but a list of realistic expectations of where the former car can take ...

Wed Jan 10, 2024 5:52 pm • 18 Replies • 3600 Views

Cock worship.

i'm a total bottom gay guy. Simply put (it's more complex for me), being "total bottom" means receiving a Mans penetration, but i never penetrate.

That said, as a bottom, i do not perceive mysel ...

Sat Jan 06, 2024 7:10 pm • 13 Replies • 5047 Views

Disconnected 'profiles'

A profile is a profile. Read it if so inclined and if you (rhet) don't like it, move on. If you become curious then ask the individual. (In other words, whether a profile is "good" or "bad"--- is a ...

Wed Dec 27, 2023 11:12 pm • 20 Replies • 5255 Views

Disconnected 'profiles'

I have been told my profile is too detailed, I have been told my profile is this or that.

I do not know what makes a ''good'' profile or a ''bad'' profile.

I see behind words, people (or their ...

Wed Dec 27, 2023 8:26 pm • 20 Replies • 5255 Views

Re: Chastity devices

Hi,
I'm curious, how many of you are trying to cheat and to escape from a chastity device? Are you successful? To me it looks like an irresistible technical challenge.

I don't think it's wis ...

Wed Dec 27, 2023 8:07 pm • 16 Replies • 7664 Views

Disconnected 'profiles'

on another site that is similar to the cage, I have sent munch or community event invites to blank profiles. . . .every once in a while there is a response.

There are a great many of us that do no ...

Sat Dec 23, 2023 9:43 pm • 20 Replies • 5255 Views