The Moderation on this Website is Bizarre

I agree. I had a friend warn me in a private message of an unsafe guy on this site. I mean, in person meetup that went horribly wrong. Her account was gone within 24 hours. You literally can't mention ...

Wed Sep 20, 2023 7:54 am • 14 Replies • 2205 Views

Do all Gals/Guy's have ball busting fantasies? Asking for a friend.

I can honestly say I have never had that fantasy--either to give or to receive.


B L O N D I E,

Your answer made me cackle. Yes, I don't think this is a run of the mill type fantasy..

Now i ...

Sun Sep 17, 2023 3:01 pm • 19 Replies • 2283 Views

Re: New Sub

Hi, I am new to the actual dynamic but I recently was collared and feel a little off. We talked for like 2 weeks and then met. Long distance. He collared me one of the nights I was there. And for some ...

Sun Sep 17, 2023 2:56 pm • 17 Replies • 1894 Views

New Sub

Yea I think I just messed up and tried trusting too soon. I keep getting lessons on this new dynamic. All the time.
I am trying to not just trust people so easily. He said he loved me after being co ...

Sun Sep 17, 2023 2:52 pm • 17 Replies • 1894 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

I will assume that they are familiar with each other, know each orger well.

Depending on their personal way of handling things. It could be that a sub would already know what their Dom would say. ...

Sat Sep 16, 2023 9:20 am • 40 Replies • 4842 Views

Communication

Ingénue,

Talking is easy, communcation IS hard.

BECAUSE IT MAKES US VULNERABLE.

Fri Sep 15, 2023 9:29 pm • 6 Replies • 752 Views

Do you consider Hypnosis edgeplay? Why or why not?

Personally, I never got the idea of hypnosis, as far as lifestyle play. Now mind you, I've never done it or even seen it done in real life. All my experience comes from Hollywood, and I know it doe ...

Fri Sep 15, 2023 5:19 am • 8 Replies • 1004 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

maybe someone gets what i wrote. What im trying to say.

i think i may "get what

Hey TallSlenderguy,

How you doing?

I'm not clear what you meant by center? LOL, i may approach a situati ...

Wed Sep 13, 2023 9:04 am • 60 Replies • 6494 Views

Re: Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

So I just saw a blog about someone getting messaged about a so called soft flogger. This has me somewhat puzzled.

Now the flogger mentioned is said to be Elk. I have an Elk leather (along with ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 2:14 am • 20 Replies • 2519 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Maybe this doesn't really fit on here for the ick issues. But I do find it a little bit frustrating.

Even though I live in the world of today, I still like the guys that are chivalrous. So why is i ...

Mon Sep 11, 2023 2:13 am • 60 Replies • 6494 Views