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Is it really that difficult…

RefinedLace,

I agree that no message is a message. I don't want to be that person and I'm not. I have sent messages and never received a reply. All kinds of people find their way here and other pl ...

Tue May 30, 2023 3:52 am • 25 Replies • 7514 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Is it really that difficult…

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Grandfather's paradox

I believe that we keep returning in different people until our destiny is fulfilled.

So H.G. Wells, time machine or not I believe there is something higher in power at work.

Sat May 27, 2023 10:10 pm • 5 Replies • 1412 Views

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I'mME

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Just for Fun

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Grandfather's paradox

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

Ok, doesn't answer the question at all

I don't see manipulation. I wouldn't agree to do something that I know I'm not going to do. Period. I also am a grown woman, if I do something that inadverten ...

Sat May 27, 2023 1:26 am • 34 Replies • 10538 Views

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I'mME

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

How is reward / punishment to encourage / discourage certain behaviors not manipulation?

If I know this is the rule, and these are the consequences . I know why, the what, the how. This is where ne ...

Fri May 26, 2023 7:54 am • 34 Replies • 10538 Views

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I'mME

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

It's psychology 101. Reinforce deserved behaviors with reward and punish undesired behaviors.

Chattel,
I don't consider that psych manipulation. I understand what you are writing, you described sl ...

Thu May 25, 2023 9:41 pm • 34 Replies • 10538 Views

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I'mME

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

chattel,
What did you think about the reason given? Did you ...

Thu May 25, 2023 1:25 pm • 34 Replies • 10538 Views

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I'mME

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

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The Benefits of KISSING

I used to work in couples therapy. An exercise taught to re spark a relationship and libido is to kiss hello, good bye, good night and good morning but each kiss has to last 6 seconds! Just six second ...

Thu May 25, 2023 1:14 pm • 7 Replies • 2018 Views

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I'mME

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The Benefits of KISSING

478

Making the first move

I tend to experience a lot of mixed messages on this in real life. On one hand, we get told, a guy is expected to make the first move, because women expect, and admire ,men who take the initiative, a ...

Thu May 25, 2023 1:12 pm • 26 Replies • 7979 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Making the first move

479

Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

chattel,
What did you think about the reason given? Did you ...

Tue May 23, 2023 1:37 am • 34 Replies • 10538 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

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Masters

ImMe, you missed those two little key words “at least.” Although there was a typo and it reads “a least.” ?

Vint,

I caught that. Those words don't have any bearing on what I wrote.

Ah, well w ...

Mon May 22, 2023 1:00 am • 26 Replies • 7503 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Masters