Possessiveness

I consider myself a very jealous and possessive person. Jealousy comes from childhood issues while possessiveness comes from being an only child. I never fully learned to share at a young age and neve ...

Tue Mar 02, 2021 9:38 am • 23 Replies • 6429 Views

Roleplay and what’s too far?

As someone very open about her bdsm likes.. vanilla people don’t understand and think that bdsm as a whole is extremely weird and they don’t see the point. A kidnapping scene would be too much for som ...

Fri Feb 12, 2021 9:10 am • 7 Replies • 1449 Views

Should I be worried?

Well considering you are a sub this might be different for you. As a domme, if I get radio silence from my sub for too long I’ll ask if everything is alright. If I don’t get a response I’ll keep tryin ...

Thu Feb 11, 2021 2:09 am • 13 Replies • 4065 Views

But where does a girl find ears?!?

Etsy has really pretty ones and if you look enough, some aren’t even that expensive and might even have free shipping. I’m not sure if this store exists where you live but it’s called Claire’s. It’s a ...

Mon Feb 01, 2021 7:06 pm • 8 Replies • 2410 Views

Kink Virgin

Are we ever really ready to be in any type of relationship? I honestly don’t think so. When I started D/s relationships I was exploring and wanted to find my way in this world. I read and researched f ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 6:56 pm • 7 Replies • 1963 Views

Punishments

I personally don’t like punishing my subs but from time to time it has to be done. I’ve who subs that need the physical punishment and others needed a more mental one while there were a rare few that ...

Mon Jan 25, 2021 7:27 pm • 33 Replies • 10506 Views

stoic Doms?

I can be a bit stoic at first and I have been called cold hearted at first. I don’t open up my emotions easily and it takes a while for me to warm up to the person. Once I open up my more caring and g ...

Sun Jan 24, 2021 7:45 pm • 10 Replies • 3262 Views

do doms lose interest?

Just as in vanilla life, doms and subs can also lose interest and there’s a lot of reasons it can happen. I’ll provide a few that happened to me.

When I first started being on this website I met a ...

Sun Jan 24, 2021 7:33 pm • 10 Replies • 6101 Views

what do you look for

I look for someone that has similar likes and dislikes to mine.
My deal breaker is a cigarette smoker. I can’t stand the smell at all and im very sensitive towards most smells.
My favorite thing is ...

Wed Jan 20, 2021 2:03 am • 31 Replies • 8247 Views

Should I ask for rules?

My two cents to this is just asking. Talk to him and ask him if there’s rules he wants to implement as your Master. Ask what’s his domination style is. If he implements rules and punishments and what ...

Tue Jan 19, 2021 8:24 pm • 33 Replies • 8820 Views