Medical examination

I have engaged in this particular scene quite a bit during my time as a kinky practitioner, embodying the role of the doctor. It is one of my absolute favorite roles to play and I thoroughly enjoy cre ...

Sat Feb 13, 2021 6:22 pm • 4 Replies • 2385 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

When I was thirteen years old, I began to consider that most of my sexual fantasies at the time touched on overpowering my partners, either through physical superiority or intelligent manipulation. I ...

Sat Feb 13, 2021 8:31 am • 95 Replies • 33516 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

I do not really have any turn of questions (I’m sure I could come up with something, but it would not be in keeping with the spirit of this forum), but I do find that others showing distaste for certa ...

Thu Jan 28, 2021 12:16 am • 126 Replies • 44962 Views

heavy scenes

As a Dom who regularly engaged in heavy scenes, I have learned a couple of things about The community and people in general. The very concept of ‘normal’ is truly poisonous to the spirit of the kink c ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 10:45 pm • 6 Replies • 2996 Views

Kink Virgin

Make sure that you understand the difference between Dominant and domineering; that you can recognize the signs of abuse and (the bad kind of) exploitation. Even if what you want is intense or extreme ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 7:36 pm • 7 Replies • 2560 Views

Opening Up

I, personally, did not find either of your posts offensive or standoffish. I thought the first one was well organized and presents an opportunity for comparison and a means of providing a specific exa ...

Fri Jan 22, 2021 7:35 am • 11 Replies • 4945 Views

Opening Up

It does get overwhelming on occasion that poly is one of the few areas where it is still perceived as acceptable to be adamant and even judgmental in your disagreement with it, without really having a ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 6:21 pm • 11 Replies • 4945 Views

The Word "Mold"

Molding a sub or slave to the preference of a Dom is simply one element of the training or objectification fetishes. It is a means of finding a particular kind of worth through the ministrations of th ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 5:17 am • 10 Replies • 4861 Views

Does anyone else share this fetish? "Object penetration"

I have found that, along with the taboo of insertion by foreign object, my subs tend to appreciate a certain level of unplanned play. When not deliberately engaging in play (more of a technicality whe ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 3:41 am • 27 Replies • 11916 Views

Opening Up

Actually, consent in poly requires agreement from all parties, so negating consent only requires one party to negate it. Then, negotiation and compromise begins.
The most important requirement for a ...

Thu Jan 21, 2021 2:31 am • 11 Replies • 4945 Views