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1 week ago. November 16, 2023 at 3:54 PM

Hey CAGE community!  We hope you're all having a wonderful November.  And if you're new to THE CAGE BDSM Community, welcome!

We have a brand new article in THE CAGE Magazine that examines the vital topic of Ethical Play & BDSM.  Here you'll find tips on how to keep your kinky interactions safe, consensual, and enjoyable.  And, if you're new to kink, we uncover some of those unwritten "rules" of BDSM.

Learn more in our latest episode of BDSM Bites:

The full article, "BDSM 101: Ethical Play," is now available in THE CAGE Magazine. 

And don't miss many more informative articles on all sorts of kink related topics, our "Let's Get You Started" section, and our fun and sexy Erotica section featuring YOUR writing!

Until next time!

1 month ago. September 30, 2023 at 8:48 PM

Get ready for Locktober at THE CAGE, a chastity challenge for the month of October! Give it a try solo or with a partner and see who can make it through the entire month without a single orgasm!  You can learn more about Locktober in THE CAGE Magazine including useful resources for Tease and Denial and Genital Pain Play techniques.  If you're really enthusiastic, we even have a Chastity Training Program all laid out for you.

Looking for someone to partner up with?  Consider a Keyholder or Seeking Keyholder ad in our Personals. 

Oh and don't forget that fun lock feature on your profile.  Locktober is the perfect time to use it!

Whether or not you are playing along, or just cheering (and maybe jeering?) your friends, we hope you enjoy Locktober at THE CAGE!

Until next time...

2 months ago. September 12, 2023 at 3:31 PM

Have you ever taken a look at THE CAGE Events Calendar? Maybe you've glanced at it casually, but it might be worth a more thorough examination. There's an array of events that you may find interesting, and a number of them are accessible online. These include, "The Powerful Bottoming Workshop", "Navigating BDSM with PTSD/C-PTSD", as well as "The BDSM Pet Play Primer".

If you're in the mood for in-person gatherings, there's a multitude of munches, parties, and workshops to choose from. Consider attending the "Bootblacking & Gear Care" event in Montreal, "The Psychology of Fetish and Kink" in Glasgow (presented by Dr. Lori Bisbey who was recently featured in THE CAGE Kinky Proust Questionnaire), or check out "Night of the Cane," a corporal punishment party in Carshalton, England. Sounds fun, right?

We update our Events Calendar regularly and as a CAGE member, you're welcome to post your own too.  

Please bear in mind that we are not the organizers of these events. We are not affiliated with them in any way, nor do we receive any compensation for promoting them. Our goal is simply to provide you with a useful resource for your explorations.

Some events require you to purchase a ticket, so make sure to read the details closely before registering.

Until next time!

2 months ago. September 11, 2023 at 9:15 AM

Hey look - it's September!  We hope you're all safe and well and that you've enjoyed a wonderful summer.

We have a brand new article in THE CAGE Magazine, BDSM 101: Genital Pain Play.  You may find the topic intriguing or even a little bit scary, but not to worry!  We demystify it all and share some tips about how to start exploring safely. 

Learn more in our latest episode of BDSM Bites:



Until next time!

3 months ago. August 19, 2023 at 7:30 PM

We're pleased to announce a new section in THE CAGE Magazine: "Let's Get You Started".  Here, you'll uncover valuable resources for both longstanding members and newcomers to THE CAGE BDSM Community. Discover a recommended reading list of kink and sex-positive books, informative articles tailored for novices and experienced practitioners, as well as an extensive resource list focusing on kink, fetish, safety, and useful information related specifically to THE CAGE Community.  Find it all in "Let's Get You Started", right here.

3 months ago. August 19, 2023 at 6:57 PM


Dr. Lori Beth Bisbey, a registered psychologist, accredited advanced GSRD (gender, sex relationship diversity) therapist, author, speaker, podcast host, and TV personality, boasts an impressive 35-year career dedicated to empowering individuals in creating fulfilling relationships devoid of shame. Her identity as a queer polyamorous leatherwoman lends a distinctive dimension to her insights. Currently participating in two 24/7 M/s dynamics as a submissive, she embodies her advocacy. With a remarkable 44-year journey in kink and BDSM, her wisdom in relationships and intimacy is profound. Explore her compelling experiences in THE CAGE Kinky Proust Questionnaire here.

3 months ago. August 11, 2023 at 10:05 AM

Our latest CAGE Magazine article, "BDSM 101: Vetting Potential Partners for Kinky Play" is a must-read. It explains all about vetting in the world of kink and how it plays a crucial role in ensuring safety and compatibility with your potential partners and playmates. You'll learn how this essential practice helps build trust and creates consensual experiences that you'll cherish. Plus, we'll walk you through potential red flags to be aware of during the vetting process, so you can navigate with confidence.


Learn more in our latest episode of BDSM Bites:


Until next time!

4 months ago. July 14, 2023 at 4:28 PM


Hey CAGE Community!  We hope you're having an amazing summer, filled with kinky fun.

THE CAGE Magazine has a brand new, insightful interview with SweetheartSadie, an independent journalist, kink educator, and performance artist. SweetheartSadie shares her perspectives by answering THE CAGE Kinky Proust Questionnaire—a series of thought-provoking questions designed to reveal the subject's unique personality and relationship with kink, fetish, and BDSM. And in case you missed it, you'll also find questionnaires including educator and Youtuber Evie Lupine, and the esteemed co-author of The Ethical Slut, Janet W. Hardy.  Find it all in THE CAGE Magazine right here.


5 months ago. June 15, 2023 at 11:02 AM

Our latest article in The CAGE Magazine, delves into the captivating world of "CNC" or Consensual Non-Consent. Explore the complexities of power dynamics, trust, and communication in this thought-provoking piece, BDSM 101: Consensual Non-Consent.

Learn more in our latest episode of BDSM Bites:

We are also delighted to feature Luna Carruthers, the founder of, who shares her perspectives on various aspects of kink through THE CAGE Kinky Proust Questionnaire.

We hope you enjoy these new reads!

Until next time....

7 months ago. April 17, 2023 at 11:24 AM

If you're feeling curious about trying out new roles in your established power exchange dynamic, you're not alone! Switching things up can be an exciting and enjoyable way to strengthen your partnership, improve communication, and enhance safety.


We explore this topic in our latest CAGE Magazine article titled "Switching Within Your Established Dynamic." In this piece, we delve into the many benefits and potential challenges of experimenting with new roles. We also emphasize the significance of effective communication and negotiation and offer practical tips on managing any uncomfortable emotions that may arise. We also provide helpful advice on what to do if you realize that the new role isn't enjoyable.


For more insights, make sure to watch our latest episode of BDSM Bites:


You'll find other episodes of BDSM Bites in our Magazine or on our Youtube channel.


And don't forget THE CAGE Magazine also has a fantastic erotica section filled with original writings from our members.  Why not submit yours too?


Until next time!