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Hello Friends,

I am such a good guy, and it has been a long time, but my wild, reckless, and lawless days ended in 1984. No more sins, no more drugs, no more alcohol, no more Rock and Roll (well, sort of). Running wild in the streets of a city, I am an angel now and not even a devil in disguise. 

I like wild women, but not too wild. Yes, I am stuck at home anyway. So it doesn't matter what I want, dislike, or don't do.

I have a mind and body that don't know when to give up, quit, or admit I am too old for fun now. 

Now, this is my mantra: Too old, not bold, sit down, big clown. Soon, you will be part of the ground and nowhere to be found. LOL

Hello Friends,

Many times in the last year, I found myself in a situation that didn't seem right, and they were incorrect. My gut feeling was right. I often said, "Let me sleep on that." Then, during the middle of the night, I woke up, tossed and turned, returned to the computer, and discovered I was correct. What did I learn? My intuition was right, but if I failed to obey my senses, I wound up taken in by a nefarious and devious person. 

A nefarious and devious person doesn't like it if you hesitate or especially tell them you need to sleep on it. I should have known better and learned vivid lessons: My gut is almost always right with its warning.

Since I was at a disadvantage being socially isolated in a new place to live, I was easy prey for scammers, con artists, and fraud perpetrators. I have learned my lesson well, yet I know time will tell. When I am in a lonely period, I am quietly desperate for a companion to engage with fully. I have to double my guard.

I am committed to caregiving and accept the condition I find myself in because I love the one I care for despite the cost for me in my personal life.

Hello Friends,

What do you like to taste on your lover: butter, honey, candy? Let's see what variety of tastes are used out there. Enter your favorites in the comments.

Hello Friends,

So, you are in a close relationship, and it doesn't matter what the character is beyond "close" or how you define it. In a disagreement, one of you or both are offended, or one of you violates the other's trust. You seek to resolve this situation amicably and as fast as it is prudent. Will one of you win and one of you lose? No. You both must win, or you both will lose. 

During my long years of relationship experience, I discovered that if I impose my solution because I claim to know best, it will cost me in the long run: the relationship suffers. The only real solution I have discovered is one in which we both win. How that is defined depends on those involved and the conflict. 

Both partners may have to give a little to gain a lot. If I impose my way and it damages the relationship, I lose, too. Have your priorities clear and communication truthful and accurate.

Let love win over all.

Hello Friends,

I THINK YOU SHOULD BE AWARE THAT INCEST IS LEGAL IN PARTS OF THE WORLD:

Additionally, no laws prohibit consenting relatives from having sexual relations in France, Belgium, and Luxembourg. Incest is also legal in Argentina, Brazil, India, the Ivory Coast, Japan, Latvia, South Korea, Thailand, and Turkey. In Spain, Netherlands, and Russia, consensual incest is fully legal.

Countries Where Incest Is Legal 2024
 
World Population Reviewhttps://worldpopulationreview.com › country-rankings

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Or is he a relative? In a family like ours spread out and not knowing all the members (legacy of a dysfunctional father), the people I can meet could be related without knowing that: in the last couple of years, my full brothers and I discovered two additional half brothers and their families. My dad was like Johnny Apple seed, only he used his sperm (no, LOL). So, like other families like ours, the chances of meeting a potential mate being related to us are a lot higher than zero (euphemistically). How can you tell who they are without using a DNA test?

Can you determine paternity without DNA testing for paternity?  Not positively. Paternity DNA testing is the only way to know for sure; however, there are tools that may help with providing insight into a possibility of paternity. 1. Date of Conception . . .

2. Eye-Color Test An eye-color paternity test shows how eye color and inherited-trait theory can be used to help estimate paternity.

3. Blood-Type Test A blood-type paternity test can also help eliminate a potential father or determine if paternity is probable

Fourth cousens may not share your DNA. Why does Ancestrydna say my sister is my cousin? 

Someone in this category is likely a brother or sister who shares both biological parents with you. In the rare situation that you have a half sibling who is also your first cousin, they may appear in this category too.Mar 28, 2022

 

Can I marry my sister by accident? Accidental incest is still illegal.

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In other words, incest is sexual contact between close blood relatives, including brothers and sisters, parents and children, grandparents and grandchildren, or aunts or uncles with nephews or nieces. Incest is a crime in all states, even if consensual by both parties. 

Hello Friends,

I do not know anyone who doesn't like roses, but I also enjoy the smell of sweet roses: spearmint, roasting coffee, fresh bread baking, honeysuckle, and hyacinths. In spices, I love ginger (it is my all-time favorite) and freshly ground black and white pepper. I also love caraway seeds, sesame seeds, poppy seeds, celery seeds, cumin, and vanilla.  Many fruits are tantalizing. While many people do not think about it, men and women smell differently. Remove the bacteria fermenting, and you may discover something that will surprise you: You love the smell of your lover (it may even be subconscious).

Most of us know our pets have fragrances (or odors), and I had two Manchester Terries that I recognized by their scent (how do you like that, my K9 buddies?); the scent on each was distinct and pleasing. Scents are also learned, like cheeses, beverages, and foods.

We tend to remove or mask our natural scents in the modern world, destroying the "chemistry" we seek. I tell my lovers not to use scented soap, do not use cologne or perfume bath simply, and I'll do the same and let's see what happens.  Of course, we all have odors from various parts of our bodies sometimes, but this is not what I am referring to. Smells of love.¹

Does female arousal have a smell?
Taken together, the current findings are among the first to show that that women's sexual arousal led to the release of a distinctive scent that increases men's sexual motivation.

What does the scent of a woman do to a man?
Summary: Men evaluated the scent of sexually aroused women as more attractive and expressed an increase in their sexual motivations. Findings suggest the chemical signal of scent alone can elicit a sexual response in men.

Can guys smell when a girl is ovulating?
Human males also detect the high-fertility (ovulatory) period in women by bodily odour [4], which may act as a form of sexual stimulant for men [5, 6].

^{OK, men, you, too, have scents that can attract a woman.2}

^{Androstenol is the scent produced by fresh male sweat, and is attractive to females. Androstenone is produced by male sweat after exposure to oxygen – i.e. when less fresh – and is perceived as highly unpleasant by females (except during ovulation, when their responses change from 'negative' to 'neutral').}

^{Why does my boyfriend have a specific smell? 3
Each individual possesses a unique combination of genetic markers that contribute to their natural scent. This personalised fragrance becomes intertwined with memories and emotions, creating a distinct olfactory identity.Dec 6, 2023}

^{People also ask}

^{What scent is the most seductive?
Aphrodisiac scents include pumpkin, lavender, vanilla, cinnamon, peppermint, ambrette, ylang-ylang, ginger, and more. Despite some skepticism around the use of aphrodisiacs, studies show that many of these aromas do work — they can be easily incorporated into anyone's fragrance routine.Mar 1, 2023}

1  As a library, NLM provides access to scientific literature. Inclusion in an NLM database does not imply endorsement of, or agreement with, the contents by NLM or the National Institutes of Health.

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Hello Friends,

I believe in Parallel Universes. As a physics major graduate offered a full scholarship to Princeton University (turned it down) in Astro Physics, I find that the ideas and theories in cosmology are nothing new. The theory of a "Multiverse"¹ is personal for me because the theory hasn't been proven yet, and I am sold on the idea. No, though I love good science fiction, this is not what I am talking about. 

In the fictional versions, numerous permutations play with this concept: 1, Jumping from one universe to another, 2, two or more universes colliding, and 3, visitors from another (or alternate) universe. You may be familiar with these popular TV series, two of my favorites: 2 Sliders and Fringe.

It is my personal experiences that convinced me. I am walking down the familiar street, and suddenly, I blink, and it is just a little different. I am driving my car, and it seems inevitable I am about to be involved in a severe auto accident. I blink my eyes, and I discover I am continuing unscathed. Typical episodes of De Ja Vu or people claiming to know me whom I believe I never met. There are many "Y" sections in life's path: go right or left, and that is the question. I try to take the route that has been taken less. See: The Road Less Traveled,[7] published in 1978, is Peck's best-known work.³ The Road Not Taken  BY ROBERT FROST.

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;

 

Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,

 

And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

 

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.

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Hello Friends,

We know visual stimulation is powerful; the sight of a woman lying on her stomach with her ass propped up a little is a powerful arousing image for me, shaved pussy or not. I am drawn to that image, and if I stare too long, fantasies begin to dominate my mind. Exploring the entire woman visually is so inviting I am almost unable to think of anything else. I start to create a plan of how I will examine her loveliness, sometimes with spontaneity methodically, with Variations in the appearance of pussies and nipples having various effects on me. It is time to feel.

Now, the map in my mind is drawn, and I plan my touch strategy: light touches and light strokes to massage like exploration with my hands. Then I begin to taste her, kiss and lick, and she gives signs of encouragement whenever I hit the right spot. A moan, heavier breathing, maybe a yell. And all the while, she is exploring me.

Occasionally, we pause and focus or let our partner focus on the delivery of pleasure. The whole process can be repeated throughout the entire time we are together. Maybe a rest in between when it starts all over again.

I conclude that sight and touch are essential, and how you perceive and use them determines how long a love-making session lasts.

Or, how long you want it to last.

Hello Friends,

Now that I am older and less able to engage in life as I once did, memories often fill my days. Circumstances have left me with most of my friends and relatives no longer "with us." So what do we, older people who prefer not to watch TV reruns and old movies all day or feel nostalgic all the time? I would instead still engage in life for real, but that seems to be a challenge for me now.

Imagination, dreams, and fantasies can go a long way for me these days. I can imagine what I used to do or would do if given the chance. On the more exotic side, I can be creative with my imaginings to the point that they become pure fantasy. The best internal experience comes in dreams, especially if I am fortunate to have lucid dreams. 

In dreams, I can be as I was when I was young and athletic, able to accomplish things that are a bit of a challenge for an old man. I can do things beyond possible, like fly around and travel the earth at will to unique places (better than with virtual reality goggles).

So, I am off on another adventure as my day permits when I am not "minding the farm."

Hello Friends,

How lovers approach one another can significantly affect how and to what degree arousal occurs. The timing of eye contact moments can make or break the rate and degree of passion. During oral sex, I have read that some givers enjoy watching the receiver as they work their magic and put every ounce of energy into giving pleasure. They become highly aroused as this proceeds.

A lover pointed out to me many years ago that I enjoyed seeing her as I aroused more and more, and I didn't realize until she correctly labeled my giving her oral sex as the trigger for my becoming very aroused. Likewise, she reciprocated, but her giving me oral sex was more like her being wholly focused on my penis, like it was the only part of my body she was making love to.

In our case, we learned to prepare for copulating and timing our climax at the exact moment at least 90% of the time. Successful foreplay? Derived from knowing what we liked and what we responded to best.

Communication and observation. Also, it would be best if you cared enough about your lover to keep them in mind.