Updates From THE CAGE Team

Happy almost..May!  We hope you're having a fun and kinky spring!

We have some exicting updates here on THE CAGE to make flirting and connecting easier.  These include an enhanced "Loves" feature and some new useful tools in BOND, our Premium instant messenger.

Updates to Loves — An Improved Way to Make Connections

We've improved Loves to give you more ways to show appreciation for other members, whether that's a flirt, a spark of connection, or simply liking someone's profile.

You can now:

• View your Loves by clicking the heart icon on your own profile

• See Loved Me, which shows members who have loved your profile

• See I Loved, which shows profiles you've loved

• Receive notifications for Loves and Mutual Loves when two members have both loved each other

New to Loves? Simply visit a profile that catches your attention and click the heart icon beneath their name to connect.

Loves remain a discreet, low-pressure way to show appreciation, flirt, or connect with other members.  And it's available to everyone!  Premium members do get a useful perk to this feature - a time stamp on every love - a handy reference.

And speaking of Premium...

New in BOND — Smarter Conversations for Premium Members

Reply to Messages

You can now reply directly to specific messages in a conversation.

When you reply, your message will quote the original message and place your response directly underneath it. This keeps everything in context and makes conversations easier to follow, especially in active chats.  Just right click on the message and select 'reply'.

Hush Conversations

You can now Hush any BOND conversation to remove it from view and stop notifications from that chat.

This gives you more control without needing to block or delete anything.

You can unhush a conversation at any time and everything will remain intact.

Hush is not the same as blocking. It simply silences and hides the conversation from view.

Thank you for being part of THE CAGE! If you're enjoying THE CAGE, we'd really appreciate your support by considering Premium. It helps us continue building and improving features, and keeps the community running. And, of course, there are loads of exclusive Premium features to enjoy.

Check out Help section for more info on both of these new features.

Until next time....

Our new two-part series in THE CAGE Magazine, Relationship Crossroads, is now live, starting with Ready for Anything. We explore how to protect yourself and your partner while making sure you’re still taking care of yourself and prepared for whatever might come next.

From financial independence to maintaining autonomy and planning for the unexpected, the article offers practical ideas for keeping your dynamic secure and balanced.

Watch for Part 2, Dynamic Breakdown, where we’ll talk about how to recognize when it might be time to end a dynamic, and how to do so safely and responsibly.

There are lots more great reads in THE CAGE Magazine, so be sure to check it out.

Follow this blog more announcements and updates.

Until next time...

We’re excited to introduce a new feature in THE CAGE Magazine, our Podcaster Spotlight!  Meet the people behind the BDSM & Kink podcasts you can listen to, right here on THE CAGE.

Our first feature is with Princess Rara from the Pink Kink Podcast. She answers questions about her experience as a host, what led her to start her show, and also shares some some thoughts about kink from her perspective.

Check out our Podcaster Spotlight with Princess Rara from Pink Kink here. 

You can listen to all episodes of the Pink Kink Podcast and many other great shows on THE CAGE’s curated podcast feed, where you can subscribe, comment, and love your favourite episodes.

Have a favourite kinky podcast you'd like to see included?  Let us know in the comments.

Until next time...

We hope you've had a great March! We have a couple of updates that will make managing your privacy here much easier.

THE CAGE now offers new filters so you can decide who can message you first. You can filter by age range, gender, verification status, and membership level. Please note that these settings only apply to new conversations. Existing conversations will remain available regardless of your updated preferences.

All users can access these filters in Mail and under Preferences/Privacy. Premium members can also find them in BOND, THE CAGE’s Premium-only instant messenger.

AND...

Premium members can now send self-destructing images in Mail!

How does it work? When sending an image in CAGE Mail, Premium members will see a self-destruct option. Once enabled, the image will disappear after it has been viewed, removing it from both inboxes and deleting it from our servers.

Just a quick note of caution. It is still possible for someone to capture an image from their screen, so please use care when sharing personal images or information.

We hope you enjoy these new ways to manage your privacy!

What to learn more about all the Premium perks or just want to support THE CAGE community? Learn more here.

Until next time...

It's spring...almost...maybe?  Hopefully!  And that means it’s a great time to take a fresh look at things, including our dynamics.   With that in mind our latest article in THE CAGE Magazine, Setting the Rules, offers practical guidance for creating fair and effective rules for your submissive. From defining expectations to maintaining consistency, the article will help ensure rules aren't a pointless exercise, but rather add value to your relationships.

Don't forget to add your thoughts in the comments.

Until next time....

If your D/s dynamic is mostly online, or you are curious about exploring it at a distance, you won’t want to miss our latest CAGE Magazine article, Online Punishments. Here we take a look at how to discipline and even punish remotely, including how to determine when discipline is warranted.

Discover the difference between punishments and funishments, learn how to handle safety and consent when you aren’t in the same space, and find creative punishment ideas, whether you are playing casually or engaged in something more intense. Don’t miss it! We also have many other related articles, so be sure to check out all the great content inTHE CAGE Magazine.

Until next time...

We’re excited to let you know that THE CAGE’s podcast feed has been enhanced and updated to make listening more fun and interactive than ever. You’ll find a wide range of podcasts covering all things kink and BDSM, and now it’s easier than ever to follow, interact with, and enjoy the shows you love.

You can now comment on and love episodes, get alerts when new episodes drop, and enjoy our upgraded player that streams episodes smoothly right on THE CAGE.

Whether you’re a longtime listener or checking out the feed for the first time, there’s plenty to explore and more ways to interact than ever before. Jump in and see what’s new.  You'll even find lots of new pods to explore!

Oh, and if you know of a kink or BDSM podcast you'd like to see included, give us a shout.

Explore the new Podcast Feed.

We’ve almost made it through January—hang in there! To help you get through, we’ve got some intriguing reading and updates to share.

First up, check out our brand new article in THE CAGE Magazine: Blackmail Play Uncovered! This is a tricky topic, so we’ll start with a disclaimer: REAL BLACKMAIL IS ILLEGAL ALMOST EVERYWHERE, even if all parties consent. That said, if the idea intrigues you, you want to explore a little roleplay, and you’re committed to keeping yourself and your partners safe, this article is a must-read.

For our Premium members, you can now make your blog visible or hidden anytime you like. We’ve also made uploading images for blogs simpler than ever. And for all users, the Find Friends search now supports multiple selections, making it easier to connect with others.

And here’s my usual reminder: upgrading to Premium is a fantastic way to support our community plus you get loads of amazing features in return.  Find out more about upgrading here.

Until next time....

Thinking of making this the year you attend your first BDSM munch or play party? Check out our latest article in THE CAGE Magazine: Your First Munch or Play Party: A Beginner’s Survival Guide. From navigating your first event to tips on etiquette and safety, it’s packed with guidance for anyone stepping into the scene for the first time.

If you’re looking for an event, don’t miss our Events Calendar, which includes both in-person and online events (yes, there are such things as virtual munches and meetups!). Keep an eye on what’s happening, and feel free to promote your own events too!

We also have a couple of updates for our Premium members: we’ve added a new option alongside our Block feature. You can now mute users, allowing them to see your content but preventing them from contacting you. You can even set a timer to make a mute temporary. Learn more about how Mute and Block features work in our Help section.

Premium members also have additional options for who can contact them via CAGE Mail or BOND, our Premium instant messenger. These controls can now be found at the top of CAGE Mail, as well as in Preferences > Privacy. 

You can learn more about Premium benefits and how to support our community by upgrading here.  

Until next time....

We're heading in to mid-November with the first in our three part 'Deeper'  penetration series in THE CAGE Magazine: Go Deeper With Strap On Play.  This brand new article has tips for harness and dildo selection, as well as practical recommendations and play ideas.  It's a handy resource for both the experienced player looking to give it another go or those looking to try it out for the first time.  Don't miss it!

We're also pleased to share a couple of site updates.  We've expanded our 'Block' feature so that blocked users can no longer view your profile or see your blog.  You can learn more about how 'Block' works by visiting our Help section.

We've also added tags and search to our Magazine.  This will make finding articles that interest you even easier.  We have some amazing resources there that you really shouldn't miss.

Until next time...