Updates From THE CAGE Team

Thinking of making this the year you attend your first BDSM munch or play party? Check out our latest article in THE CAGE Magazine: Your First Munch or Play Party: A Beginner’s Survival Guide. From navigating your first event to tips on etiquette and safety, it’s packed with guidance for anyone stepping into the scene for the first time.

If you’re looking for an event, don’t miss our Events Calendar, which includes both in-person and online events (yes, there are such things as virtual munches and meetups!). Keep an eye on what’s happening, and feel free to promote your own events too!

We also have a couple of updates for our Premium members: we’ve added a new option alongside our Block feature. You can now mute users, allowing them to see your content but preventing them from contacting you. You can even set a timer to make a mute temporary. Learn more about how Mute and Block features work in our Help section.

Premium members also have additional options for who can contact them via CAGE Mail or BOND, our Premium instant messenger. These controls can now be found at the top of CAGE Mail, as well as in Preferences > Privacy. 

You can learn more about Premium benefits and how to support our community by upgrading here.  

Until next time....

We're heading in to mid-November with the first in our three part 'Deeper'  penetration series in THE CAGE Magazine: Go Deeper With Strap On Play.  This brand new article has tips for harness and dildo selection, as well as practical recommendations and play ideas.  It's a handy resource for both the experienced player looking to give it another go or those looking to try it out for the first time.  Don't miss it!

We're also pleased to share a couple of site updates.  We've expanded our 'Block' feature so that blocked users can no longer view your profile or see your blog.  You can learn more about how 'Block' works by visiting our Help section.

We've also added tags and search to our Magazine.  This will make finding articles that interest you even easier.  We have some amazing resources there that you really shouldn't miss.

Until next time...

Polyamory can give you a sense of freedom and excitement, as well as new paths for personal growth.  It also asks for clear communication, self-awareness, and hardcore emotional honesty  And of course, consent - it's not polyamory if everyone hasn't agreed to it.  This time in THE CAGE Magazine, we look at what it means to open your relationship and consider whether this kind of dynamic feels right for you.

Read Opening Up to Polyamory. 

Don't forget to share your thoughts in the comments section.

Also, we're pleased to announce new features to make blogging on THE CAGE even better, with more ways to share your writing and connect with others.  You can now...

Pin your blog posts (Premium feature)
Premium members can now pin multiple posts to the top of their blog. It's a great way to feature introductions, story series, or posts that are important to you. 

Tags for your blogs
You can now add tags to your posts to help readers find writing that interests them. Tags also make it easier for you to search and explore topics and stories that match what you want to read.   You can use the 'Popular tags' button to explore too!

Curious about the other Premium features? Premium membership offers extra ways to connect, including Premium placement in search and member lists, private notes, and BOND, our instant messenger. And of course, you're supporting our comunity!  Explore all of the benefits of Premium here:

And finally - how's Locktober going for you?  If you're participating, either as a locker or lockee, share your experiences with us in your blog.

Until next time...

Locktober is here and it is the perfect chance to challenge yourself or your partner while discovering the fun in chastity play.

If you are new to the idea, Locktober is a month long challenge where participants remain locked in chastity for all of October. It is about exploring restraint, self control, and the thrill of tease and denial. Some enjoy it for discipline, some for intimacy, and many simply for the kinky fun.

To help you along the way, we have put together a collection of articles from THE CAGE Magazine that you might find useful during your journey:

Unlocking Fun: The Locktober Challenge
Tease and Denial 101
6 Weeks Chastity Challenge
Orgasm Denial: The Fun in Not Coming

Whether you are just starting out or looking to deepen your play, these resources offer plenty of ideas and inspiration.

You can also take advantage of the Lock feature on your CAGE profile. It allows you to track your own Locktober challenge or your partner’s so you can stay engaged and accountable throughout the month.

And if you are looking for play partners or want to let others know you are available, be sure to check out Seeking on THE CAGE. It is a great way to connect with like minded people who might be just as excited about Locktober as you are.

Until next time...

Happy September, CAGE!

We hope you’ve had a wonderful summer and are looking forward to cozying up with us this autumn.

First of all, don’t miss our newest article in THE CAGE Magazine, Titles That Bind. It explores how titles can shape relationships and includes examples of popular ones and how they are used.

We’ve also made some updates we think you’ll find useful:

• Along with many other filters, you can now search specifically for Verified Users in Find Friends
• Verified icons now appear in chat
• Sending images through CAGE Mail is now open to all users
• The “Other” role has been updated to Kinky, a more descriptive general term
• Blocked/Blocking users no longer appear on “users who liked your profile” lists

Just a reminder: you can find answers to many common questions in our Help section. And of course, you can always reach out to me directly.

As always, a big hank you to everyone who supports our community, shares it with others, and makes new members feel welcome. Every bit of support matters. If upgrading feels right for you, Premium offers lots of great features like private instant chat, voice and video calling, priority placement in Seeking ads and Find Friends, and a lot of other bells and whistles.  Check it out here.

Until next time...

We’re excited to let you know that Two-Factor Authentication (2FA) is now rolling out on THE CAGE.  2FA gives your account an extra layer of protection against unauthorized access. Even if someone ever learns your password, they won’t be able to sign in without also confirming through 2FA. Making your account, messages, and personal information safer.

When you sign in and enter your password, you’ll receive an email with a secure link and a 6-digit code. Just click the link or enter the code to complete your sign-in. It’s quick, easy, and helps verify it’s really you. Once confirmed, your device will be remembered for about 90 days, so you won’t need to repeat the process every time.

You’ll only be asked for 2FA again if you sign in on a new device or if it’s been a while since your last confirmation.

Don't hesitate to contact us if you have any questions or run in to any issues.  

Until next time...

Curious about the appeal of NOT having an orgasm?  Our latest CAGE Magazine article, Orgasm Denial: The Fun in Not Coming, explores the thrill of edging, chastity play, and holding back, showing how sometimes not reaching the finish line can make the experience even more intense.

Want more? Check out our related articles:

6 Weeks From Chastity Device Beginner To 24/7 Chastity Slave
BDSM 101: Tease & Denial

And of course, there's that fun little lock feature on your profile that you can use to test yourself or a playmate.

Until next time...

Summer is here with longer nights and hotter days, making it the perfect time to check your toy bag or, if you don't have one yet, start putting one together.

THE CAGE Magazine’s latest article, Kink Essentials for Your Toy Bag, offers practical tips and suggestions to help you choose the right toys, care for them properly, and keep all your essentials ready for every scene.

Inside the article, you will find
• A list of versatile items every toy bag should include
• Clear advice on caring for your gear
• Tips on staying prepared and intentional with your play

And here's our friendly reminder...

If you enjoy being part of THE CAGE, support the community by spreading the word and, if you can, upgrading to Premium Your contribution helps keep the space thriving and unlocks extra features just for you.

Until next time....

Check out our latest CAGE Magazine article:  Subfrenzy Explained: A Guide to Staying Safe and Centered.  Here we explore the emotional surge submissives can experience when delving into kink too fast. It’s common, often misunderstood, and can cause challenges in D/s relationships. Learn what it is, why it happens, and how to stay grounded. A must-read for anyone exploring power exchange dynamics.

Site Updates to Enhance Your Experience

We’ve made several improvements to help you connect more easily and get the most out of your time on the site

New Seeking filters to narrow your search and find exactly what you’re looking for
Blog filters to surface writing that matches your interests
Priority placement for Premium Members at the top of lists
Automatic draft saving in Mail so your messages are never lost
New call button on Premium profiles for faster voice and video connections

Until next time...

June is a time to celebrate love, identity, freedom and the beautiful diversity of our community. At THE CAGE we proudly stand with the LGBTQ+ community and are committed to being a safe, inclusive and supportive space for all. No matter your orientation, gender identity or expression, you are seen, you are valued and you belong here.

We also want to remind everyone that while we ask members to avoid posting general political content, this does not include posts or discussions about sexual freedom, queer or trans rights or kink visibility. These conversations are not only welcome, they are an important part of who we are as a community. Your voice, your story and your pride matter here.

Please feel free to share content that reflects your identity and supports others in theirs. Pride is not just a month. It is a celebration of who we are every day.

Until next time...