35 y/o
Calgary, Alberta
Princess looking for her Sadistic Teddy Bear
First of all, I would like to thank you for taking the time to open my post and give me a chance to introduce myself.
About me
I am Butterfly, a 30 year old female sub/little. I am a switch. I currently am looking to explore my sub/little side.
One big point that I want to get out of the way is that I am married. Yes, my husband knows that I am looking for a partner and he is supportive. My husband is also kinky and we met when I replied to an ad of his seeking a submissive. However, currently our kink is only in the bedroom and I am seeking more (I will go into this more later).
Personality wise, I am sweet and cute and like to have fun. I am not a very serious person. I like to giggle and talk and love making new friends. I have a bit (or a lot) of brat in me. I like to push buttons and call people silly names. I also love finding loop holes. At the end of the day, I am obedient and always do what I am supposed to.
Looks wise, I am a BBW. Because of this, I am very self conscious at times, however I am on a journey to love myself and my husband has been monumental in that journey. I need somebody who can adore me for the person I am, in the body that I have and who can see past my weight and see my inner beauty.
I consider myself a little. This is an area I haven’t explored too much yet, but I love to be cuddled and taken care of. I love Disney and glitter and cookies and tsum tsums and eeyore and coloring! I have been exploring the use of my pacifier and bottle during little time. Being a little is something I want to explore a bit more in the near future, so if you have Daddy tendencies, I think we would be a good fit.
I love sex toys!!! I own over 130 different toys ranging from nipple clamps, e-stim, impact play and of course lots of plugs and vibes. I love to give advice and reviews on toys as well.
My likes are pretty extensive, I love toys, anal play, impact play, sensory play, orgasm control (NO LONG TERM DENIAL), teasing/edging, and playing with ice. I love to try and experience new things. There are very few things that are put into my limits without trying it at least once.
Speaking of my limits, the biggest one for me is name calling. I came from an abusive background and I do not tolerate being called things such as “slut”, “bitch” or anything similar. Any negative terms are not for me, and I will not call others those words either. I have a few others that we can discuss as well if you choose to respond to my ad.
If you enjoy handing out punishments, I am not the sub for you. I take punishments seriously and it is the worst thing ever to need one. I need a Dom who does not want me to fail so that he can punish me. You should be fair: give some leniency where warranted, but strict when needed. If a punishment is needed, I believe that the punishment should fit the offence.
What I am looking for
As I stated above, I am a switch. I find that I am in Domme mod a lot of the time. I need a Dom who is able to pull me back into that subby mindset. Who can allow me to feel vulnerable and fully submit to him. This takes a very Dommy personality. This doesn't have to be somebody who is very strict, etc.
As I mentioned, I am married. My husband is an amazing man and we still do kink in the bedroom. However, we do not have rules or a lot of play and that is something that I really crave.
I am looking for a man who is around my age or older. You should be mature, able to carry on a conversation outside of kink, and be caring and attentive. I like attention from my Daddy/Dom.
I would love to find somebody to grow a long term dynamic with. I have a list of things that I would like to try (fear play, light humiliation, hidden public, etc.) and some limits (gags as an example) that I would love to push, but I need a partner who I can build up trust with in order to do that.
I am ideally looking for an in person dynamic, however, am open to meeting those who can travel or an online dynamic if you have the time.
So ... if you read this far, please feel free to send me a message. I don't bite (that's your job ;) )
February 12, 2020 at 7:44 PM