Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  India

looking for someone to own me and control me

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40 y/o      Arkansas

I know I’m looking for something a little uncommon for the site and the lifestyle, but figured that I would throw it out here anyways…

I’m looking for something to develop into a monogamous relationship with D/s foundation… Looking good conversation, intelligence, preferably for a man older and hopefully experienced in the lifestyle as a Dominant… please read my bio for further insight on me… my inbox is open ?

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  Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

I want to see if there is a Dom match for me
I have had a not so recent breakup its was agreed upon so no big deal but I really miss the connection with a Dom who treats me right
I know this is a long shot but hey why not try
If you want to know more about me on this site I am called Low
Tri state area to Philly preferred

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  United States

hi!! i'm a 20 year old college student looking for a master for online play. im on EST time and prefer someone who can chat mostly at night, because I'm in class during the day. a bit about me:
-im heavier than most girls- 5'8 240lbs
-unshaven and like to keep it that way
-looking for TPE during play, CnC play, RP, degradation, etc
-only limits that i've discovered are scat, blood, and any permanent damage
-i will not video chat with you until trust is built over time, but im comfortable sending photos and videos
check out my profile and let me know if you're interested :-)

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  Texas

I am looking for a submissive/dom relationship, and from someone located in Texas. I'm not interested in only online relationships and will not be likely to reply back if you live out of my state. I am unable to move due to personal commitments. Looking for single dominant, no poly relationships, or open marriages. Looking in the 27-55 age range. Curvy body type.

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  Plano, Texas

Searching for my Daddy/Master/Owner. Looking for someone who is serious, Dominant, and wants long term. With me. I prefer in person, but online is completely acceptable if serious about meeting and becoming a true Dominant/submissive/Master/slave relationship. If you have any questions ask and I’ll answer ☺️

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26 y/o      Guelph, Ontario

I'm looking for someone or people who want tu own me as nothing more than a sex doll a object with no human rights just to be owned and used by people
Sign ma human rights away. I'll be a good sex doll only doing what I'm told and never talk unless told tu

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39 y/o      Wisconsin

I am a rusty sub in search of a committed online Dom. For you to be my Sir, I am expecting to be a priority in your life. I will be thinking of you constantly as my Sir…how I should dress for you…how I should act as yours. All I ask in return is to be an important part of your life. I want to do daily tasks for you. I want to communicate and bond with you. I want to please you. I am picky and expect an adequate profile or introductory message. I am a masochistic rope bunny who likes to be pushed to her limits.

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  Denver, Colorado

I am a babygirl/ bratty side little. I need a Daddy who will actually get to know me. I am not an easy Sub to collar and I don't want sadistic Doms or any rough play. I am seeking a real dynamic only with a Daddy Dom. I am a live in and am not looking to relocate and not looking for online or any Dominance over text or email. I'm very touch oriented and need actual physical touch. If you believe that you are my forever Daddy please respond with how you will take care of me. I am not here to support anyone financially.
Look forward to hearing from you Forever Daddy

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  United Kingdom

Hi everyone and thanks for clicking on my post.

What I’m looking for is an experienced Dom, older than 45, who would be willing to support and mentor me as an inexperienced and relative newbie- a ‘foster’ Dom, if you like, as I don’t feel I’m ready for a dynamic yet.

What I’m ideally looking for is someone with a high level of intelligence, time to share and happy to know me as a human being as well as a helping me explore what it means to be a submissive.

For me submission and obedience is freedom but I want to make sure that when I’m ready to gift that, I will be the best I can be.

If this sounds of any interest to you, please drop me a message!

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  United States

Looking for a dominant male to teach me new things. Need to live close to Peoria IL.

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44 y/o      United States

I am looking for my forever Dom. I crave the mental and spiritual connection this lifestyle offers. I want to have complete trust and eventually have TPE

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  United Kingdom

I am looking for a real relationship. I have anxiety and am very unsure around people until I know them well. I am naturally very submissive and I find making decisions very stressful. I am looking for someone to spoil me but also take charge when I need it. I would prefer to get to know each other online before meeting in person. I would be willing to relocate down the line if necessary. My dream in life is to be a housewife. I am 23, 5'7 and Plus size though am trying to lose weight. I am educated privately and have a degree. I am looking for someone ambitious and strict, but caring and gentle. I would prefer someone taller than me as despite my size I like to feel small.

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29 y/o      Ohio

I am posting a slightly updated ad: I am looking for a kind and dominant daddy who is understanding, but will also not put up with any mild tantrums I might have. I thrive on rules, structure, and praise. I need a dom that is comfortable with age play. Even though I’d like to consider myself intelligent and educated, I enjoy mentally regressing to a point where I can not worry about the adult world. I am a very sensitive person and need a Daddy who understands that. I want to be taken care of in essentially every aspect of life. I work a full time career in restaurant management and desire to be taken care of in my life outside of work. What I’m looking for is more of a lifestyle partner rather than a scene-by-scene arrangement. I do own my own house so relocation isn’t my first choice, but it’s also not an end all. I love stuffed animals and footie pajamas. Teddy bears are my favorite. If interested please check out my profile and send me a message with a photo please :)

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  Iowa City, Iowa

Hi! I’m looking for a Dom who is stern but caring. I live in Iowa, so you must be local to me and willing to not only discipline me when needed but have fun too! I love spankings….they are my favorite!!
Please look at the rest of my profile for more info on me. Thanks!!

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33 y/o      Canada

Hello. I am looking for a partner for hopefully a long term written roleplay involving Stockholm syndrome, non con, sadism etc. Limits and kinks will be discussed. I would be playing the sub in this scenario.
This is a scenario I've wanted to explore for a long time now and am curious if anyone else is into written roleplay too. Please take a look at my profile for a bit more information about myself and feel free to message me. ?

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  Bradenton, Florida

Looking to be Master or Sirs kitty cat princess submissive brat all rolled into one.

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37 y/o      Springfield, Massachusetts

Sexually submissive woman here looking to learn more About herself I this arena that she wants to play in desperately. Yes I am new to the lifestyle but I also am deeply intrigued and interested for more.

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  Las Vegas, Nevada

Wanting a master

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  Los Angeles, California

I am 23 years old and fairly new to this. I have always had a love for BDSM and domination. I dream of being a little play pet and cum slut for a lucky master. Due to circumstances I am limited to online play but that still excites me. Tell me, how would you play with me and use me?

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41 y/o      Lancaster, California

Sub seeking her Dom
I have been apart of this site for only 24 hours now and I have had some good people contact me. I'm truly a little taken a back with the instant arousal that I received from just hearing someone voice, it truly shocked me.

I'm am new to this whole lifestyle and I'm curious about it. I have never been in a Dom and Sub relationship before but I'm seeking something different ( a different type of experience that brings arousal). I am a fast learner and I can at time show an aggressive side or Dominant side, I much rather be a Sub though. I write exotic poetry, maybe I will share with the right person.

My Dom is out there and I'm just waiting for you to find me Sir.

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  Bellingham, Washington

37w / Washington state looking for a Mommy or Daddy to submit to and be given structure to. Very loyal and affectionate. Sexually flexible with most kinks and good for multiple sessions a night. Can start online or in person

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  Salinas, California

My name is Danielle I am writing this ad in hopes of finding myself a suitable Dom/Daddy . I'm looking for a real life type of dynamic but for now an online relationship is fine.TpE is really what I'm looking for.i want to be controlled 24/7 in every aspect of my life and loved and adored at the same time.when I misbehave I need to be punished so I learn what's okay and what's not.i prefer my partner to be shorter than me I'm 6 foot 2 so ......I also prefer my partner to be older than me .long hair is a plus tho not necessary. A beard even better again tho not necessary.hopefully you will be darker than me white is good tho just on the tanner side.my partner would be strict and I'm also looking for a long term committed relationship .I'd like to meet a man who wants to settle down and have kids.i am very submissive and need a experienced Dom .if this sounds like you feel free to get ahold of me. Till than take care and happy hunting.

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  Muscatine, Iowa

21yr old female from Iowa looking for a caregiver. Preferred age range 20-28 yrs. Looking for a platonic caregiver and is fine with a open relationship. Needs someone to help with my age regression, as well as, reminding me to stick with routine. Online only is fine, however I wouldn’t mind meeting in person every once in a while if possible.

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49 y/o      New South Wales

I am looking for a Dom/master or Sir to take me and use me rough be forceful like to be tied up choked anal face fucking and I love impact play. I am honest trust worthy I will submit to the right Dom. If you think you could be what I am looking for please message me.
I will not do online I need the touch of a man. I live Central Coast NSW

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  Austria

I'm new here and looking for my dominant daddy!

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35 y/o      Lavonia, Georgia

I'm new to this and looking for a Dom.

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  Texas

Hello, I’m looking for someone who Can teach me to be submissive and disciplined. Someone who doesn’t mind if we don’t talk about sex all the time. Someone who can conquer my mind and know my body is truly theirs. He has to be strong and kind. But love to get pictures and hear about my day. And I want to be all of those things for him and more

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36 y/o      Dayton, Ohio

I am new to submission but have spent the last 3 years learning about bdsm as a lifestyle, the different roles, and different forms of submission. i have learned alot about myself, but mostly in theory. I am looking for a dom who is patient but strict, gentle but assertive, confident but not egotistical. i am looking for someone online for now, but i am open to the potential for an IRL situation if things progress that far.

things to know before messaging me:
i will not rush into any situation rather online or IRL so if i feel pressured i will end communication.
I may be new to submission but in many areas, i know what i want and what i do not. see my limits below.
i will say no only once. if you do not respect that i will end communication

limits: blood, scars, animal play, age play, urine/scat.

I look forward to hearing from you.

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  Crown Point, New York

I'm fairly new to this lifestyle I've had one other daddy but he didn't give me the attention an structure I needed an the distance was hard. Open to distance long as irl is a possibility. I'm looking for a daddy who also wants a real relationship as I can't do this without one, also someone who can handle me on my bad days an has experience with mental health issues as I have a couple. I'm mostly described as a brat, primal, middle

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  Indiana

Hello, I am an attractive 5’5 female looking for a dom the ages of 25-50. I am looking for a dom that is encouraging and helps me achieve. comforting and romantic, but also strict/stern when needed. I’m looking for a stable & attractive (ATTRACTIVE) dom. only interested in EXPERIENCED doms

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  Salem, Oregon

Let me please you ?

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  New Jersey

I am looking for an older daddy to train me and control me I am very sexual and love to please my daddy

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  United Kingdom

Hi!
i am 19f brat from UK
I have recently been working on expanding my knowledge and experience in the BDSM world and i am now looking to delve a bit deeper
Hope youre all well and looking forward to chatting with you

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  South Carolina

I crave to serve. I am looking for someone who I can have a good connection with inside and outside the bedroom. I tend to be attracted to people who can knock me down a peg sometimes. I want you to be rough with me and tough on me.
I also long for structure and rules. I don’t want to make all the decisions for myself, I want you to have the most say. I want to make my decisions because they please you and satisfy your needs. I want you to control more aspects of my life than just sexual. Control my clothes, my bedtimes, my bathroom breaks, etc.
I am ultimately looking for someone I can serve in person to actually fulfill my sexual needs and treat me like their little slut. However, I am willing to chat online for now too. If this interests you, feel free to message me.

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  California

Hello everyone :) I’m new to this site but figured I’d give this a try. I am looking for a daddy dom/ gentle Dom type of relationship (although I don’t mind some bruises and bites etc hehe). I am really hoping to find someone that is kind and can communicate well. I am an open book and happy to answer anything! Would love to connect with someone in California where I live

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40 y/o      Memphis, Tennessee

I have been mentored. But have not had actual Dom collar me and Mr fully submit to a man yet. If that could mr you message only she's 35 to 50 irl willing trl. But first chat
Text. Video chat

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32 y/o      Georgia

I need appropriate attention.

Eventual verification by both parties as to their identities must be provided, not assumed by either party.

A connection has to be made and boundaries respected that are stated. Honesty and transparency are the foundation of trust.

I need to be spoiled.

I want clear communication, always. Again, nothing is to be assumed by either party.

I want possibility of in person pain play should I desire.

I need to know I am wanted, through all of my stages of healing from surgery and everything else.

I need someone willing to put in the time and effort to establish structure so that all parties can benefit from it.

I crave structure and need it especially in this time in my life. I am willing to do task completion once trust is established.

Check out my profile for more in depth information about myself and like my profile or message me if able to. ☺️

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  Weatherford, Oklahoma

24 year old nerd. Not comfortable with men over the age of 30.

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  Princeton, New Jersey

My submission is primarily in the bedroom. Outside looking for a natural leader as I am a free spirit. The relationship would ideally be based on trust, honesty and communication.
I am in NJ and looking for a life partner within 10 years of my age.

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  New Jersey

47, married female,...sshhhhh, hubby doesn't know about my extracurricular needs....if this is an issue for you...you're welcome for saving you time...stop reading...if you are continuing to read, I will not take the blame....hehehe....would love to find someone near me for something ongoing yet discreet...I have a wonderful online Dom but now want someone in person and he cant do that, but knows I am looking here.... sooooooo here I am. In all of my enthusiasm and sarcasm, which has gotten me into trouble more than once, I am still learning so in need of more training too...he should preferably be married as well and definitely have facial hair!.....I expect this could be a wonderfully fun and kinky time with the right person

P.S. I don't have KIK, or InstaSnapChatOGram
I'm 5'4", dirty blonde hair, green eyes glasses, little curvy

very new, but the idea of being tied up and the idea of giving over control to that trusted person has interested me for quite some time....finally acting on it....

Limits
extreme pain or humiliation, bathroom antics/mess, anything illegal...and yes that includes dogs for chrissakes!...lol......and as for pain ...I'm still exploring what those limits might be...

update:
may have been unclear about my online Dom....I am Not looking to leave him or replace him, so do not ask me to, I won't. I want something in person. He is gracious enough and so very good to me, that I can seek the physical.

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  Chantilly, Virginia

I'm so new but been fantasizing about bdsm for forever. It's maybe wacky but I grew up with it. I'm 35, no kids....slightly pudgy but decent and very down with experimenting. I'm in Chantilly VA, so you gotta come here. I can't where I live but I can easily have a lotta time off ;)

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  Alaska

Seeking in person only, local. See profile for more information.

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29 y/o      Indiana

I'm looking for a dom who will be around for a long time. The last couple doms/daddies I've talked to either just don't fit or we end up just finally figuring out we need different things. So no one has really stuck around. You can of course read about my on my profile but if you don't want to take the time to do that then I'll tell you a bit about myself. I'm 25 turning 26 in June, I'm a female and I'm poly. I am married and my husband knows everything I do here. Not in detail but he knows I'm looking for a dom or a daddy and is fully supportive. I love gaming, animals, cooking, horror movies, cartoons, and traveling to give a vague sense of what I'm into. I'm a spiritualist (leaning more towards Wiccan) , I believe in the supernatural, I'm liberal and prefer phone conversations. The important stuff: I have ptsd, depression and anxiety. I take a bit of time before I'm comfortable sending nsfw pictures and videos. So if you decide to message please be patient. I posted here before but my situation has changed slightly so I figured I'd update. I would like an online dom that could possibly change to in person. Something that lasts online for about a year or so then meeting up and seeing how things go. So I'm no longer just strictly online. I would like a dom who is okay with my issues and willing to take their time with me. I am big on voice chatting so if you can only chat through texting it probably won't work out. Also if you have a partner already they have to know. I don't want to be the secret in the closet or hidden away. No they don't have to be involved but I don't want to be a mistress of any sort. Not judging anyone but it's not something I'm comfortable with. This post is kinda all thrown together and I apologize if it's a bit choppy. Hopefully I meet some of you soon. If not I hope you find whatever/whoever it is you're looking for.

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  Grand Junction, Colorado

I am a experienced baby girl/ submissive. I have been in the lifestyle on and off since I was 18. I am now 52. I live in Colorado. I would ideally like to find someone in my area or driving distance. I seek a LTR but know that this takes time and trust. I am a submissive not a doormat. Until I submit to you please respect that I ask questions for my safety. You are not my Dom/Daddy until we both Agree to this. As stated before I am experienced and intelligent. Do not try to con/scam me. First person I spoke to on this site already tried. I am not desperate. Seeking someone 45-65 years old. I will work with your situation. I am employed, have my own home and a vehicle. I take care of myself . Seeking the same.

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  Fort Hood, Texas

Haiii I'm currently a little wifout a daddy and I'm interested in seeing what DDs are around the area im in the process of moving to right now. Im moving to fort hood Texas. So please only reach out if you live right around there. Not hours or states away. Im 25 years old, in am open marriage and I am a stay at home mom. Id love a DD my age and up to 10 years older that has decent experience being a dom and caring for littles. Tankies tankies if you read this!

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22 y/o      Winter Park, Florida

Can't be a 24/7 slave, but I can visit any free days I have. Can't travel out of state. In college. Want to try many things and up for most things. I love humiliation and being played with in public. Would love to be your slave.
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74% Voyeur
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  Newcastle upon Tyne, England

I’m a 19 year old submissive from Newcastle looking for a man who will gag me and spank me and give me the punishments I deserve

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  New Orleans, Louisiana

Can you help me

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  Lowell, Massachusetts

I wana be:

Bottom
Fetishist
Hetroflexible
Kajira
Pet
Property
Slave
Submissive
Princess by day slut by night


If you are interested in 3 (another guy) let me know. I always love to please my Master. ?

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  Boise, Idaho

I am a new submissive looking for someone to show me the way and fulfill what I need in my life. I am open to trying new things. I like to please whomever I am with.

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28 y/o      Indiana

25 year old switch looking to explore my ~very~ bratty submissive side. I’m a short, curvy Latina scientist who loves reading, baking, dancing, and being outdoors in the sunshine.

I’m not an extremely experienced submissive, but I’ve actively engaged in fairly intense femdom (my other side as a switch). As a note, I have enough submissive partners for the time being and am not looking for more. In terms of doms, I am interested in age 30-50 men who are educated, articulate, communicate effectively, in reasonably good shape, and confident (not arrogant). Taking care of myself physically and visually is important to me, and I’d like a partner who values the same. I’m not interested in primarily online relationships, IRL encounters are vital.

Insecure men bore me and are not welcome. If you’re offended by that, you’re probably who I’m referring to.

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  United States

Almost no man has the energetic capacity to be my Dominant.
Most think they do..

My system requires a man that Plays beyond rules, boxes, comfort, and the known.
A man that sees right through me. Always.
That can pin me down with the tone of his voice - one word - one look.
His energy alone commands, naturally and at all times.
He sees all of life as an erotic playground.

A man that enjoys nothing more than creating unimaginable experiences that push both of our edges. Just to watch what I do with it all..

The man that already knew all this from a mere glance.

If you know it’s you, reach out.

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49 y/o      Clarksville, Tennessee

Little in TN (close to KY boarder and IN boarder)...needing a forever Daddy
Looking for a Daddy Dom who is close to my area in TN. Monogamous Babygirl (6-8) irl 46 BBW (size 14) and looking for bdsm when not in my little space. I am monogamous and would want the same. I am an intelligent and career minded person. Discretion is a must in public, but at home I would like this to be an ongoing thing. Meeting and talking online is fine, but I am more interested IRL. Needing a firm and loving/sensual Daddy, but also one that likes kink in the bedroom (again when I am not in my little space). Looking forward to hearing from you!

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  York, England

I'm looking for a dom who is in touch with the animal side of themselves. I like to be hunted and brought to submission. I would prefer they are also dominant in other aspects in life also as I prefer being told what to do and letting others control life

I'm not looking for an online set up. I'm ok with initialy talking online, but the goal is in person. I don't drive so they have to either live close enough for public transport or be willing to travel themselves if they are not local.

I want to explore new kinks. And while I have my limits, I'm up for trying most things at least once to figure out if I like it or not.

If you are someone who would ignore safe words you need not talk to me.

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  United States

Looking for a dominant online but open to exploring as we go on. I’m inexperienced but eager to learn more about myself and my limits. I need daily instructions and check ins, but leniency due to my job at the moment. Looking for someone to encourage me and care in my day to day life but also to ground me and put me in my place when I’m pushing the rules.

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48 y/o      Agoura Hills, California

I’m looking for the man that will treasure my loyalty and devotion. Someone who is a partner in kink and in life. For this man I would do everything I can to help him enjoy everyday. He would treasure my little side and not take advantage of my submissiveness. Anything he wants I would do whatever I can to make happen.

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35 y/o      United States

I'm naturally submissive but I know s little about this, with very little experience but I'm eager to learn n to obey☺️

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  Wichita, Kansas

Just message me. But I think you get it.

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50 y/o      Long Beach, California

Are you a man who is in control of his life and would like to also be in control of mine?
I know that I do best as well used, owned property. For the right man I can be a very good girl, a docile animal or a degraded it with ease.
If i am enamored with you, there is nothing i won't do to please you ... you'll have to be my moral guide to slow me down.

I'm currently located near Long Beach California but am relocatable for the right man.

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