St. Petersburg, Florida
34/F sub Seeking Good Dom
This is the longest of long shots, I know, but in a pandemic world, why not try?
For now, I’m looking for an online dom. I’m open to real life dom in the future but I ain’t moving nowhere so he’d have to be near me and willing to wait. I’ve been burned in the past so it takes a while for me to trust someone. That means no video and no photos, though verbal/audio conversations will be considered. If that’s not up your alley, that’s fine, keep scrolling please. I’m not going to negotiate that and if you try to get me to, you’ll be raising red flags left and right.
BDSM is, for me, psychological more than it is physical. A dom doesn’t force me to submit, I give it. It’s a gift to be given to the right man. A man who will protect me, guide me, and cherish me. Who puts my needs above his wants, and in return earns a need in me to satisfy his wants.
Specifically, I want someone who will take a moderate amount of control over me. Give me a bedtime, an exercise routine, a limit for laziness, a routine for cleaning the home. When I’m good, he praises me. When I’m bad, he punishes me. When it’s playtime and my needs have been met, he pushes me in his own sadistic and delicious ways. He’ll anally train me. Edge me and deny me. Train me in positions. Torture me with a remote controlled vibe. Clamp me. Paddle me. Give me lines to write. Have me meditate with collar and cuffs on to remind me who I belong to.
Most of all, he’ll communicate with me. Discuss with me my wants and needs. He’ll push me to be a better me. He’ll guide me and teach me. He’ll share with me himself as much as I share with him, so I can better ease his stresses and please him, even when or especially when he doesn’t ask. He will be a friend, a companion, a confidant, and my dominant.
If that sounds like you, send me a message. Age doesn’t matter. Experience doesn’t matter. Hell, a good dominant who is a decade younger than me is hot as fuck. A new dominant who is willing to accept guidance and suggestions is hotter than any experienced dominant with arrogance issues.
Communication is key. Typos and misspellings are fine and human. To be human is to make mistakes. But if you have difficulty communicating via texting and typing, then an online based relationship isn’t going to work. Putting a tiny bit of effort into your message goes a long way.
February 28, 2021 at 10:30 PM