Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

47, married female,...sshhhhh, hubby doesn't know about my extracurricular needs....if this is an issue for you...you're welcome for saving you time...stop reading...if you are continuing to read, I will not take the blame....hehehe....would love to find someone near me for something ongoing yet discreet...I have a wonderful online Dom but now want someone in person and he cant do that, but knows I am looking here.... sooooooo here I am. In all of my enthusiasm and sarcasm, which has gotten me into trouble more than once, I am still learning so in need of more training too...he should preferably be married as well and definitely have facial hair!.....I expect this could be a wonderfully fun and kinky time with the right person

P.S. I don't have KIK, or InstaSnapChatOGram
I'm 5'4", dirty blonde hair, green eyes glasses, little curvy

very new, but the idea of being tied up and the idea of giving over control to that trusted person has interested me for quite some time....finally acting on it....

Limits
extreme pain or humiliation, bathroom antics/mess, anything illegal...and yes that includes dogs for chrissakes!...lol......and as for pain ...I'm still exploring what those limits might be...

update:
may have been unclear about my online Dom....I am Not looking to leave him or replace him, so do not ask me to, I won't. I want something in person. He is gracious enough and so very good to me, that I can seek the physical.

I'm looking for a dom who will be around for a long time. The last couple doms/daddies I've talked to either just don't fit or we end up just finally figuring out we need different things. So no one has really stuck around. You can of course read about my on my profile but if you don't want to take the time to do that then I'll tell you a bit about myself. I'm 25 turning 26 in June, I'm a female and I'm poly. I am married and my husband knows everything I do here. Not in detail but he knows I'm looking for a dom or a daddy and is fully supportive. I love gaming, animals, cooking, horror movies, cartoons, and traveling to give a vague sense of what I'm into. I'm a spiritualist (leaning more towards Wiccan) , I believe in the supernatural, I'm liberal and prefer phone conversations. The important stuff: I have ptsd, depression and anxiety. I take a bit of time before I'm comfortable sending nsfw pictures and videos. So if you decide to message please be patient. I posted here before but my situation has changed slightly so I figured I'd update. I would like an online dom that could possibly change to in person. Something that lasts online for about a year or so then meeting up and seeing how things go. So I'm no longer just strictly online. I would like a dom who is okay with my issues and willing to take their time with me. I am big on voice chatting so if you can only chat through texting it probably won't work out. Also if you have a partner already they have to know. I don't want to be the secret in the closet or hidden away. No they don't have to be involved but I don't want to be a mistress of any sort. Not judging anyone but it's not something I'm comfortable with. This post is kinda all thrown together and I apologize if it's a bit choppy. Hopefully I meet some of you soon. If not I hope you find whatever/whoever it is you're looking for.

Hello! I am a submissive with limited experience looking for a Dominant to explore with. I’m looking for an online experience that can develop to irl with time. I have some brat tendencies. I am looking for a Dominant who is honest, consistent, and who has has good communication skills. I’m still working out the specifics of what I want/am looking for.

If you’re interested, please don’t hesitate to message me!

I am a relatively inexperienced Sub, but I have been in and out of the lifestyle over the last 5 years. I am looking for a Daddy Who is fit, and preferably 30-40 years old. Also, I can’t relocate at the moment so this Daddy would have to live in Oklahoma. I want to live the d/s lifestyle both at home and in my day to day. I am an independent woman but I would prefer a Daddy who is able to help me out when I need it. I currently have an 18 month old son, so I cannot always be available.

Hey! What’s up? Umm... so i dont know exactly how this works, but im gonna give it a try. I keep reading those posts about those amazing doms, you know... the ones that sound so right... for me too, yet i dont have one.... never have. Im brand new :) So i thought i’d ask you guys... where is my dom? My daddy? I really wish i had one. I wanna belong to someone. I want someone just like the blogs keep describing. A real man who’s kind, caring, loving, strict, patient, understanding, honest and oh so so right. I want a serious relationship, no boys please. So where do i start? Here? Is here good?
Find me please

Hello! My name is Sam and I’m looking for a primarily online relationship ( with the possibility of more once I’ve grown more comfortable with both myself and the lifestyle.) When I say newbie I mean it. I’m freshly 30 and I’ve never been in a relationship of any kind. My sexual experience is nonexistent even when it comes to exploring my body myself.

I want to learn my likes and dislikes. As a writer I feel more comfortable behind the written word than I do expressing myself through phone or video chat.

Some info about me: I’m 5’3” with brown hair and brown eyes. I’m of Hispanic descent but my skin is pale white. I can talk to you in Spanish though and call you sweet names like “Mi Amore.” I am not a thin woman, though I’ve recently lost 30lbs and plan to keep losing weight. At this moment I am thick and round so if you don’t like that then I’m obviously not the girl for you.

I'm a 33 year old brat / little/ middle/ and pet with sub service tendencies looking for her
Dom. I need a daddy with a sweet side but can be Stern and would be able to dish out discipline and punishments has well has encourage and guide me to reach my full potential .. I at times can be mouthy so if u can't handle that move along . I'm into bondage ,restraints, cuffs, cages since I'm a pet and gags , blindfolds and breast play of course for me it takes a while to build up trust I'm not looking to dive in so fast so if you can't take things slow move on too.

ou’ll have to earn it...
I am a strong, independent woman looking for a man who has the strength, fortitude and sense of self to take me on. I don’t bend easy, I like a challenge. I’m not bratty and I’m not into defiance - but if you don’t impress me with intelligence, wit and humor - you won’t get my submission.

I want to serve a man physically in all ways. I want to be dominated and controlled down to my breath and heart beat. I want my soul to be owned. But you will not have me without effort, work and strength. I’m worth it though - that I can promise.

I’m looking for a partner in life. I have hard limits in when and how domination occurs in my life - my kids, my money and my work are mine. But I desperately crave a Master in private. A hand in my hair, a palm on my ass. Some one who knows how to give orders, and is used to them being obeyed.

If interested, please do share pics - I’ll do the same. Nothing crazy - just an idea I’d who you are.

UK only please!!

A petite 5ft1 Princess. Extremely affectionate - submissive yet sassy. I won’t submit to anyone but my Dom - He will ideally be intelligent, confident, self-assured and able to live up to the high expectations of this lusty sub!l. Is there a Dom who can encourage me to actually just let it all go? To truly give up control to another person and not even worry to complain or argue and know… I’m right where I want to be..? Regardless of what happens..? In my visions, that is beyond intoxicating. It’s everything. If you cannot handle building a connection built on transparency, honesty and respect at a pace that works for BOTH of us, I suggest you continue swiping.


I will vet you. I will ask a LOT of questions. I will listen to what you say and from that I will make judgements. I EXPECT you to vet me too. My experience in kink is at the novice level but my life experience outweighs this - I’m nobody’s fool! Ok, I see this sounds very serious - BUT for me, this vetting stage should feel wildly erotic for BOTH OF US. Why would it not? Delving deep into each of our wants, our needs and sharing our most erotic fantasies... I can’t imagine anything more thrilling! If you get this right, I will be the one pushing to meet and play - you can guarantee that! Lol!!


I enjoy learning; this has helped significantly in my BDSM quest for knowledge. I read copiously however, I know that theory and practice are two very different things. I read erotica, texts on human sexuality, and books on BDSM - I’m a passionate woman who has a real thirst for knowledge. If you are able to speak about a passion of yours with any authority, you will have me sitting at your feet transfixed - intelligence is extremely erotic for me and I will most likely lust after your brain before I do you!

Vanilla me requires discretion and if we have a connection, I will reveal her to you.

I’m NOT into:
ONS
Cowardly ghosts - be an adult and end things respectfully
Doms who go straight to sexual discussions without wishing to make a mental connection
Sexting or RP with online strangers

So, after all that(!), if you believe that you have the strength, the integrity, the desire to handle all of this lustful energy of mine, please feel free to send me a (respectful and coherent!) message.

If you’d like to find out even more, take a peek at my profile blog posts...

I look forward to meeting you xx