Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  New York, New York

Looking for someome who will show me how this lifestyle.goes and to be good to me

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  New York, New York

Hi i am 33 years old. I am new to this lifestyle but i have also been interested in it. I would need my daddy to patient with me and i am very needy person altogether. I consider myself a little because i like child like this and some times i can act very young. I just want someone who will get me.

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  Connecticut

Mainly looking for impact play and bondage play sessions (not dating or relationship etc). Want someone to spank me and tie me up, and we can experiment and explore limits together in those areas. Chat to talk more!

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  Madison, Wisconsin

I’m new to all this and I’m looking to learn

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  Texas

Hi,new sub interested in finding a Dom , I’m new so I’m not really sure of the ins and outs or what to even put here so be patient with me please. I’ve been interested in being a sub/little for a while and am now trying to give it a shot. I’m finally stepping out of my usual and doing so. looking for a long term Dom ,someone I can get to know and who’ll get to know me,someone I can connect with and learn from.

My limits are : blood, pain or anything that’ll cause any mental/physical damage. I don’t like to share so I’d want my Dom to be only mine.

If I sound at least some what interesting feel free to view my profile/reach out

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23 y/o      Quincy, Massachusetts

Hi there ? I'm new to BDSM and I'm very interested in learning more about the lifestyle. I'm very open minded and just want someone to help show me what this is all about.

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35 y/o      Maryland

Hello! I am a submissive with limited experience looking for a Dominant to explore with. I’m looking for an online experience that can develop to irl with time. I have some brat tendencies. I am looking for a Dominant who is honest, consistent, and who has has good communication skills. I’m still working out the specifics of what I want/am looking for.

If you’re interested, please don’t hesitate to message me!

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  Queensland

Hi i am anime slut I love anime and I love gaming pc games I am a ned of sorts

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30 y/o      Tulsa, Oklahoma

I am a relatively inexperienced Sub, but I have been in and out of the lifestyle over the last 5 years. I am looking for a Daddy Who is fit, and preferably 30-40 years old. Also, I can’t relocate at the moment so this Daddy would have to live in Oklahoma. I want to live the d/s lifestyle both at home and in my day to day. I am an independent woman but I would prefer a Daddy who is able to help me out when I need it. I currently have an 18 month old son, so I cannot always be available.

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54 y/o      New York, New York

In need of the right Owner. I need to be retrained it has been to long since my last Owner. My needs are not my own ofcourse. I am very much a pain whore. Looking for that long term. Some vanilla but not much. Rules , punishments, rewards. I am 5 foot 2 200 lbs .

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  Michigan

Looking to form meaningful connections along with someone to help guide me on my journey back into BDSM.

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  United States

Hiyah, I am 27, 5’3, nerdy girl with glasses. I spend my free time reading a lot of books & playing video games. I am a very big fan of horror & I have a lifelong dream of being a writer. I also enjoy hiking, rollerskating, camping, among a variety of other things.

My ideal situation would be with a man that is confident, possibly even a little bit of an ego, someone who can make me laugh & will be there to support me. I am nurturing by nature & dedicate my time exclusively to the person I am interested in. I like to be called pet names, I like to be treated like I am being taken care of but not in a little kind of way. I just want someone to care about me, my needs, my feelings, and if I have eaten that day.

I am very bad with dry conversation, I crave controlled chaos where I can be my absolute self. Laugh at my jokes & I’ll laugh at yours.

My age requirement is between 24-35

Please respect my requirements & I hope that I haven’t scared you off yet.

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46 y/o      Orland Park, Illinois

These past few months have been a really stressful and trying time, especially without a strong Dom to help me through it. I'm patiently waiting for my Prince Charming. Someone who will make me feel comfortable from the moment we're together, and who will take care of me as much as I will take care of him.
I'm actually very old fashioned, so I believe in traditional gender roles and always taking care of my Man and putting his needs first. I get turned on knowing he's turned on.
In my dream world, I'll cook and clean, and have dinner on the table for you when you get home, while I'm on my knees waiting for you.
If this sounds good to you,let me know. I do prefer older men, who are mature and experienced.

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  Tennessee

I don’t want anything sexual. Just want to be tied up.

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21 y/o      Italy

Looking for a strong & confident man to play with me, info in DMs!

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27 y/o      Minneapolis, Minnesota

In need of someone to guide me through life. I’m ace, so sex isn’t really my thing, but am interested in losing control for once in a safe environment. Virtual connection preferred. Please take care of me. She/they 23 & bi

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47 y/o      Indianapolis, Indiana

I’m 44 years old and seeking dominant even sadistic Men in the Indianapolis Indiana area. Looking for real life usage. I want to be treated like an experienced pain slut I’m very open minded and have few limits. Interested in a few taboos.

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28 y/o      United States

Im looking for a Daddy Dom or Master between 18-45 in Jacksonville Florida area.Im very caring,loving,obedient and loyal.Im very open-minded.Yo7bcan traime.as you see fit.

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24 y/o      California

I'm looking for someone to give me rules and tasks every day. Please see my profile for more information.

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50 y/o      Toledo, Ohio

Looking for a Dominant male who lives within a couple hours distance from Toledo, Ohio.

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40 y/o      Finland

Hey! What’s up? Umm... so i dont know exactly how this works, but im gonna give it a try. I keep reading those posts about those amazing doms, you know... the ones that sound so right... for me too, yet i dont have one.... never have. Im brand new :) So i thought i’d ask you guys... where is my dom? My daddy? I really wish i had one. I wanna belong to someone. I want someone just like the blogs keep describing. A real man who’s kind, caring, loving, strict, patient, understanding, honest and oh so so right. I want a serious relationship, no boys please. So where do i start? Here? Is here good?
Find me please

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28 y/o      United States

Hi my name is Avrial I’ve been in and around this lifestyle for a few years now. I feel as though I have a fair amount of amateur experience but I’m absolutely willing to learn. I’ve come across every kind of “dom” and feel as though I’ve picked up different things from each experience. I believe that’s why my results are the way that they are. I will warn you I am a brat and do have bratty tendencies, it’s not to push you away or to be blatantly disrespectful. I’m currently looking for someone online but not against meeting in the future if it were to work out, I crave structure and the power exchange that comes with it. I need someone who has the time to set aside for me. I have no doubt this lifestyle is for me, I just haven’t found the one yet.


Please message me if you are interested (:

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43 y/o      Sheffield, England

Experienced Dom required for an immersive D/s relationship... Please Sir ?. Make me a "Good Girl" if you think you're up to it..
Searching for my Dom, fed up of the wannabes! Come on! Im here for the real deal. Must be 35 +, intelligent and inventive. Settled in their own life, know what and who they want. Because I definitely know. And I wont submit to just anyone, so dont ask to be called *Sir* because that needs to be earned alongside me accepting my collar and you my submission. If this is old school then so what! The challenge is part of the fun.. So if you make the effort you will get a powerful dynamic relationship.
BRAT TAMERS welcome ?.

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53 y/o      Alabama

I grew up in M/s household. I have personally been active over 30 years
Only life I know.
My first service was 20 plus years and ended because my Master passed away.
My second service ended because of a brutal attack that almost took my life. I ignored the red flags because I wanted so much to have somewhere to someone I belonged.
My last and most beautiful service was a dual dynamic. I served a Master and Mistress, domestically, however was very loved and cherished. I was given the honor and task to train others for the house. I excelled greatly at that. My Ma'am showed me the difference in domination between a male and female. And under her hand I became everything she said I was. I came to them with NOTHING as everything I had was provided.
Within that service I found purpose and peace.. somewhere to belong. Serving along side my slave brothers and sisters.
Today after taking time to heal.
I am ready to serve once more. To bend the knee in my final surrender. Purpose, peace, freed

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  Austin, Texas

I am looking for my DD. Someone who will take the time to truly understand and accept me and all my likes and dislikes . Will understand my needs and desires . Someone who can keep up with my ever changing mind. Someone who accepting of my other relationship. My relationships would always be separate and of course unique. I am in an open marriage. Please be in the Austin area.. Message me if any of this resonates with you..

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  Bismarck, North Dakota

I'm searching for my perfect Dom or Daddy Dom. Someone who is as interested in me as I am in them. I need someone to help mold me and bring out the true me. I've been in the lifestyle for a year now and still have some growing to do. I am looking for someone somewhat local because I need physical touch just as much as I need the mental/emotional aspect.

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22 y/o      Lincoln, England

Hey I'm 19 years old.
I been looking into this lifestyle for around a year and I believe I am ready to start looking for play mates and my special one.
I'm not into poly and looking forward to deep and knowledgeable conversations which we can both learn and grow from.
I would like to have a Dom around my age range of 19 -25. I would also like to have the Dom to be in the same country and near the same city I live in. I don't do online relationships and dont do long distance.
I think it would be lovely to have a chat with you and I'm really keen on learning about bdsm and the community.
My apologies for it being kind of a mess I'm not used to writing these. I'm excited to talk to you.?

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24 y/o      United States

Honestly I Just Want A Handsome Asian Man To Be My Dominant

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  Kansas City, Missouri

I'm new to this. Always knew I wanted this. I know what I want, what I'm don't want. I will obey. But, I have a line. No one had the balls to step out of the traditional way of things. I am submissive sexually. No one to obey. No one to teach. All were scared. That's why I'm here. I'm only afraid to disappoint my dom. I am new to this. But, I want, desire, and need. I'm a slightly plus size, biracial woman, somewhere in my 40's. But, I'm kinky, enjoy learning new things, etc. I'm not posting a pic. You send me a pic. I'll do the same.

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33 y/o      United States

Hello! My name is Sam and I’m looking for a primarily online relationship ( with the possibility of more once I’ve grown more comfortable with both myself and the lifestyle.) When I say newbie I mean it. I’m freshly 30 and I’ve never been in a relationship of any kind. My sexual experience is nonexistent even when it comes to exploring my body myself.

I want to learn my likes and dislikes. As a writer I feel more comfortable behind the written word than I do expressing myself through phone or video chat.

Some info about me: I’m 5’3” with brown hair and brown eyes. I’m of Hispanic descent but my skin is pale white. I can talk to you in Spanish though and call you sweet names like “Mi Amore.” I am not a thin woman, though I’ve recently lost 30lbs and plan to keep losing weight. At this moment I am thick and round so if you don’t like that then I’m obviously not the girl for you.

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  Indiana

I just would like to state that I am not skinny . As I see a lot of people try to message but their pages want fit or non curvy.

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39 y/o      Manchester, England

Brand new and would like someone to talk to and maybe ask some questions.

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  Assam, Sikkim

So hey.....i'm lene 19 years old and i have been a submissive as to say a slut for almost a year now and my old master has been controling my life so now i want a new dom/master to take control over my life

I want someone who can give me task and make me do it and if i don't punish me...I want him to take control of my life like telling what i should eat, what i should wear, and can i go out or not, can i meet my friends etc2

I don't have much limits but i have just few they are
1.No blood
2. No permanent scar
3. No human toilet (eg: being asked to eat shit or drink pee)
4. No face picture
That's it....!

I hope i'll find one
Thankyou

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  Los Angeles, California

I’m a little in LA interested in pursuing a serious dynamic with a dom in LA or CA
I’m a full time student and love my education, I just need to turn my brain off every now and then. Looking for a daddy to help take the responsibilities off.

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  New Jersey

I want to obey

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24 y/o      Queensland

Hi, I am really new to this so I am looking for someone who is willing to teach me and be patient with me as I learn. I am looking for a 24-29 year old male who will dominate me. I am not sure if I want a full 24/7 submission but close to it. I am wanting something that will be long term and close to me.

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38 y/o      Nashville, Tennessee

I’m a 5’2” female brown hair green eyes a little extra weight willing to do whatever you want or need

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24 y/o      United States

I'm looking for a handsome Dom that will love and Charish me, someone who will put me in my place and punish me if I misbehave, someone who will give me compliments and call me baby girl, sweetheart, and more. I'm into whipping, spanking, handcuffs, collars, blindfolds, toys, anal, and bondage. I'm not open to sharing my Dom I feel like I'm yours and you are mine, make me know that I'm yours and yours only.

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  Florida

I'm a 33 year old brat / little/ middle/ and pet with sub service tendencies looking for her
Dom. I need a daddy with a sweet side but can be Stern and would be able to dish out discipline and punishments has well has encourage and guide me to reach my full potential .. I at times can be mouthy so if u can't handle that move along . I'm into bondage ,restraints, cuffs, cages since I'm a pet and gags , blindfolds and breast play of course for me it takes a while to build up trust I'm not looking to dive in so fast so if you can't take things slow move on too.

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  Ontario

Hi I'm 24 female, looking for a dom who's into pain, bondage, and more..London ontario area pls

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  Malaysia

Looking for online D/s, just texting, simple, sexless :)

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  Richmond, California

Let’s chat. I’m a babygirl that likes to be a very obedient submissive only when I’m in the right mood.

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37 y/o      New York

I am a mildly experienced submissive looking for a dominant male in the NY area preferably but am willing to venture out as far as NJ. Initially I'd like for this to start online but eventually move into meeting and actual physical interaction. I am not looking to rush anything but do need consistency. I lost a great deal of weight but moved to NY from SC in March and with the dramatic change in surroundings and living life some of the weight has come back. I'd like to get to the discipline to run again. Sometimes women just need structure and what better person to assist us than a man, is my thought process.

I am Black American and don't have a personal preference on ethnicity but I do have an age preference between 28 and 45.

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26 y/o      Florissant, Missouri

I am a 23 yr old submissive looking for my forever Dom. Someone who can understand the side of me that craves submitting, the side of me that needs to be owned and dominated.

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  San Francisco, California

I'm in San Francisco, CA, I am a worthless whore, I love older, mean, bald, fat, nasty men, I love to party and I want to find a Man who will put me in my place, take me to his house and take my clothes off, prep me, get me tied up and whip me, slap me and tell me how big of a whore. I am, I'm trash, worthless (it's a huge turn on), then I want him to make me beg him to keep me in and kiss his feet, grab me by the hair and make me clean his ass while he laughs at me then spit on me, put his fingers in my mouth and smear the spit on my face, spanking, anal fingering, anal fuck machine, make me your bitch

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  Virginia

ou’ll have to earn it...
I am a strong, independent woman looking for a man who has the strength, fortitude and sense of self to take me on. I don’t bend easy, I like a challenge. I’m not bratty and I’m not into defiance - but if you don’t impress me with intelligence, wit and humor - you won’t get my submission.

I want to serve a man physically in all ways. I want to be dominated and controlled down to my breath and heart beat. I want my soul to be owned. But you will not have me without effort, work and strength. I’m worth it though - that I can promise.

I’m looking for a partner in life. I have hard limits in when and how domination occurs in my life - my kids, my money and my work are mine. But I desperately crave a Master in private. A hand in my hair, a palm on my ass. Some one who knows how to give orders, and is used to them being obeyed.

If interested, please do share pics - I’ll do the same. Nothing crazy - just an idea I’d who you are.

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33 y/o      Portsmouth, Virginia

I am a 30 year old little/sub who recently lost her Daddy Dom and I am looking for another one. If interested message me and I'll tell you what you'd like to know.

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  Florida

I want a Dominant man who is controlling, strict and protective of me.

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26 y/o      Texas

my profile speaks a lot for itself but not a lot over what i am searching for. i am searching for the Dom i was made to serve. The beautiful part of a D/s relationship to me is the connection created, a Dom will know His sub better than she knows herself. It’s beautiful. i was put on this earth to serve one Dom and hopefully i can find Him.

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28 y/o      Ontario

I’m not new to being submissive. I’ve always encouraged partners in real life too be more dominate with me and it never goes as far as I’d like it too. I’ve been with some men online who were dominate but it never lasted long due too lack of interest or we were just different people. As a submissive I would worship you, sacrifice my soul and mind, devoted, and completely smitten with you.
I’d need too be trained, but if it’s the right person I promise I will put my all into it. I love too be roughed up. If you’re interested send me a message <3

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21 y/o      Des Moines, Iowa

Currently live in Des Moines, Iowa but moving to Iowa City for school. Looking for a Dom to take me in hand. A fantasy of mine has always been to be taken by multiple men. Even if that's not your thing go ahead and still shoot me a message.

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  New Jersey

I am a female sub who is currently looking for a male dom.

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43 y/o      Dallas, Texas

Daddy,
I’m lost and little and lonely without you.
Are you in Texas? Are you close to me in Fort Worth? Where are you and can you find me?
I’m 39 but also 3 and 6 and 13.
I’m bratty because I need your attention and firm hand to guide me.
I am a big little, 315lbs, but I feel smol and chaotic; I need your restrictions and control to help me feel safe and secure.
I have chronic illnesses and take medication to help me function better but I know you can help me feel calm and find routine.
I love love, I love hugs and kisses, I love to be smacked on my tushy, I love to be told what to do, I love to please my Daddy.
If my Daddy has Mommy or a Sister for me that would be so wonderful. But I want to marry my Daddy. I want my Daddy to adore me and give me attention and help me be smol but also be my partner and intelligent conversationalist. When Daddy presents me with my Collar, I hope an engagement ring will not be far behind.

But for right now?
Can we talk and get to know each other?
As people, as humans, as individuals before we worry with anything sexual; can we just form a connection over books, music, art, and the world?

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35 y/o      Bremerton, Washington

31yr old from Indiana looking for a man to help me explore my submission. I'm a ssbbw. I'm trying to find someone who will take care of me as much as I'd take care of him. It's getting harder and harder but there is a sliver of hope left. There is a wide range of submission that I would like to explore so looking for a dom who has a wide range of experience. I do prefer a little bit older men. No more than 10 years and no less than 5 years younger if necessary. In thinking I could start online but I'm really looking for something IRL. I'm a very physical person so having that physical relationship would be essential. I have multiple ways of communication so if interested dm me here and we can go from there. Thank you for taking the time to read through and I hope you have a wonderful day.

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  United States

I've been wanting to explore this world for years but am finally taking steps to do so. I am hoping to learn more about myself and push my limits with an experienced Dom. Message me if you are interested in chatting, either in a friendly capacity or a potential Dom capacity.

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  Connecticut

New to the real life experience and community, but definitely not new to the ideas. Looking for someone in the area (or who can come) to introduce me to the plays, in somewhat regular meetups and relationship. Privately (have their own toys etc. to try with me) and publicly (for example going to munch or event together). Wouldn’t mind if you’re also new, we can explore and grow together! Msg me to chat up.

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  United Kingdom

Looking for a man with a kind and gentle side to show me and teach me the ropes of rougher play. I love to please

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39 y/o      Woodbridge, Virginia

I am looking for a Dom that is interested in a monogamous, long-term relationship in and outside of the bedroom (TPE).

I love attention and value a grounded, consistent partner.

Roles and rules are important to me, built on trust and direct communication, and expand/change as more trust is built.

I value Dom’s that express care in responsibility, knowing who I am, and what I desire in the bedroom and everyday life.

I enjoy pain and I love markings, so I'm incredibly attracted to men with a sadistic side. A hand on the back of my neck when I am out of line, knowing and at the same time not knowing what happens when we get home. I equally care for a man who makes sure to listen to my worries and fixes my garbage disposal.

If you decide to write me, please make sure that your profile includes a detailed description of you/what you're looking for and a photograph that gives me an idea of what you look like.

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  Ypsilanti, Michigan

looking for a dom to take care of me and use me when he’s stressed out

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  Louisiana

New to the scene but looking for something longer term. Someone who is willing to teach and build that trust for me to completely give my trust to. Looking for something to be real in life busy also adventurous and experimental as well. Can be bratty and would love to find someone who can handle that.

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