Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  Slovenia

I am a 34 years old woman (white, tall, on the heavy side), submissive by nature, but never experienced the lifestyle. I am looking for an online thing at the moment only. I crave control in an everyday life, things like exercise, chores... I would love to find someone caring, soft spoken that can talk about our days and world events, someone to brothen my horizons on matters that are not close to me and get into heated debates about matters that are close.
I am not looking to be a slave (apart from beeroom things), you need to understand we all have our lives and need to work around that.
My limit is anything more permanent then a sore butt. I need to know I'm safe.
First chat and if we gain each others trust, photos and videos later.
I think time zones are important, so European would be best.
I did post an add about a month ago and started something, but it didn't go so well, so here I am again.

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  United Kingdom

I am a Submissive looking for a ONLINE Sir that can assign me with pleasurable tasks each day and who I can have a decent conversation with. Someone who has the following interests and more.
Object Insertion Fetish (not food),
Humiliation,
Exhibitionist - Amateur,
Domestic Servant,
Endurance Play as in Sitting on a Dildo for Half an hour,
Id like to hear from you if your mind goes wild thinking of things you would do with a submissive when you read that list. What did you think of?
Send me an interesting email to catch my attention!
5'3 110lbs

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  Toronto, Ontario

I would like to know you in order to understand your type, I'm 20 years old living in Toronto.
I'm into the polite kind and understanding dom who I can trust and obey with. I'm pretty stubborn in some situations and very playful.
by that, I only have the online experience which means I never play in real life before.
please consider me as one of your choices.
ps. I'm very Chubby and not so fluently in English

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48 y/o      Olympia, Washington

Hi there!

I'm a little but that role is filled. I'm a polyamorous service sub/prey looking for a dom ok with sharing me and looking for eventual 24/7 service relationship.

I'm a bit of a nerd, gamer, pagan, mix of country and city girl. I love to cook and bake. I'm a little odd and eccentric and weird. I'm a bit chubby and only 5 ft tall.

My kinks are listed in my profile, but I'm a pretty kinky girl. I love to serve.

I do have fibromyalgia, PTSD and panic disorder. I need a understanding and caring dom who is willing to work with those issues. I do manage them well, I'm a very strong woman. But they do interfere from time to time. I'm also an empath and energy sensitive.

I've been through a lot, i take time to get to know. I'm looking to build a good foundation and building trust first is important to me.

Hopefully that doesn't scare everyone off and i look forward to getting to know you!

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31 y/o      Tennessee

Hello. I prefer to meet people organically but the pandemic has found me discovering my kinkier side and I'm interested in meeting people with similar interests. I'm into music, playing games, talking about real things. Do message if you are kind and would like to talk about whatever!

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22 y/o      Spokane, Washington

Hello, I am an 18 year old female located in Boston MA. I’m looking for a caregiver, I don’t have any preference, male, female, couple, I’d like to get to know everyone, who would be interested in an in person long term Little/Caregiver relationship.

I two little spaces that are unique in and of themselves. I have a space that is roughly 7 years old and prefers the nickname Riky, and then a roughly 2-3 year old space that prefers Ari.

Riky is slightly bratty and like to color, to sing, and play about. She often gets tired fairly quickly and loves to nap.

Ari is fairly clingy, she likes to cuddle, to be cozy, and stay warm, she likes being read to and watching television. Ari doesn’t often nap but does like time to be warm and relax.

It is important to note that these spaces are a way for me to detach and relax, a way to get away from my adult life and drama. Please do not play around with my feelings.

I don’t have any hard limits and am open to talking, I’m excited to meet everyone!

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  Pennsylvania

Hello
Im a 21 year old submissive putting herself through nursing school. I am on here to find a dom who honestly knows what it means to be a dominant. More lookin for one close to my age but they understand that it is a power exchange. I want a dyanmic where we can be ourselves put still mantain our roles. I want something real. Starting online is okay but should lead to irl. I also like to talk before moving into a dynamic to see if we get along. Message me if interested. Hope to hear from you soon.

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  Pennsylvania

sub woman looking for the right dom! new to this and am loving it so far and want to find someone to show me more and take control :)

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46 y/o      England

I have husbands permission for a local dom to train and use me and explore my limits.

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27 y/o      Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Hello,
I am 23 years old, female, 5’4 and 195 lbs so on the heavier side.
I had an add here for a long time looking for a tong term 247 TPE relationship. After a couple failed attempts I took a break from looking but I’m back now. I can relocate. I am very inexperienced and more interested in being a pleasing slave than I am in any specific kink although in the experience I do have I find I enjoy humiliation and pain.

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  Longview, Washington

Looking for a clean dominate man in the Kelso, WA area. I’m new here.

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50 y/o      Toronto, Ontario

Submissive, searching for a deep connections with beautiful souls...that's what I crave and want in my life...whatever way this looks, it doesn't matter...the connection is what is important, physical and mental.

I like to get to know people. However, If people don't put in the same amount of effort to get to know me, I will lose interest...fast! I am in no rush for anything serious and like things to happen naturally, but effort still has to be made to keep me around. I need to know I'm liked, desired and special.... need to know you are interested in me as a whole person, not just my body parts.

I would consider myself a natural submissive. But one word alone does not describe me. I have tendancies of a little, brat, and slave. I crave structure, protocols, discipline, rewards .... I seek my Master to serve and obey.

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  Oregon

Looking for a casual online flirt, sexting, occasional nude swap, phone sex.

Bonus if you are open to threesome with me and a bi-curious guy, not needed though, just a +.

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25 y/o      United States

i’m a 20 yr old sub looking to please à dom online. i hâve no intention of meeting in real life but would love for someone to connect with online. i am new to this world but would love for someone to show me the way.

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25 y/o      Georgetown, Texas

I am a 21 year old pet/sub looking for some fun. I want a master and am willing to be owned and collared. I am clean.

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55 y/o      Chapel Hill, North Carolina

Genuine sub/slave seeking real 24/7 LTR. Devoted, and truly unique, this highly intelligent and complex masochistic submissive would be a rewarding challenge for the right Master. Strong, tall, emotionally mature and financially stable.. seeking the same.

Not looking for online only so no married men, please. You must be real and honest, and ready to accept the lifetime committed service and dedication of a loving sub.

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36 y/o      Denver, Colorado

I am looking for a daddy or master that wants to settle down .I am shy but goofy .I have a dark dry since of humor . I love to please when I have a dom I trust .I smoke cig currently (trying to quit before I am bred ) ,420 friendly , drink rarely . I am a metal head ,nerdy type. I work a lot , 40plus hours a week . I am independent and take care of myself ( I do need a daddy type master to guide me and love me properly) .I am an alpha type and very bratty ( I will earn my spankings and my cuddles ).I am looking for a Master that lives in state , doesn't play game's , doesn't go outside of the relationship open minded ,and not full of hate of different people (ie race, gender identity , religion, any way different than said dom ).

I am attracted to metal head ,nerdy, goth type's .Long hair on men and kilts are a huge turn on .I am looking around 33 to 44 I am attracted to men older than myself . I am in search of my forever Master , the one I am meant to sass and love forever . I am not looking for a booty call or just dates I want my Master and that is all

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31 y/o      Bangor, Maine

I am a babygirl sub looking for a daddy :) one that will take his time with me as I learn new things about the lifestyle. I am a blank canvas I have never had a serious Daddy before and My hope is that it changes.

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41 y/o      Daytona Beach, Florida

I'm here to explore my submissive side, so I am in search of a Genuine Dom with lots of experience willing to train, teach, and mentor. I've never had a Dom so you will be the first. Contact me if you're interested in guiding me on my journey to submission. If I don't respond it simply means I don't feel we are a good fit.

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25 y/o      United States

I’ve been on here looking for the right dom to use me and fulfill my needs as a sub. I want someone who might even be into using me anal only, as well as other tasks. Looking to be used online.

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75 y/o      Las Vegas, Nevada

I looking for a daddy or master Dom who is also looking for a real life relationship
Following orders online is no different than masterbating and I can do that myself.
Was in a sexless marriage for years so why would I choose online to continue that way of doing things
If your looking to do online and not into moving quickly than I'm not your sub

Come visit me.and let's see for real

Just went thru this again yesterday
I'm very new

Very kinky and into most

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26 y/o      Texas

I’m 22 and inexperienced when it comes to DS/DDlg. I'm looking for a strict, disciplined, fair, caring, and loving daddy dom to help me become a better me. I don't mind an online relationship/friendship but eventually I would like to find one that works IRL. I’m usually obedient except when something is far out is my comfort zone, but I'm willing to try most things once. I’m very introverted and a homebody, but I don't mind going out. I play video games (Apex Legends mostly), watch anine and YouTube a lot. I’m also not very social so I don't talk to very many people at once.

I’m pretty inexperienced when it comes to the bedroom, I’m open to discussing more. I've only had quick hook ups or one night stands, I would very much like a long term relationship eventually. I love to listen to Erotic ASMR and reading erotic novels as well.

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36 y/o      Indianapolis, Indiana

Submissive lioness looking for her daddy or Sir. I am an extroverted introvert. I have a curvy body type, red hair, dark blue eyes and very pale. I'm educated and very career driven. I am into bondage, impact play, sensation and sensory deprivation. Still testing my limits.

I am looking for a male dom, between the ages of 25 to 47. Prefer taller than 5'9" and athletic or slight dad body build. I need to be able to hold an intelligent conversation with you. I want to be the only woman. If you are married, in an open relationship or have other subs please DO NOT waste my time. I will require you send me a photo of yourself. Id like this to first be online and then go from there.

In return I will be open and honest. I will obey and be a good girl and do as I am told. If you are interested please message me. I am in no hurry and will only settle when there is a good match.

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47 y/o      Seattle, Washington

I am a top in the streets; a nomadic entrepreneurial single mom (that likes to ride motorcycles, sculpt metal, cook gourmet meals, write poetry, lead organizations, crack jokes, and roughhouse in the dirt...) but I am a bottom in the sheets; a sultry sub ready for my King and a protocol contract of my wildest dreams. I am not looking for online dating, polyamory, or flings. I am a loving woman with so much to share, but I have been celibate, focusing on my 5yr old son, and my grind, for over 5 years. It's dawned on me lately that the reason I haven't entertained any man is because I'm looking for a 24/7 BDSM relationship with a respectful alpha male that understands an alpha female's truest desires to give over control to her trustworthy King as they build a life together. I am not ordinary, so I can't settle for ordinary. I want a "mastermind marriage" with my partner. I have already laid the foundation for my own empire, and am steady building...but it would be my ideal to run it with my Daddy, especially if he's also the entrepreneurial type.

BDSM and me
I'm interested in how tantra meets BDSM and the alchemy of that; sacred sexuality, role playing, pain/pleasure, power, service, bondage, intimacy...

Limits
-When you approach me, please address me with respect and substance. I may not reply otherwise.
-I'm very sexual, sensual, and into all kinds of kink, but my lines are where poop, animals, minors, or urine come in. Lol.

What's new
I'm also a musician, mystic, and marijuana aficionado.

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26 y/o      Livermore, California

I have always known I was missing the dark kinky things in bed. Now that I am single again I want to find a well knowledge Dom who can train me to be a well behaved Sub. I will have to ask for a patient Dom, for I am willing to try many new things I have never done before. As anyone new to this world there will be unknown limits and I'm hoping I can find someone who is willing to work with me. I also prefer the age between 23-35. Thank you and I hope to hear from you soon ;)

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  Pennsylvania

Know anyone else in the lifestyle? Ever wondered what it would be like to share? I’d love if you and some friends would come play with me. I would prefer mostly guys but wouldn’t mind having another girl. I don’t have many limits and it’s something I’ve always wanted to try so let me know if you think you can make it happen..

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28 y/o      Tennessee

I am looking for online play only . A dom male who knows how to hand a little bad girl. some time i want a daddy with a loving touch and sometimes i want a Master with a firm hand. I do not send nudes do get on cam. I have been trained in slave pet sub and Mistress. But my mood depends on what i am looking for. I do want control and to have fun and to squirt so hard it goes every where. I know how to please a man well. when role playing details are important to me. i am 24 and in tennessee come check me out. and age is just a number. If you want to know about me just ask.

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  United States

Looking for an online dom who is into anal training and stretching.

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24 y/o      Columbus, Ohio

Hi! I am a 20 year old female sub new to BDSM. I have no real experience but I have an idea of what I want and have done my research. I am looking for a Dom to guide me and teach me more about this lifestyle. I would like to start online at first and then move to real life when we are both comfortable. Please read my profile for more information and don't be afraid to shoot me a message! Looking forward to hearing from you:)

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41 y/o      Orlando, Florida

Lost Little/Middle looking for my daddy. I’m a 37 yo single white female looking for a 35-55 single white male. Please visit my profile to see all my desires and what I can offer. Thank you and have an amazing day!

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42 y/o      Ontario

I am not new to the lifestyle but my play has been somewhat limited so there's still plenty I like to explore.

I know I am seeking a Daddy Dom - it's just the best fit. I am seeking someone who is strict and not easily swayed (the brat in me will definitely try) but still understanding and patient. It seems this mix is hard to find but I'm not rushing into something - best things in life are worth waiting for.

I'm also seeking someone who has a vibrant vanilla life but still time for a relationship. It seems so many seem to work like 100 hours a week and there's no time to get to know each other. On the other hand if your entire life revolves around kink and you'd like me to be naked 24/7 and at your feet all the time - we will not be a match but I wish you well in your search!

Seems like a lot of requirements before telling you about me - my apologies - just want to make sure we are on the same page.

I am a single female who is monogamous with a possibility of play with others if under the right circumstances. I'm not poly but at the same time there is a bit of wiggle room here. It's a conversation we should have if things click.

I love spanking. I like it for fun but also need it for discipline. I honestly know myself well enough to know what works to wield away guilt and stress when needed and a good spanking definitely fits the bill. I also enjoy roleplay in this regard and would love to find someone who also loves to pretend.

I ageplay somewhat but not really into diapers and the like. I also find it seems to be a mood thing. Sometimes I just need to be little and feel protected, or playful, or even a little naughty.

I'm willing to try new things except for anything I find morally wrong (kids, animals, and the like) and things I simply can't stomach for me personally - needles comes to mind. I'm also not interested in Being a Domme or switching. Again nothing wrong with either but for me we would not be a match.

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  Namur, Wallonia

i'm totally new to this and searching for people to guide me

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  New York

Hello, I’m a newbie. Looking for a dom relationship to progress to a 1:1. I work in the community so I have some limitations. New York area.

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  Massachusetts

Hi there boys!
My names is Michele and I’m 24. I’m looking for a strong man to come take change of me. I’ve been so lonely.... and no one really takes charge like they say they will. I want to be trained like the good whore I know I can be. I want to be used and humiliated. I want your attention on me and only me. I like bondage, pain is pleasure. I like orgrasm denial, tit abuse, etc.

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38 y/o      New Mexico

Searching for my Daddy/Master/Owner. Looking for someone who is serious, Dominant, and wants long term. I prefer in person, but online is completely acceptable if serious about meeting and becoming a true Dominant/submissive/Master/slave relationship. If you have any questions ask and I’ll answer ☺️

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  Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm looking for a dominant man that can teach me all there is to learn about being a submissive. I want to call him my daddy. ... the potential is there to be more then just on a bdsm level.

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  Ohio

I may be on the wrong site... Looking for a true partner, a teacher and a best friend.

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  Texas

31-year old submissive female seeks Dominant male for training and structure. I am not necessarily looking for the sexual aspect of a D/s relationship although I do know it is used as tool to broaden my horizons etc. I am not a complete masochist pain only gets you so far with me before I am bored so being creative is a must.

I am not looking to just jump in and submit. I need to get to know you and your philosophy/style on being a Dom to see if we will be a good fit. That being said I will refer to you as Sir out of respect not ownership. I have had a few bad experiences so I am being highly selective in this process.

I am a single mom and cannot live the lifestyle 24/7. Eventually I would be into TPE but for now it would be just during a session. I am looking for a caring Dom who will help me grow and become the best version of myself and get help me get rid of some bad habits I have developed. I am in the HOU TX area and would prefer local if possible.

I am eager to learn, passionate, and a little sassy.

Hope to hear from you.

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  Portland, Oregon

I’m an 18 year old little/sub I own a somewhat successful Adult Pacifier shop and spend a lot of my time doing that. I enjoy playing video games and reading in my free time. I’m looking for more of a long term ddlg sort of relationship though ddlg does not have to be the main focus. I would like this to not be fully sexual but emotional as well. I prefer irl but would like to start with online. I prefer someone to be in the age range of 20-30. I’m 5’4” blonde with blue eyes. I’m a bit on the chubbier side though I’m losing a lot of weight currently. I carry most of my weight in my bust. I’d say most people would consider me attractive.

I’ve never been in a bdsm relationship though I’ve dabbled in it a little bit though my partner was highly inexperienced and more on the submission side. I’ve had a hard time finding someone who is dominate. I’ve been age regressing for many years but have kept it non sexual. I’m very educated on the ddlg community as it’s a huge part of my job. I have interest in lots of thing such as bondage. Though I’m quite open to most things and would like to explore and figure out what I like.

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  Toronto, Ontario

I am a 22 year old female, new to the BDSM world. I have some light experience being a submissive but would like to gain more experience and have a dom in my life. I am very open minded in what i would try, but have discovered that i do thoroughly enjoy rope play and being helpless and at my dom's disposal. i am open to an online dom/sub relationship but would like to experience more first hand. willing to learn how to become a good sub.

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  El Dorado Springs, Missouri

I am looking to get know someone and then have Dom/sub relationship as well as DD/LG. I have to have aspects of both. I definatly want it to be long term. Seriouse inquiries only please.

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39 y/o      Dallas, Texas

Please review my profile. It’s short and concise. See if we may fit.

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  Vancouver, British Columbia

Hi. I have always known I was a sub, I love being controlled. This is very new to me as I am just entering this. If anyone is interested in training or chatting I'd love to talk. Thank You <3

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  Chicago, Illinois

I think I'm ready to meet the right Daddy for me, and I'm hoping I don't have to attempt vanilla dating to meet people. I would like someone local ( Chicagoland area) but am up to LD for the right person. Someone to chat with would be amazing as well if something transpires fantastic! But I'm happy with being friends..

Please NO MARRIED MEN! I've been fooled many times before, Not this time Satan! Giggles but seriously pwease be Single and available.
If being part of the local scene is something you are NOT comfortable with exploring we might not be a good fit.

One more ... Please read my profile before you message me I might not be everyone's cup of tea but I'm definitely worth a sip. ❤️

PS...

I do have pics set to friends only, please have the same so we can see what each other looks like before, instead of wasting our times.

I'm also on Kik and NO I will not send you naughty pics.

Wishing myself luck this time! ?????

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  Los Angeles, California

relatively new to this... seeking someone with whom i vibe intellectually as well as sexually. for me it's all about the dynamic and the chemistry... i need to get a feel for my dom's energy before i know if it's going to work, i need to hear your voice, see your photos, video chat, etc. i am 32 years old, fit, curvy, and in grad school. if you message me please send a photo and your age.
oh, and i'm definitely a bratty sub, especially in the beginning... i need a dom who likes a challenge.

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44 y/o      Los Angeles, California

I have been interested in BDSM and being dominated for a while and finally willing to explore. I am looking for an experienced dom to give me a taste of what I've been fantasizing about for so long time. I got a small taste at a Sanctum party years ago and loved every minute of it including the rush of being watched. I enjoyed being flogged and electric play. I look forward to meeting you. Take care and see you soon.

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  United States

The feeling of space and safety as a submissive goes beyond heaven on earth. Being a Dom to a sub like me who wants to learn and grow can be an even greater feeling. Are you my DD?

Looking to learn and grow with right DDom. I'm Classified as an alphasub/baby girl (middle). Ideally, this occurs online. I'm looking for a D/s connection where I can learn to be a better submissive in a positive atmosphere. I have a husband who is fully aware of who I am and I understands it is time for me to blossom.

I need to learn to be open and trust, and submit properly. In return, you will find an eager, willing, intelligent woman who will please you.

I am not looking to be humiliated or abused.

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26 y/o      Minneapolis, Minnesota

Welp. 4 years no luck. In search of a brat tammer and sadist. I know the red flags and you know if your fake so dont even try to pull one over on me. Looking for IRL. Im in Austin, TX

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33 y/o      Spencer, North Carolina

I'm now in Dewitt Iowa and still looking for that special someone

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  Albany, New York

Hello I am extremely new to this, so I'd like a dom to teach me through online interactions. I have a pretty severe anxiety disorder, making seeking out my kinky fantasies quite difficult. I need someone who understands this and is willing to be patient and work with me.

I'm a 24 year old female, homoflexible.

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  Colorado

I tried going vanilla and it does not work for me. I need what I previously had.

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  Iwate, Iwate

i m in seek of mature man or couple. i m in seek of guide and advise

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  Cape Coral, Florida

I would really like to find the one who fills me with so much that I can submit finally and belong.
I'm in search of purpose and I need a dom to do just that.

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24 y/o      United Kingdom

I’m looking for a dominant, someone I can compromise with and and help me explore even more , once I know you ain’t a fake person and are real about this I will send you pictures of myself , I do have a child so I will not be able to see you everyday but I will do what you say everyday

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  Houston, Texas

I'm a brat. I like to push and see how the other responds . Over time after gaining my respect and trust I don't push as much . I require time and understanding . I don't relinquish easily . I have only had one dom. What I have to offer is for only for one . I'm a serial monagamist .

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35 y/o      Palo Alto, California

(Ideally you’re located near San Francisco, California, US)...
Hi there, new to this site and relatively new to this community. I am a sub looking to embrace that role with a darn lucky dom.. here to explore your body’s desires. :) I have a very high sex drive and would be happy with that being the main focus of my time. I’ve gotten into exploring a bit more, and would love to learn and play around and really explore and be shown the possibilities. I am open and willing. Though I may be new to this community, I know this is the role for me, and I know that man will be more than happily surprised with the possibilities on your end.. as trust me, I do my homework and have gotten phenomenal feedback. ;) That being said, though I may present a conservative reserved lady in public, I’m down to cater to our bodies’ desires, and want to continue to find ways to make our bodies explode with excitement..

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  Nevada

Hi, I am looking for a strong, intelligent, successful man who enjoys a fat black ass to take advantage. See my profile or message me for more. Please be 35+

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34 y/o      Atlanta, Georgia

I would like to meet a dominant man, obviously! Someone who is super into fitness and the outdoors. I'm very sarcastic and have an irreverent sense of humor, but I'm always polite to partner. It is important for me to also find someone I can laugh with.

I'm not looking to be a slave. However, I am looking to be a 24/7 submissive and in a monogamous relationship.

Let's get to know each other. :)

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  Valley Stream, New York

I'm a cool, caring, loyal woman with a good sense of humor. I've never been lucky enough to meet someone who shares my kinks, although that's on me for not looking. A self assured dominant man can pretty much have me any way he wants me.

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  Chicago, Illinois

I’m a prim and proper painslut with a smart mouth. I am seeking the ever so elusive dominant leaning male that’s not domineering: it’s an important distinction. Just trying to find a partner that matches with me on a few different levels, and outside of that, friends that happen to be into kink too. I think the world is a much better place when you have a big kinky group of friends.

What do I want out of this?

I want to feel good. I want to feel wanted, and I want to hurt. Let’s explore boundaries of mind and body together.

That being said. I need you to know your stuff. I want someone that’s educated, kind and willing to try new things. Know that if you want something sexual with me, we will be taking it slow. I'm demisexul so that sort of attraction comes after I get to know someone, but once I do, I am very much open to exploring

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