Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  Colombia

Please let me know if you want to train me, sub in the chubby side tho.

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  Winder, Georgia

Hi my name is Cassie I'm 26 years old and I'm looking for a daddy/master I'm looking for someone thats kind, caring, loving and can be strict when needed , someone is likes taking control, etc hope to here from you

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  Charlotte, North Carolina

Hi I’m pretty new to this space. I’m looking for an ✨experience✨ for my birthday that’s tomorrow!! I’m turning 20 I am a curvy hispanic woman and I consider myself to be pretty open minded send me a message and maybe we can set something up?

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  United States

Well, I finally stopped procrastinating and joined the site to see what it’s all about. I’m still trying to figure out what I like and expressing my sexuality, so I’m looking for someone who doesn’t mind taking an inexperienced, adhd having sophomore college student under their belt. Message me if you’re interested, would love to talk casually first instead of jumping straight in.

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  Oregon

Exploring what I like, and need someone to help with that. Big on trust, i don’t do hookups or meetups with strangers. I don’t feel sexual attraction to people i have no connection with so being friends and having chemistry is a must. Keeping it short because i’d like to talk specifics in chat if i like you only:) look at my profile before messaging me to see if we’re a good fit first please <3 absolutely not looking for a relationship or anything serious

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32 y/o      United States

I’ve been looking for the right Dominant for a while now but no such luck. I’ve been in a couple dynamics but nothing serious. I’ve been into bdsm ever since high school. I was watching Real Sex on HBO at the time. A women was getting hot wax poured on her back, I started my journey in 2018 but finally decided in 2023 that this is the lifestyle for me. I love being Daddy’s good girl and knowing that I’ve done a good job for him. I want to know what it feels like to be truly DOMINATED by a Dom who has my full trust and devotion. Words can’t describe how I feel being submissive. I feel safe , desired , wanted and protected. I want to feel my Doms dominance more than sexually. I want to feel him mentally and emotionally as well. I’m looking for a Dom to motivate and guide me to get me where I need to be. I love pleasing my Daddy and I love the pleasure I receive in return.

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  North Carolina

I'm a 23 year old submissive girl interested in a caring dom to talk to and take some control in my life. Message me if that interests you.

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53 y/o      Carrollton, Texas

Roleplay and ageplay during sex turns me on. If you can get me off over a video call then I wanna do a playmates for awhile maybe FWB thing as long as we both want.
I'm a chubby babygirl when a Daddy type wants to take his lil thing and make her want it, and loves her soft roundedness. Are you the taboo type that can --in fantasy-- talk about taboo things? All the while knowing we will have sex in real life for as long as we both desire. Sapio- and demi-sexual but not femm girl loves jeans and flannels and outdoors in nature in mild weather; these things give me pleasure and I want to please my big daddy too.
Is there someone who could want the same near in Dallas or would travel here to get time together?

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42 y/o      San Jose, California

I'm an autistic Jewish woman who is becoming a 1950s submissive housewife sex doll. My office worker horoscope is INTP 5w4. I'm working on my social anxiety and turning myself into a barbie.

I'm a very pretty girl who is curvy with a nice body, butt and legs and has a beautiful face. I am very fun to hang around with but I am a little odd. I don't like dumb people. I love to be dressed up and vulnerable with my caring daddy. Not into humiliation at all

My other interests are: my businesses, hip hop, computer science, math, stocks, art creating and collecting, judaism, and health and fitness.

I love a protective daddy, big bro or uncle who is interested in dollification because I'm new and sorta clueless. Not looking for anything serious or exclusive at the moment. I like rich, savage and tough guys like Eminem and 50 Cent, but I like other types of guys too. I'm from a very conservative background, so please don't be a creeper or a stupid person because I'll roast you.

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58 y/o      Metairie, Louisiana

Looking for a Master who is fair, firm, and living

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  Washington, District of Columbia

Im a sub female based on DC. I’m 24, six foot one, and athletic. I’m looking for a dom that values consent and safety. Please send a photo when you respond if you are comfortable (if you’re not comfortable showing your face no worries)

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  Guelph, Ontario

hi I’m 23 years old, looking for irl in Canada! super into pet play and a big submissive!

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26 y/o      Seattle, Washington

Sub/slave female looking to be used, degraded, edged asap and establish an online dynamic:)

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  Davenport, Iowa

Straight Sub looking to be owned

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  Aguascalientes, Aguascalientes

If you can't with me bye bye, honey

A normal person- Vanilla -couldn't conceive of someone feeling relaxed while being tied up, exposed, restricted and beyond their will, but I... find peace.

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  United Kingdom

Only in the UK

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36 y/o      Boise, Idaho

I want to hear your voice break when I call you Daddy or Sir. To make you struggle to maintain control. I want to push hard, and get knocked back into my place. Can you make me crave you? Dominate me mentally? Which one of us will give in?

Seeking a brat handler. I'm defenseless against natural charisma, dominance, and a deviously clever Dom. I crave the mental sparring, the banter, and being made into brainless mush when I'm outwitted. One of my favorite activities healslutting, so you get all the scratch 'n' sniff stickers if you can top while mid-game. Submission and I are already acquainted. I don't need a tired monologue about how I can only learn to submit through you, I want to learn about you. Can you make me giddy for the next message?

I prefer my partners my own age (or a little older) so 34-44, and the closer you are to Idaho the better. Not interested in something strictly online, though it can start there, and I'm Monogamish.

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  Delaware

seeking new owner

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72 y/o      United States

Sassy sub looking for a real-life romance hero Dom. Strong, tall, handsome (to me) sexy dominant but with a soft heart. I'm looking for a RL long-term D/s with a man who takes charge but listens to his sub. Who can be seriously romantic making my heart melt, playful, and funny but have a strong hand when necessary. (I can be a handful at times). Let's talk and see where it goes.

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  Pennsylvania

I am seeking a dominant man for just online. If your open for a new submissive message me.

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28 y/o      Tulsa, Oklahoma

I'm a new sub looking for a serious long term Dom. Must be local or willing to travel. I'm new, kind of bratty, but I know my kinks and limits. Willing to explore new things that I've never tried (which is a long list) send me a message.

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  Troy, Missouri

I’m looking for a Dom to get to know, preferably in MO or close enough to make travel possible, find out if we click on a mental and emotionally intimate level before moving forward into a form of 24/7 TPE dynamic preferably. I’m beginning my introduction to the lifestyle fresh with new eyes and looking to take time to learn new things and be trained to be the best sub I can be without losing myself again. Feel free to message me respectfully. Unasked for honorifics or assumed dynamics and boundary crossing will have you shown the front door before you even think the color “red”.

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  Jamaica

Maybe I should just give up on ever finding a Master I have on this site and others and still haven't been able to find a Master who is seriously interested in having me as 24/7 slave. I just very disappointed I have been very unsuccessful in peaking any one interst

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  San Luis Obispo, California

I am a transgender female submissive and need of training and discipline this is not some childish game this is something I am seriously trying to get into anyone out there in California hit me up

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46 y/o      South Carolina

Natural born sub. Sometimes a lil bratty. New to BDSM. Want to be a slave

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24 y/o      Florida

looking for someone local to talk to and see where things go

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  St. Louis, Missouri

Hello. I am new here, newer to the bdsm world. Mostly just horny and likely looking for a hookup. Someone who is into the same things as I am in bed... like age play, ropes, cuffs, etc etc..... Its not hard to figure out if you are for real or not, I am a busy busy woman so do not waste my time please!

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37 y/o      Indiana

Ready to find my full-time Dom. I will preface with, I am needy. I love attention and need constant reassurance. Thank past relationships for that. With that said, the attention and reassurance will be reciprocated. I'm not here to just get laid. So if that's what you're looking for, kindly keep moving. Don't get that wrong, sex is very important to me and I want it often, but I need much more than that as well.

I am fairly alpha in my everyday life and need someone to help me get out of my head when the work day is done. I'm not asking to be taken care of financially. I work a full-time job and have that taken care of. I am looking for someone to be my safe haven. Someone that I have enough trust in to completely let my guard down.

Daddy doms go straight to the front of the line.

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  Provo, Utah

I am a 28 year old closet CD sissy. 5'7" tall , slim, athletic, submissive and very passable. Looking for a Dom man who can have me over for who I am. So I can charge into my real self , be my dominant daddy's little play thing. I am submissive and enjoy being in bondage and being told what I should do. I want to be used, abused, experimented with, enjoyed and told what to do.

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  Champaign, Illinois

I wish to obey

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21 y/o      Sherbrooke, Quebec

Hello!
I am a new sub and would love to meet a dom to guide me into the community and help me learn my likes and limits

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  Texas

Seeking a daddy/master for some online/in person play ASAP. It’s been so long since I’ve gotten any sort of activity & it is driving me crazy.

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28 y/o      Kentucky

Hi there, I'm a 27 year old switch (mainly sub) female who is curious about (almost) all things BDSM related. At this time I am looking for a bi-sexual switch/dom male that is looking for a playful, curious switch/sub.
I am not looking for anything serious as I just got out of a long-term relationship, but training and new experiences are okay for me. Im mainly hoping for more online connections first and seeing where things go. I love getting to know people so hit me up anyone.

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37 y/o      Illinois

I am seeking a Dom, preferably a Daddy type. I have a little side; however, she doesn't have to be a part of the dynamic. Online or IRL depending on location. If you think I'll submit after a couple of messages don't message me. This is a lifestyle, not a game. I have things I'm interested in exploring and need someone to help with them.

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  Australia

Hi!!

I'm Katie and I'm 23!!!
I'm fairly new to the BDSM community and I'm very excited to be here!!!
I'm looking for someone who is dominant and rough in bed but compassionate and romantic in other areas of life.
I'll admit I'm high maintenance and need attention and I'm looking for someone who has good conversation and likes to chat!
At the moment I am only looking for something online, not looking to meet in person.
Being quite new to the community, I also would prefer someone older and with more experience as I would like to learn more about my boundaries and what I like.
If all those things interest you, I'm keen to hear from you!!!

xx Katie

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19 y/o      Dallas, Texas

I love age play, bondage, and overstimulation/edging, I am a masochist but I have low pain tolerance and humiliation. I often push dominant buttons and I enjoy it. There hasn't been anyone able to control me and there never will be. That is a challenge.I am a brat but I'm not rude. But also in the end I want to be shown my place and have a master to control me in all ways possible and correct me when I mess up or am bratty. I want something longterm and I am willing to relocate if and when it comes to that. NO ONLINE but it can start that way

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  Missouri

Ok I am 40WF, I am TIRED AF of not getting off during sex without toys… more importantly… I am tired of telling men that I want THEM to be in charge, and they flake because “but I don’t want to hurt you” “I don’t like being ‘a little roughI’ with you!” Etc Etc. I have made ALL the household decisions up to now, and I just want to REST…. I want to relax. I want to be pleased! And I want YOU to know already exactly what that entails. Let’s chat… see if your weird fits my weird, yah?
*will want photos *

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  California

Looking for a Teacher. A male dom. One who can inspire me & train me for submission. If you are serious, and do not mind knowing i am a newbie in the lifestyle’s of Bdsm. i am a blank canvas, one that is very excited about learning how to be become a strong so
person choosing a submissive part in being in a relationship. If you’re interested I am happy to hear from you. Serious and want to begin training. Hopefully, Soon?

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34 y/o      Prineville, Oregon

Hi I am a 33 yr old sub looking for a don. Been in the lifestyle for 13 yrs + I am located in Oregon if u wanna know more feel free to message me

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25 y/o      Australia

Hellooo from the otherrr sideeeee~

Hi! It's a pleasure to meet you. Just hit me up anytime for some casual chit chat. Nothing lewd. I'm just bored and need some entertainment.

Sincerely,
Tasnim.

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  United States

Preferably all online, looking to be trained

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26 y/o      Minnesota

I'm a 25 year old submissive looking to explore a bit in this community . I'm still new to this lifestyle, I don't have much experience mostly because I'm scared.

I'm not looking to be a slave. I know I'm submissive and I have a little side.

I won't be interested in anyone older than 45.

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  Indiana

Hello! I am a 24 y/o submissive and little who is looking for a detail-oriented Daddy who enjoys looking at his submissive's day and micromanaging many aspects.

I am looking for someone who is going to take away the burden of having to think and decide for myself. I want to give all control to someone.

If this interests you, take a look at my profile for some more info!

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64 y/o      New York, New York

Attractive, fit woman, fairly new to lifestyle, living on Long Island, ISO Dom for eventual LTR. I have kids living in MA & NH, so I travel up there often, and would be open to relocating to that area. I recently retired from my job, so I have a lot of flexibility.
Would like someone fairly close to my age, who is into a healthy & adventurous lifestyle. Please be strict, honest, kind, affectionate, and communicative. I will question a lot because I’m curious and still learning. I’ve been independent and self-sufficient I through most of my life, and it would be nice to find someone who can cherish and take care of me. If I feel appreciated, I will strive to serve well, Have always fantasized about certain aspects of this lifestyle, and recently discovered that there is a whole world to explore. So far I have only dipped my toes slightly.
5’5”, 143. Prefer someone taller, bigger than me.

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  Jacksonville, Florida

I’m a 49 year old white female looking for a dominant male. I love anal and want to be fisted. I am a virgin in my pussy and mouth. Also interested in a threesome or gang bang.

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  United States

Hi and thank you for taking the time to check out my ad! I am a late 30s naturally submissive woman seeking a confident, assertive and controlling man for a long term D/s dynamic. My preference would be for it to be equal parts mental and sexual control and connection.

I am in a vanilla relationship currently and crave a Dom/sub dynamic that can satisfy me in all ways. I value intelligence, dominance and communication. I am located on the east coast, so if we build an amazing connection I am willing to consider more than an online dynamic for the right person. I'd love to hear from you if any of this resonates with you and what you're seeking :)

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  Delaware

I am married with an agreement with my spouse and hope to find a nearby Dom in a similar situation. I am an experienced sub and am not looking to play games, just build a committed, hopefully long lasting dynamic...

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  New Zealand

Little looking for her daddy strict but caring of his babygirl

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61 y/o      Tucson, Arizona

Hi Handsome. I am open to most anything. I am still exploring. I am looking for a D/s DD/babygirl. I am only a little some of the time, a 5 year old. And only if my Dom draws it out. Not all Doms have that effect on me. Its weird, I know.
I have links for my bdsm test and my humansexmap if you want to see them.
I will answer any questions you have. I am open and honest.

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  Phoenix, Arizona

I am looking for a strong man to take me in hand.

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41 y/o      Hartford, Connecticut

I'm currently looking to find a new master that can use me and teach me..im 24/7 submissive very few limits high pain tolerance and willing to try anything once. I prefer me within 20 miles. Men over 50. I also like my master to be taller than me. I'd love to chat if you're looking to own a loyal obedient good girl

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  New York

Young, new sub looking for a dom near long island, NY to teach me how to properly serve! I love toys, being tied up, and being degraded.

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27 y/o      Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

***I'm located in Oklahoma city, Oklahoma

Hello, I will not use my real name at this time so you can call me Rayne.
For several years, I have been studying the BDSM lifestyle but haven't managed to find anyone to help teach me. It has been difficult and the ones who try to get involved aren't truly dominants. They just like a little bit of control in the bedroom. I need a true dominant who has a few years experience, and can help me understand what I need and want. I'm a beginner, so I need someone who will go slow with me.
I want to enjoy the bdsm clubs that are close to me. Have someone who can answer my questions as I watch and try to understand how everything works.
Thank you, and hope to hear from some of you.

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  Fochville, Gauteng

I am looking for my dom who would like to own me. Make contact.

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23 y/o      Australia

Hi, I'm non-binary (afab) submissive age 22. Who is new to the BDSM scene by that I mean I have done a lot of reading on it but nothing physical. I'm looking for a person (male, female, non-binary) who can train me and help me embrace my submissive side with all the kinks that come along with that. I have been SA. If you are not ready to handle all the trauma and triggers that come with that. Please don't respond to this

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26 y/o      Seattle, Washington

I’m looking to be used and owned and humiliated. The sooner the better, let’s get right to it lol roleplay with me.

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  Florida

my ultimate sexual fantasy is to be on my hands and knees under your (60+ male) desk for the day as your slut and pleasure toy. not looking for a long term serious collar type situation.

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26 y/o      United States

Age regressor and brat

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34 y/o      United States

Im in open relationship and looking for second dom

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  Massachusetts

Hello, I’m a sensual and very obedient sub still searching for an incredible connection. I’m 34, and prefer a Dom who is between 37-50 years old with experience. I am an open book, integrity and honesty are imperative to forming a deep connection where I can be my most vulnerable. I would prefer a connection that isn’t solely based online. Mental stimulation is equally important to physical pleasures for me. I have so much to give of myself, and would prefer an exclusive D/s relationship. I’ve been searching for you, want to find my powerful, dominant and caring match, where are you hiding?

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