Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  Montclair, New Jersey

Hi, I have had a long term interest in submissive behavior. I am looking for someone with whom I can start exploring my desire to engage in submissive play. I am kind of beginning this path.

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  Houston, Texas

Hi I’m looking for someone LOCAL in Houston or Texas to help me start and explore my limits.

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27 y/o      New South Wales

Hey all I’m 22 and a sub I do have bratty tendencies I am looking for someone to help me push my limits and teach me more about the world of BDSM

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28 y/o      Florida

Currently searching for an experienced Dom to broaden my horizons and help me explore this dynamic.

Kinks:
Rope play
Masochism
Daddy Dom
Some pet play
Impact play
RACK
CNC
Brat
Voyeurism

Dislikes/Hardlimits:
Urination/scar
Any type of bodily fluid
A Dom not believing in aftercare
Shaming(aside from being in a scene)
No permanent damage/scarring
Needles
Breath play
No public play
Addressing me by my real name unless need be

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42 y/o      United Kingdom

Been in this lifestyle for almost 15 years. I'm not sure how I consider myself, a slave, a brat, a little, a princess. I fall into each of these categorise with different aspects of my personality, my profile can tell You more.

I'm in the East of England and often (before covid) could be found at events in Kings Lynn and look forward to going to more once all this is over.

What hoping to find is someone who is strict and firm, that knows Himself and but is also kind an caring when needed. Its an added bonus for me if He enjoys rope.

I apologize i'm really rubbish at writing this sort of this so I hope that maybe You will be able to find the time to look at my profile, if not and Your just passing by, I wish You a wonderful day.

Talk soon.
Boo
xoxo

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  Derby, England

Hi im new to this and want a dom to help me explore my kinks and my limits, I am a 30 yr old sub from derbyshire/nottinghamshire in the uk and would want someone who is willing to meet when safe and until then to build a connection and trust.
feel free to message me
thanks

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43 y/o      California

Well educated strong minded middle/little. 38yr old female. LTR. I’m over the vanilla and fake BDSM types. Looking for a respectful honest and open Daddy. Must be within 30 miles of Los Angeles. Must be 30-50 years old. Must have knowledge of dynamic and ability to express said knowledge. I’m not going about this flippantly anymore. Submission is not demanded- it’s given as the previous gift it is when the time is right.

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  California

Hello, I prefer bbc but if you have a big dick message me. I want to have my holes busted open

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34 y/o      Liberty, South Carolina

looking for a actual dom who wants a TRUE 100% obedient submissive. i am sick of dealing with fake doms that have no clue what im after! please inquire if serious.. needs to be within a hour or so of clemson, sc

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  United States

Ok so... I'm new at this. Not just new to bdsm though... I'm 25 and I was a 'virgin' until about 6 months ago. I've had my fair share of trauma in my life and spent all of my teens and 20s avoiding getting close to anyone. The event 6 months ago wasn't exactly consensual, either, and I'm struggling with PTSD. And yet... I have this dark part of me that I can't keep ignoring. Deep down I'm a needy little masochist. I want to be controlled, bound, cut, and bruised. I've played around with some of these things on my own but that's not enough. I want to belong to someone. I want to be someones fuck puppy and get praised for being good. I'm scared shitless to post something like this, but I'm sick of this void in my life.

I'm a bigger lady, bi, 5'5", black hair, green eyes, G-cups, 0g plugs, and several tats, who listens to noise punk and loves video games. It'll probably take a while of getting to know you to divulge anything more, so I'm sorry in advance.

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  Lebanon, Ohio

Hi my name is Mahina and as you can see I'm looking for that someone to be my Dom.

I'm fairly new to being someones sub but I've known what kinks I like since I was 16, I'm now 20.
I've never had a Dom so bare with me, I'm always eager to learn different kinks though.
I'd describe myself as an open minded, free spirited, understanding black woman. I'm accepting of people and I dont judge to quickly.
I love physical touch, doesn't have to be sexual but that's a plus too...
I could list all of my kinks but there's no fun in that lol
I can be bratty at times but submissive most times I believe. Hmm.... I dont know what else to jot down besides message me ;)

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  West Chester, Pennsylvania

Hi I'm Meg, I live in West Chester PA and I am new to the community. I'm a 20 college student looking for a dom with experience willing to train a new sub. 30 and older preferably but I think age is just a number.

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28 y/o      Russellville, Arkansas

I am looking for a dom/daddy dom. Someone that can handle me.

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  Newton, Iowa

I'm new to this but if ur patient I would like to learn online only

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26 y/o      Escanaba, Michigan

I am a 20 years old woman who doesn't have much training as anything I haven't tested my limits so I'm up for anything

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22 y/o      Mansfield, Texas

Hi I’m Lexi and I’m 18 from Dallas, Texas. I am a little who needs to be trained. My kinks are in my bio and I would love to discuss with you more. Please don’t be discourage about my age, I have plenty of experience. I am a African American BBW (plus size) by the way! I am a little shy so please hit me up (PLEASE ONLY DOMS/DOMMES)

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46 y/o      Bellingham, Washington

Hello!

I'm looking for someone who is willing to teach me. I have been vanilla most of the time but had an opportunity to explore a little more and found it very appealing. I want someone who is willing to teach, and take things slowly at first. It's difficult for me to trust others. Once I do, I am completely devoted. I am a BBW, so you really have to be OK with that as it has been very difficult for me to lose weight. Who knows though, maybe you could help me with that, too? Ideally, I'd like this to be a LTR and in-person.

As my profile mentions, I'm bi-curious. I would like to explore that side of me, but ultimately I want one relationship at a time. I might feel differently in time, but I don't want to start out as being one of many. So, male or female, I look forward to meeting you!

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37 y/o      Victoria

33, F, Aussie Primal Babygirl sub looking for a LTR with a dominant male.

Preferably sensualist/non-sadist/ Daddy Dom types as I am not a masochist and do not enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I prefer older men, so 40+.

I am looking for someone local and not online (done that enough).

I like Rockabilly guys, guys into cars or similar. Motorcycles are welcome too because I'd love to get a cruiser to go on long trips.

I have a dominant type personality so if that is an issue for you then I'm not your girl.

Have a good one,

~ MM

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31 y/o      Boston, Massachusetts

Hi! I’m a sub/slave and know it is my purpose to serve. Looking for a master that I can explore with in order to better serve and please him. I can sometimes be a brat and know that means I’ll be punished. I’m looking to be used as my master sees fit. I’m a masochist so my master would need to have some sadist tendencies. Also really interested in a gangbang. Located in Boston so it would be great if you are local- also open to online. If you think you’d be good for send me a message!

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26 y/o      Florida

Hi I am 21 years old from south Florida. A little about me... I have blonde hair and blue eyes, I'm 5ft7 and im a little curvy. Currently I am hoping to find a younger dom from Florida who wants a sub/dom relationship. I prefer not to do long distance or anything online sorry :/ I also prefer a to date a white Male as well as a guy who is taller than me. I've always have had a thing for tall guys. I am new to this lifestyle but I have always found myself to be very submissive. I love a guy to be in control and physically dominate me as well. If u decide to message me please be respectful. I am naturally a very shy and timid person but once im comfortable with you I'm very bubbly and fun.

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42 y/o      Denver, Colorado

Anyone interested in an online sub/dom relationship?

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36 y/o      Denver, Colorado

I am looking for a long term relationship with a caring daddy dominant who wants to breed me

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  Racine, Wisconsin

Just turned 18 looking to find a dom in the southeast wisconsin area. I haven’t tried anything so I’m open to a lot, I am plus sized!!! I think my personality and links match a brat sub

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26 y/o      Louisiana

Umm im kinda new at this but im a brat seeking an experienced dom. Im looking between the age of like 20-35. Im looking for a relationship but also just trying to further educate myself within the community. If something should happen and we work out then thats great. I like personality above all else. Im just a geeky dorky brat whose into anime and weeb stuff check out my profile for more info message me.

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26 y/o      California

Hello there, I am looking for a Dom to show me the ropes. (Literally and metaphorically). I am new to this and am craving an experienced man to show me what pleasure truly is. Take a look at my profile and see if it piques your interest. ;)

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  Houston, Texas

I am new to the scene but I desperately want to find a dominant to teach me! However, I was looking for something in real life and not online, an actual relationship type thing and not fwb, and someone who has patience! Message me :)

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28 y/o      New Jersey

I have recently become more involved with the community although I have had an interest in it for a few years now. I am a 23-year-old woman looking for a dom in their twenties or early thirties who would be interested in having an internet connection and possibly something more. While I am new to this and young, I confident in who I am and what I like.

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36 y/o      Oxford, England

Seeking the right one

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  United Kingdom

I’m new to the scene and have limitations surrounding my working life.
I’m a 49 y.o professional woman seeking a discreet dominant man. I’m 5’6, curvaceous ( which I think is now referred to as bbw).
I have felt the need to be dominated for quite some time and ‘research’ has lead me here. The relationship would have to be mostly online but hookups, social gatherings are also of interest.
My lack of experience means I’m unsure of my actual boundaries as yet but I know I will not participate in anything to do with electricity, urine or faeces ( sorry to sound crass but I don’t want to waste anyone’s time)
M

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50 y/o      Nevada

Hello, I am very new to this life and am looking for someone to teach me. I am looking for long term. I've come to terms with who I am and I'm ready to explore. I am in my forties, but I don't look it. I am black. I'm open to other races. I also have a black womans body. Because of my profession relocation is not an issue, if we hit it off. I've studied the lifestyle from afar and know what a TRUE Dom or Mater should look like so I won't accept becoming just someone sex toy. I'm not looking for a group involvement either, been there done that. I don't do degradation or slavery either. Those are hard limits for me. I am a alpha female so please make sure you are a true DOM/MASTER before you step to me, because I won't bow down for just anyone. Hit me up if you're interested.

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  Milton Keynes, England

Hi im new to this, only done vanilla sex.
Willing to try many things,
Wanting a dom max 35years old in uk near luton.
Wanting a serious experience dominant to teach me everything. As i want to have full experience from submissive and dominant
From toys, to anal and even 3some, all new to me.
Xxx

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  United States

I’m looking for a guy who prefers to be dominant but also would enjoy me taking control from time to time. I’m 24 years old, currently single and living on my own. I’d like to find something long(ish) term, and eventually meet if we really vibe and live close to each other (I’m in PA). Looking forward to talking!

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  Lancaster, England

I am 41 and just got out of a long term relationship. I want to explore the submissive side of me. I don’t want a full on relationship just somebody I can trust. I am educated and need anybody I meet to be very discreet. I am not into the whole being made to sleep on the floor and humiliation in that way but I am open to exploring what I would be willing to do.

However, although I am new to exploring this side of me, don’t message me expecting me to fall at your feet over the internet or on the phone! I am not exploring this side of me lightly and have researched what I should be looking for in a Dom and what I should not !! In my own life I have a very responsible and challenging job and will not tolerate men who think they can be aggressive or pushy with me! The reading about this has taught me that the number one thing between the D/s relationship is trust and MUTUAL respect so if you want me to start video chatting, sending photos and calling you immediately just jog on.

I need somebody I can have a conversation with ! I am a professional and need to be challenged. I would expect the person that is right for me is in a similar situation. I love intelligent men that turns me on more than looks! So before messaging me please ask yourself if what I am looking for is you? I don’t want to sound like a bitch but I am to old to mess about and know what I do/don’t want.

So if you are serious and meet the criteria I need and still want to message me I will look forward to it x

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35 y/o      Kenosha, Wisconsin

I am seeking a loving Daddy Dom for a serious and special long term relationship and more. My situation is a tad complicated but I really would like to show that I’m not here to waste any ones time. I really want to find a Daddy to fulfill my dreams. If you’d like to know more, please send a message.
However I’m not a Premium member, not sure if I’ll be able to respond to all messages.

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  Bahamas

Hit me up and let's get to know one another.

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  Fairborn, Ohio

I am pretty new to this scene and this website. I would like to have a real life thing but I don't really think is gonna happen sadly.

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32 y/o      United Kingdom

Very new to this and would like to do it right. Looking to chat and see if I am in the right place to possibly take it to the next step

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29 y/o      Toronto, Ontario

I'm a tiny masochistic kitten that's looking for a master to serve. Preferably one that will respect my limits, is strict and also able to keep a conversation going.
Message me and let's see if we click.

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62 y/o      Byhalia, Mississippi

I am a mature woman who knows what she
wants. A Sir in the Memphis area. I aim to please and do. Don't misbehave because I take pride in my art. Yes I do consider this art just like a dance. One that doesn't work alone. I have been with couples. But I don't want to share. Unless I am collared and ordered to. But life is never dull.

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  New York, New York

I'm 18 years old athletic, petite build. I'm goofy, loving, and caring.

Looking for a long term dominant partner who I can give control to. Ages between 25-50, a fit person who takes care of their body because I’ll do the same.

I’m currently studying, very intelligent and a hard worker.

I’m naturally a submissive person. I enjoy giving up control so that I can live stress-free and I need to be with a dominant I can trust.

I live in NewYork

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  England

Hey I’m looking for a Dom man to train me as his sub I’m knew to this but looking to push my limits and boundaries and be a good submissive for my dominant

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30 y/o      Harlingen, Texas

Soft and curvy with just enough spice to keep things interesting. While I am a submissive, I use the term "soft brat" very specifically. I love to tease and am naturally very playful. That being said
I will not submit at a moments notice. I like the chase and playing the game is the best part, even knowing I'm going to lose.

I am 26 years old and living in South Texas. I am polyamorous with a long distance partner and am now looking for a more local connection. I do fall on the "nerdy" end of the spectrum and would appreciate someone that can appreciate that from me. I wouldn't call myself a "little" but I do have some tendencies. I am most definitely a bit of a masochist and could definitely use a good spanking every now and again.

I do ask for a more experienced dom and appreciate an age gap. I am looking for a deeper connection. If you think you are someone who finds themselves compatible, please feel free to message me.

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54 y/o      Goldthwaite, Texas

Looking for a daddy want guidance and instruction for ltr

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  Boston, Massachusetts

Into BDDM, serious role play, gang bangs and more. We're both straight. Looking for a few guys to join in. ... Pete (the husband)

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  Los Angeles, California

Hot girl for fit guy

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49 y/o      Winnipeg, Manitoba

Hi,

I am looking for my next (and hopefully forever) Owner/Daddy. My profile contains a fair bit of bare basics, please feel free to ask any questions not answered within it, and please note the caveats it contains to avoid wasting your time in contacting me.

Thank you, and have a safe and happy day!

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37 y/o      Butler, Pennsylvania

I will keep this short.
Inexperienced Brat seeking to learn.
Preferably in person, online considered.
Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you :)

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37 y/o      United Kingdom

Hi there,

I’m Alice and am quite new to this. I live in London and also abroad part-time for work.

I guess a lot of women say this, but I’ve always felt like something is missing in my sexual relationships, and since my last break up, I told myself I won’t get back into a vanilla relationship that doesn’t satisfy me. I’ve had some BDSM experiences but ex partners have never wanted to take it as far as I have.

I’m a bit shy so please forgive me if it takes a while to be comfortable with you, but ultimately I’m not just looking for an online thing - it can start that way but am hoping for something that turns into real life eventually.

Please don’t hesitate to message me if you have any questions or if you want to chat!

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  Boonville, Missouri

I need a dom. A Daddy. Sub,slave new to this. Love to please. And be used.

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37 y/o      Lexington, Kentucky

I'm looking for an attractive caucasian male. I'm a 33yr old black female. I'm new to this lifestyle and want someone in my area to teach me how to be a sub. Looking for someone patient and kind...yet stern at the same time.

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  Miami, Florida

I am very new to this but I am eager to learn. I am looking for a master to teach me, I am a cute girl next store type of sub, interested in rope play, gagging, rape, spanking, DP, gangbang, collar, handcuffs, anal, baby play, daddy’s little girl, and more. I am a good girl with a naughty side who likes to be punished. Located in Miami FL

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  Worcester, Massachusetts

Obedient, submissive, compliant...ready to train, willing to learn and play ...I won't be your sub if you can't give me what I'm willing to give you..don't pm me unless you can handle me.

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25 y/o      Belgium

Hi master/sir
I'm D. I'm 21 years old. And I'm new in the bdsm world. I know I am submissive and I'd like to learn.
I prefer a master/ sir between 23-29.
Hope you can handle a tough girl becouse I can be hard to handle. But again I'm willing to learn.

I'm new so im still experimenting but
for now my limits are:
- scat
- blood
- to hard choking
- nothing with animals

As long as the respect is comming from 2 sides I'm willing to experiment.
my results from the BDSM test are on my profile. I would like to tell you my kinks in a message.

If you are interested, feel free to send a message.

Greetings,
D.

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28 y/o      Louisville, Kentucky

Hi! I'm newish to the lifestyle and I know that I don't have discipline and I've done a lot of research on the lifestyle and it is something I want/need and it just turns me on. Just the aspect of being controlled in a healthy and safe way. I've been looking for someone to teach me the lifestyle for awhile now and everyone I've spoken to just says what I want to hear and doesn't actually have a clue what the lifestyle is, or they don't follow through with it. And there's really nobody in my area or close to me that I have found. I'm turned on to it because of the connection you need to have, the trust you need to have, the security that comes with it all, the structure, the discipline, and of course the wonderful intimate parts of it all. I've just recently came to terms that its just time for me to be out there more to find the perfect Daddy/Dom/Master, whatever I'm needed for. I wanted a Master or an intense Dom because it's more on the hardcore side and I'm somewhat of a freak and enjoy a lot of things. And I just want to be able to enjoy myself and to please whatever Dom/Master I may end up with. I want to feel wanted for once and to have a purpose in my life.

I'm ready for this lifestyle and I'm wanting to fully experience it with someone who is trustworthy and fully committed as I am, who has enough experience to guide me and teach me, who isn't just telling me things I want to hear just to get off. I'm wanting a real Daddy/Dom/Master. I want real, not fake. Someone willing to meet me and not just do everything online until they are bored. I want to be owned and used and pleasured and I want to be able to please my Dom in every way I can.

If you're interested in being real with me, and helping me come into this lifestyle, then message me. If you're just trying to play games and waste my time, please don't bother.

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35 y/o      England

I’m a little girl looking for a Daddy to set rules etc. I’m a beginner so need teaching but I’m a fast learner. Looking for online to start with.

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  California

I need a dominant man to push me past my limits

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29 y/o      Connecticut

Hi all, I am looking for my Dom. I am fairly new to this lifestyle so I am looking for a Dom who is willing to be patient and train me. I want someone who kind and caring but can also take control and be stern. I am not into humiliation, degrading, or being a slave, this is non-negotiable. Read my profile to know a little bit about me. If I interested feel free to reach out and ask more, I answer all questions as openly and honestly that I can.

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50 y/o      Gainesville, Florida

Looking for a Daddy Dom 45+. Not your typical "little" but like DD best! Interested? Let's chat!

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  Charles Town, West Virginia

I'm not new to this world i know what I like and what i want. Basically I've had nothing but vanilla sex for the last 3 years and I'm done. I've decided I'd rather have nothing than be dissatisfied. I'm here looking for a dom. It's really very simple. I do not want anything online i need real human contact and long distance isn't an option for me. But if your looking for an experienced sub who's always open to trying new things please shoot me a message

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34 y/o      Malta

Hi,
I'm 29yo submissive woman, and I'm still new in live contact bdsm. I seeking for male dom who is willing to be my online master. I'm willing to obey and to learn.

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