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20F brat/sub searching for her dom
I've been doing this thing for I dunno how long but I haven't had not one bit of luck. I'm in search of my dom, female dom to be exact. My profile pretty much says all that there is to know but I am always willing to dish out a bit more about myself. Just, for the longest, I've been craving the feel and control of another woman. Men, being who and how they are most of the time just because I'm new, have not had any positive affect on me besides good friends. I hope that I can patiently speak to someone, hopefully of the same gender, that would be willing to give "this" a shot.
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Looking for a Dom
Hi there!

I'm new to this website but I've been into BDSM as a Sub/Little/Brat for a few years but never have been in a Dom/Sub relationship.

I'm looking for an LTR and I'm willing to learn and grow with guidance and understanding. I'm looking for a firm Dom whose open to me exploring boundaries and being supportive, yet not afraid to correct me when I've done something wrong. I am naturally submissive but I do like pushing peoples buttons so be warned. That being said, I would like to think I'm very nice and caring and will be there for you if you ever need someone to talk to or lean on. I don't want just a sexual relationship, romantic & emotional is what I love.

The relationship MUST be Monogamous due to me having a lot of damaging trust issues. Plus...I don't like sharing >.<

Since I am currently in College, unless you live near me, you must be okay with an online relationship, at least for awhile.

I am currently only looking for dominant woman, sorry. So if you're interested, check out my Profile to learn more about me and if you're still interested after that, feel free to message me!
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(25f) sweet baby brat iso dommy cg (21+)
hi there! i'm a sexual little/bratty sub looking for a strict lady cg. i'm interested in a long-term relationship, preferably with a domme my age/older, but i am open to anyone 21+ so long as you're mature and intelligent.

i'm 25 and just graduated college. i'm unemployed/homebound due to mental illness, and i am in the process of building my own business! i'm not looking for a sugar or someone to leech off; i want a partner and a friend who can also satisfy my kinky needs (and vice versa)!

sfw interests: cartoons, kawaii aesthetics, pastels, musical theatre, writing, politics, my puppy

nsfw interests/kinks: bondage, cnc, tickling, ageplay (non-negotiable), t&d, tpe, plenty more...

pls fill out my application if you're interested! (

xox, sophie
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Submissive Slave Slut Looking For Her Mistress !!!
i would like to meet a beautiful, sexy Female who will be Gentle , Loving , and Caring with me , and will ultimately become my best friend ,lover, and Mistress and to share good times with !!!
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I crave to be controlled.
I’m a natural sub & have an endless sex drive but I somehow found myself in a sexless relationship.
Sad. I know.

I’m looking for someone who doesn’t mind that I am in a relationship & who’d like to train me from beginning so that I’d be fully designed for their pleasure.

I guess it’s important to mention that I’m very attractive but still shubby. I lost 30kg/60lbs last year and I’m willing to lose another 15kg/30lbs for you.
I’ll act & look how you want me to.
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New Sub looking for a Femme Domme
Eager and excited to explore and experiment. Fresh to the scene and inexperienced and bi curious. Wanting a Female Domme to show me the ropes.
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Chastity slavegirl seeking online Mistress
I'm a chastity slavegirl looking for an online Domme. Possibility to meet up in person at some point, depending on location and circumstances.

I'm interested in being controlled 24/7, from being told what to wear and when to orgasm, to receiving daily instructions and having to ask permission before doing certain tasks throughout the day. I want a Domme who will invade my life and thoughts and remind me of Her control at random.

See profile for more interests and limits.

My husband is also submissive and may be interested in playing, but his involvement is not required.
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Sub seeking Domme in Scotland
I am looking for a female Domme to serve. Must live in Scotland.

Not a lifestyle or relationship, just a one off experience which if it suits us both could be a regular arrangement. I am eager and willing to serve, good at following orders, keen to learn and follow your lead. I long to worship the body of a mistress and would do everything possible to make you happy. Please get in touch for more info about me if interested...
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MDLG little looking for a mommy
Hi! I’m a little girl looking for a mommy. I’m a poly romantic woman and I would love to meet someone who can handle me. I have ADHD and I’m constantly wired. I’m also in Ohio so EST is preferred. I would like to have a platonic relationship with the person of choice for awhile before starting anything!
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Switch looking for mentor and Domme
I am a switch bi-sexual. I am happily married and want to better please my husband by learning to be a Domme. My preferred position is a submissive and am also looking for a Female Dom to help further train and push me. I have some experience in D/s with male dom but wanting to find a connection with a female Dom. If agreeable it would start as chat and online only, depending on area meet IRL is possible.
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Seeking Seattle area dominant
Are there any intelligent dominant men out there in my area? (Age 25-38) Or someone willing to fly into my area to meet. Not interested in only online sub/dom relationship.
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Seeking a sadistic Mistress
Hi Im Stacy Im seeking a very sadistic Mistress for longterm! I will relocate to anywhere in the continental U.S
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Missouri little wanting a female FWB
Ddlg couple seeking lady friend with benefits
My daddy and I are looking for a woman to become friends with and then if it happens and all are agreeable with it then for me to be able to play with her with daddy watching. He will not touch her...just watch and maybe play with me at the same time! I would rather get to know you before anything though! We could go out as a group and chat and everything...if anyone is interested please add and message me!
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Bi-Curious Submissive
Submissive and Bi-Curious, however, somewhat shy when it comes to women. Some experience with D/s relationship with men now want to explore my bi side more. Online only. Pictures / videos not done until trust is earned.
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Looking for Mistress
Hello. I am looking for a Mistress for myself (or a switch). I am a new sub that would like to have a Mistress control me and teach me. Preferably one that would let my husband watch and possibly join in the fun as well. I am into choking, spanking, edging, bondage, breast and nipple play, public play, use of toys, other kinks that can be discussed upon...limits can also be discussed. Looking for something casual but could also be a regular thing if you are the right person. We are both in our mid 20s would prefer someone reasonably close to same age. Any questions please let me know. If you are in the central Ohio area (or visit often) please control me. Punish me when I'm a naughty girl. Teach me how to better serve my Mistress and my husband.
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Kitten slave needs a Mistress
Has alot of knowledge of BDSM but looking to be trained by a femme mistress. Online first will into do whatever u say. Likes to be a brat and needs spanks and more no limits for except skat and water play. If u talk to me for a while and meet me in person you might get a surprise. I need a strict but loving mistress that can be a mommy from time to time.
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New to this.
Searching for a dominant female who knows what she is doing. I am relatively new to this and would like to be able to talk first and possibly meet if it goes that direction. I tend be attracted to the the more tomboy/butch type or someone who hold themself with dignity. I don't find cocky arragonce attractive. I am not into the idea of being anyones brat or slut.
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It's Not Just About Play or Sexual Frisson For Me, It Shouldn't Be For You Either...
Hi I'm a UK based submissive, looking for a Dom or Domme - it's not about gender, or age (though I do prefer 40s or older), or any other notional BS, it's about connection / trust. I'm in my mid-thirties, and quite overweight at the moment (I'm working on this). I can be needy, and am always available on messenger services etc... I'm very intelligent - I'm not the type to respond to degrading names in a first message here. For 10 years, I belonged to a Master, 24/7 TPE for a significant part of that. That relationship went south, and I married a wonderful vanilla man. He is not into the things I now realise that I need. I want to be discreet, but equally, I struggle to see how I can get away from this yearning. The thing I enjoy most is serving and doing as I'm told: I don't see this as play, it's much deeper than that for me. If it was just sexual stuff / play, I'd be able to live without it. I'm finding I cannot. Other activities that suit me most are humiliation... (tho I'm the kinda woman who is more humiliated by having to say positive things about myself, than by the pig / slut / cumbucket type stuff)... I love being flogged... I'm not hugely fond of orgasming as I find it kinda embarrassing unless I'm on my own haha, so humiliation around that is good - as is orgasm denial. Being 'talked at' is a bit of a kink for me - I'm used to being able to talk / get my own way, so being forced into a submissive position just thro someone's speaking to me is hugely powerful. I'd like to start off chatting online for a while, before sharing a photo - if you're the kind who is desperate for a photo, I'm probably not going to be for you. I believe appearances mean ZERO in BDSM relationship. That's just my opinion. Eventually, I'd like to progress to phone call / video chat. I don't rule out in person, but given my marital circumstances, it's not likely at this stage. Look forward to hearing from you!
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Im ready to submit Mistress
Hi. Im 36 and love being the sexual being that i am.
Im new to this lifestyle and I have not actually chose a role yet but I've been submissive before with boyfriends and so I figure I'd just start with that. I want to explore the world of bdsm and search for what I am. I'd like a Mistress that's gonna be good at training a hard headed sub with a mouth of a sailor because that's what I am. I want to experience it all. Want to eventually have a sub of my own one day so I need a really great mistress. I look forward to get this.
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Looking for a teacher

I go by the name Rose or Rosie in the BDSM world, but you can call me what every you see fit.

I’m in a committed relationship with my master/ fiancé and we both want to explore the BDSM world more.

I am new to the world of Dommes and have never been with another woman before. However! I love the female body and would like to be able to service a domme when she walks into my life.

So I am looking for a teacher, someone who can show me the ropes. ;)
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