Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Women

  North Carolina

Hello - I am looking for a dominant woman with who I can more fully explore my submissive side. I have been holding this piece of me in for too long. I would imagine this could start out online and move IRL if the situation were right.

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  Arkansas

Hi there, I'm looking for a female Dom. I've been in bdsm for 5-6 years now. I am a switch with a heavy lean towards sub. I also do not send pics until I am comfortable with you. Message me with questions or anything you want to!

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  Toronto, Ontario

I am looking to become a live-in submissive. I would love to be trained and moulded to be your perfect sub. I am looking for an LTR based in respect and trust. I am an artist with a knack from service and care. I love to submit for the pleasure of offering myself fully to my Dom. I am a submissive first and kinky second. I I am not sure what else you’d like to know about me here but I am open to anything, ask away.

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  England

looking for dom female to be my guide as this is new start but an intriging start. i am 42 curvy, shy at first in norfolk, uk

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  United States

So I have never been with a woman but I’m very interested in it and into the linker side. I am definitely submissive not dominant

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  Seattle, Washington

I am an older female bi sub but very interested in an online or personal relationship with a very dom female. I am a very experienced sub online. Mostly with malese but have an intense desire to experience being a sub to a female.
I live with my husband who has Alzheimers. I am well educated and a professional artist. I have a great family and lots of friends. No one would suspect I was a slutty whore needing to be degraded and punished. If you are interested please contact me. My goal is to please you by following your directions. I have little experience with a woman but will obey. Open to most eveything.

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  Dublin, County Dublin

Hiiiii I know that it's gonna be hard to find a Mommy Domme...in Ireland of all places? but I'm gonna try and hope that I'll find someone.

I've had some online dynamics...but love to experience it in person with the right Domme?
Some of my kinks that I've explored are edging, denied orgasms, spankings, bodywriting, verbal degradation and more. I would still love to learn more about bdsm and discover new kinks of mine with your help of course?
My limits are feet, scat and piss.
Hope to hear from you soon?

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  Saint Charles, Missouri

I'm pretty new to the bdsm scene, so I'm looking for a Mistress who is willing to teach me how to be a good submissive for her.

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54 y/o      Sallisaw, Oklahoma

im 53 yr old submissive lesbian in search of a female dom with the knowledge and ability to connect in such a dynamic.way that our desires are not only met but hightened to a erotic level never experienced by me a level of desire i long so hard for a level no other has been able to reach i need to be dominated not abused but loved protected and trained...im loyal , willing,wanting,and waiting ,to see if anyone out there is up for the challenge or if im exoecting to much ...

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42 y/o      Gastonia, North Carolina

I am a 42 year old post op transgender woman.
I am new to this lifestyle and I am looking for a mistress that will help me increase my femininity.
She would get to be in charge of all aspects of my life.
I want a LTR.
I don’t have money and I am on the autism spectrum so i it is impossible for me to find a job.
Basically I would be a stepford style house wife.
I need training on cleaning, cooking, and dressing feminine.
I love Disney princess and their dress and would love to dress formally even while doing housework.
I love Victorian styles
I also love 1950’s styles
I do have some self esteem issues. I feel both ugly and worthless so I won’t be surprised if no mistresses respond.
I don’t mind relocating but I have to meet you in my hometown first at a place I feel safe at.
That being said I don’t have money to relocate. I would love to get out of North Carolina and see parts of the world that I have never been too.
My limits are no blood or body fluids or solids, no pain.

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  United States

Seeking strict Dominant
I enjoy the darker side
Of bdsm, forced, cnc, degradation, pain. Rules giving up complete control, not in a rush to relocate so starting online and moving to irl possibly. Message me if you think you are a fit.

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  Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania

I have never had a women dom but i am wanting to try with one.

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40 y/o      Colorado

I’m a sub with brat tendencies (I have a smart mouth and it gets me into trouble), and I have no desire to have that squashed out of me, so if you’re a Dom who likes your submissives sweet and docile, I’m not for you. My enjoyment of pain is a work in progress. I like impact play, bondage, wax play, sensory play and sensory dep. I'm a rope bunny and I do a lot of self tying. Would love to find an experienced rigger. Sapio - smart is sexy.

I'm looking to be outmatched. So. Your move.

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  Santa Barbara, California

I was born intersexed, I'm 5'4 measurements 43 29 43 with C cup. I need a relationship, a strong relationship with a femme dominant female. I'm all girly there's really no male here unless my master chooses me to use this. I do not like men at all unless this is something my master orders. I love to wear the collar she picks out for me that day which determines my sexual Duty for the day. I do not do domestic housework and I'm not looking for somebody to feed my money to looking for a sincere relationship who enjoys this lifestyle. Almost anything my master can think of doing to me is fine with me I am Maybe three or four exceptions.

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  Indiana

Hello, first off is like to say thank you to anyone who is actually reading all of this and taking there time reading this.
But let me get straight into the point I’m looking for a dominant mainly a online relationship 24/7 or whenever your free and here to take care of me. I’m Max I’m 18 and looking for someone between the ranges of 18-40 I’m looking for someone strict yet soft at the same time someone who I can talk to. Someone who likes calling and chatting and would be down for that. I’m 5’1 and slim thick blue eyes and freckles and Canadian but live in America. And I also have discord and Snapchat and kit and google chat and other apps we can talk on once we get to know each other!

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  Virginia

Hello I am a lesbian submissive looking for a domme. Only ever had one domme so I don’t know much or have a lot of experience in the lifestyle. I do know that I am submissive though and more than just sexually submissive. I would love to chat with someone and learn more. I’m very open minded and willing to try anything if I trust you. As far as my kink experience I’ve only ever been spanked and choked so basically still just vanilla. Please feel free to message me if you would like to get to know me more

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22 y/o      United States

My name is Sarah, I am 21 from Pennsylvania. I am currently looking for a Dominant women ages 24-35 to train, use, and encourage me in a dynamic online with hopes of potentially creating a tactile dynamic, too. I have close to 7 years of experience on and offline with multiple Dominants and submissives. I have the eudcation of the Kink lifestyle as well as the physical side too. I would love for you to view my profile and to see if I am someone you could see yourself training. :)

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42 y/o      Sussex, New Jersey

I need a kind and nurturing Domme, someone who can love me and accept me for who I am... the happy, slightly sarcastic (maybe a little bratty), often flirty side and the dark side that wonders if I will ever be good enough, because my whole life people have shown me or told me that I wasn't and never would be. I need someone who will help me face the harder parts of life, because sometimes adulting sucks, and I just want to lay on the couch and watch YouTube videos or kill a bunch of people in a video game. Sometimes I will say stuff that could be seen as hurtful, it is never meant that way, it is just my unfiltered, honest reaction to something that got me emotional or upset. Sometimes, I want cuddles and to be held and told everything will be okay, sometimes I want to be left alone completely, and sometimes, I want someone to help me flirt with that fine line between pleasure and pain that makes me feel good and lets me float away.

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  United States

I am a happily married woman. My husband is also my Dom. I am a submissive/slave who really wants/needs/desires a female to dominate me. I will state that I have never had sex with a woman before. Long before I met my husband there was a woman I chatted with who would tell me to wear certain things and do certain things and it was a huge turn on for me. My favorite porn is female domination. At this time in my life, I would like to just chat online, but somewhere down the road perhaps we can meet IRL. Any interests, please feel free to send me a message.

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23 y/o      France

I'm new to be a sub and I'm looking for a dominant women. Only online first and maybe later irl but that's not a promise.

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  Texas

Hi, I am a submissive woman age 34, seeking my domme. I live in Texas, and am looking for someone that is in my state and able to travel to me.

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58 y/o      Ohio

Only seeking women with a dominant side. Looking for taboo only. You define taboo and i will address it with you. Men may talk if you have a female involved.

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33 y/o      North Carolina

I am looking for a Dominant Female for a submissive. I would like to find someone who will train me and also would be okay with starting out online. I am new to serving someone but an ready and willing to learn.

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  New Jersey

Looking for a sexy woman to dominate me

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  Indiana

Im looking for a domme in indiana

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  Chicago, Illinois

Now, that my days have settled into a moderate degree of normalcy, my thoughts have inexorably drifted to the indelible memories of falling blissfully into the inexhaustible adventure that is discovery; of pain, of pleasure of who you are and who I am today. Truth be told. I would much rather let fate dictate its course through a momentary shared glance across the table at a munch or among the audience of a scene played out at a club, but I am on temporary assignment in a less than broad-minded area of the world and so my search for Her begins online out of necessity rather than choice. Everything of which you perhaps dream now, Maitresse is shared by me. My dream is of you and that. across the miles of cynicism that is a self-contained microcosm of fictional humanity, maybe we can find each other. This can be irl or online but if it's the latter we must talk by phone or webcam. I'm not interested in a type/text only format since I've been burned that way by guys pretending on Fet.

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22 y/o      United States

I am looking for a dominant woman to help me stay on track with my daily needs

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20 y/o      Nebraska

Hello there!! I'm looking for a mentor/trainer(as the title suggests lol) that has experience as a Domme and can be gentle, guiding, but also in charge when I need to be taught something, wink wink. Hmm... oh! I am looking for someone in their 20s to 30s, a Domme who isn't looking for a relationship past student/teacher. I don't want a romantic relationship, just something purely professional to help me learn how to be the best submissive I can be. Thank you for reading!! ❤

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  Auckland, Auckland

I'm seeking female Dom, sadist, machosist etc as had plenty of male Dom's but most haven't been able to get me where I crave to be.... And that's a worthless degraded mentally verbally abused sub slave
Open minded
Love limits being pushed to extreme

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  England

I am a submissive girl next-door, asexual, healthy, down to earth, with a heartfelt desire to connect with a classy, educated young Lady. I would love to put my deferential feelings at her service and cook for her anything she wants, clean, wash and take care of all the practicalities while Miss pursues her interests and her own personal goals.
Ideally the position will not involve sexual services, while I am open to some non-sexual play if desired. What matters to me is the personal connection.
This is not a fantasy to me, rather a deep-rooted inclination which I am unable to fulfill through conventional jobs.
For more details, please refer to my profile. Thank you.

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61 y/o      Phoenix, Arizona

Seeking a Domme that appreciates having a women to cater to their needs. Have experience and training and need a place to express it for your benefit.
i am in Phoenix, AZ at the moment, but have a summer home in Canton, OH.
Please give me a try.

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  Gilbert, Arizona

Hello, we can call me Velma for now. I am a 21 year old woman. I’ve always identified as pansexual but in the past two years I’ve realized the most accurate label is most likely lesbian . I am new to the bdsm community but would love to learn more to further understand myself. I am not looking for a relationship but more of a mentor ship or at least experience. I am a natural switch. Any other kinks we can definitely talk about . Teach me what it would mean to be your sub ?

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  United States

Hi, I am turning 20 soon and work in retail. I am cute and smart and a submissive masochist. I am seeking to be trained and owned. My limits are nothing illegal and no breeding.

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  Antarctica

I’m new to the site and I’m looking for new playmates. I’m not sure I wanna jump right into a Master, I’ve been going back to back with those and I’m taking a breather haha but I’m the mean time I’m still lonely and needy. Let’s be friends and maybe we can play

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  Bengaluru, Karnataka

I’m a submissive women at heart but I want to change that and become dominant. I want to learn how to effectively train my slave to suit my needs and pleasure. Im looking for an experienced mistress who can guide me as well as help me train my slave.

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19 y/o      United Kingdom

Hi, I'm Mia, 18. From the UK.

I'm looking for a NON-SEXUAL disciplinarian to have a relationship (? idk what you call it) with. Looking for someone who will set rules, chores, and tasks and enforce these. I need someone to help give direction to my life basically and help me stop my bad habits and give me structure. This is IRL btw. I kinda want someone strict and (again) not looking for sex and stuff. Can be a man or a woman.

Punishment-wise, I think scoldings are super important as well as things like Spanking, time out, lines, or any other punishments you think of. I am not overly experienced in this so will need a lot of guidance.

Please message me if you are interested. Thanks :)

If I find someone I will take this down or something. Also if anyone has a better place to post this tell me thanks.

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  Amsterdam, North Holland

Based in the Netherlands.
I'm looking for a domme to play and be played with.

- not a slave, not looking for a master, no couples unless genderqueer.
- adult play with genuine respect for a great domme-space and healthy rules and boundaries
- not 24/7, I am mine, only yours in the times we set
- I can go from 1 to 100 in a jiffy, you need to have great control of your dommespace to have a lively dynamic between the two of us.
- must: humor

DM me.

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22 y/o      Indianapolis, Indiana

I’m very new to BDSM. I would love to chat and perhaps find a dom lady that would train me.

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  New York, New York

Lesbian Sub who’s looking for a serious relationship with a lesbian dom with d/s roles who’s willing to be worth investing my time to and someone who also can be quite patient with me.

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19 y/o      Sacramento, California

Hi I would like something that could eventually be long term I will try my best to complete any tasks given to me but sometimes my mental health may get in the way but I can and will be loyal and obedient I enjoy pain and bondage Ot be nice if you like shibari I enjoy being teased and treated as a pet online at first but I would like to build up to in person I’m willing to relocate with help of course my ideal life would be a 24/7 power exchange where I am in constant service to a dominant (I am a switch I prefer to be submissive but it be awesome if there was a person we both dominated but it’s not necessary) I looked for word to discussions wit you

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21 y/o      Winter Park, Florida

New to the comunity, but looking for a domme. I'm down for pretty much anything, and loved to be tied up and humilated. Can't be a 24/7 slave since I am in college, but I am able to visit during any free days and during my breaks.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Rope bunny
98% Degradee
94% Submissive
93% Slave
81% Experimentalist
79% Brat
74% Voyeur
65% Exhibitionist
65% Pet
65% Non-monogamist
53% Masochist
40% Vanilla
27% Switch
23% Primal (Prey)
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl

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61 y/o      Phoenix, Arizona

Just love the role-play between two women. i could ask for a hundred things, but it comes down to what you want. i am a quick study so looking for someone to actually meet up with and enjoy are mutual pleasures/kinks/fetishes.

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  Indiana

Hello , I’m Sunshine if you have any questions please dm me thank you !

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23 y/o      Warsaw, Indiana

Hi! I’m bbb and I’m looking for a mommy domme to learn more about my little side. I do have a daddy dom who wants a closed triad with a mommy too. I am strictly demisexual most of the time and I am a little that tends to drift more towards 1-8 depending on the day and how comfortable I am with that person I’m with and when I am in my younger space, I am more into abdl as well since I don’t exactly notice what my body tells me.
I love reading, writing, watching tv, cuddles, and being little. I am definitely a more sensitive person since loud noises and more aggressive people freak me out... aaannyway. I’m not quite sure what to say about myself...
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Ageplayer
100% Boy/Girl
97% Brat
91% Submissive
75% Pet
71% Primal (Prey)
70% Experimentalist
60% Voyeur
52% Exhibitionist
42% Vanilla
41% Rope bunny
40% Slave
28% Masochist
21% Non-monogamist
2% Degradee
1% Switch

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31 y/o      United States

30, USA
she/they | bi/pan

My name is Sam and I'm looking for a purely online relationship with a domme. I've never been in a relationship, much less one in the lifestyle but I'm eager to learn. My shyness might be a bit of a hurdle at first so I ask for someone who's patient and willing to teach me. This relationship will be purely online and done through chat. I'm a writer at heart so it's easier for me to speak through writing than it is with my voice or on camera. Though the option for that is open depending on how close we get. I'm a loyal person, soft-spoken and gentle. I'll be a good listener and an obedient sub.

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20 y/o      Germany

I'm 18 y/o and I'm looking for a Dom (obviously)
I don't mind it being online or irl, depending on where you live.
I'd say things about me now, but just view my profile and message me to learn more.

I don't wanna be a 24/7 sub so I'd like us to be friends - maybe more- besides that.

Hope I'll hear from you!

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58 y/o      Ohio

Looking for Doms, Domme couples or single, married and looking to be used for your joys and pleasures. Must involve my war torn husband as I am trained and used.

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35 y/o      London, England

I am a submissive sane educated female who would like to meet a sane educated dominant female. We can meet for a chat and see where we go from there. I'm not amazingly interested in "playing", I'm more interested in a normal monogamous relationship but.... why not just chat and see if we click and where it goes. I'm not really into 24/7, I have a proper normal job and I am responsible for myself. I'm a gay female so please.... no couples who want a third female. I like to think I'm not up myself and I can be obedient and pleasing. I'm not a taker or someone who leans on someone else. I hope I can make you smile and laugh. Ask me if you'd like to know more

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  Jerusalem, Jerusalem District

I am attempting to figure out if I am full bisexual or just bicurious. I am a virgin and was raised pretty religious. I’ve read a lot about bdsm but I’m tired of being on the outside looking in. I would ideally like someone to guide me, train me, tell me what to do. Anything that’s not a hard no, I’d like to be coaxed/seduced into and then praised. There are many things I like in theory but don’t know if I’d like in person - we can explore together. Am I your sub?

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30 y/o      Tennessee

Hi, my name is Morgan. I’m looking for a woman to put me in my place and keep me there. Preferably in person, but if willing to relocate it could work as well.
I’m 28, and I live in Tennessee.

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  Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm a transwoman pre-op looking for a dominant or switch to call my own.

We can keep it casual or take it further if it works out.

I'm looking to be punished and to please.

I want to have a good owner and I want to be a good girl, and taught how to be one when I'm not.

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  United States

I’m not very experienced so I would like someone who can be patient and wouldn’t mind teaching me along the way.

I’m a sub who can be bratty but it depends on the dom I have or my mood. I like to try new things so I don’t have many hard limits expect for scat, urine, and needless. I have many kinks and fantasies I especially love roleplay, bondage, and degrading.

I tend to be very submissive and obedient to the point I have a hard time saying no. I will only address you as you wish out of respect. I’m currently looking for an online dom and I’m also interested in something 24/7.

Feel free to check out my profile. I don’t say anything in particular about me as a person but will tell you if you ask, I’m a very open person. I also took a bdsm test so I have my results on my profile as well. Look forward to hearing from you if you are interested!

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  Boston, Massachusetts

I’m lesbian submissive slave. Looking for a LTR with a very dominant and strict women. I’m looking to be full time slave 24/7 relationship not just in bed i want to be fully controlled and fully dominant for the rest of my life.

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25 y/o      Hackensack, New Jersey

I'm a 23 yr old lesbian. Look at my profile to see if my interests match yours. I've never had a domme before but am very willing and ready to be trained if that's what you desire.

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34 y/o      Berlin, Berlin

Hi
I'm having a huge fantasy of being someone's baby girl, being treated like a princess.
I would love you to pick my outfits and have you dress me however you like. Sexy lingerie, heels, cute pajamas, make up, nail polish.
I miss having someone to look pretty for and I'm looking for someone that would enjoy using my tiny little body as their canvas : )

This would be online only and as I work from home we can go really crazy there, from the tiniest lingerie to anything you would want to dress me in.

: )

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  New Jersey

New to the bdsm scene, but I've been experimenting with self bondage for years. It's been generally unsatisfactory without a woman to actually control me and tug on my leash.
Open to an online relationship, and in person (New Jersey only for in person)
I'm more than open to a polyamorous relationship and open to basically anything except piss, scat, and age play.

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  South Africa

Transgender women still pre op sadly desperately needs a Mistress. No owner no direction.

I'll be yours.

Little slave needs home

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25 y/o      Glendale, Arizona

I'm biologically female but Im more nonbinary. I'm looking for dom. I love pet play and I am a kitten. I'm from arizona. I haven't gotten to do much kinky stuff but I totally want to.

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  France

Hello, I look out for a female authority figure in my life. Most people would describe me as cute and intelligent and I would love to find sme. who is smarter than I am and enjoys taking the lead. The relationship shouldn´t be as much about sex as about mental and emotional stimulation and perhaps more of a mentor-mentee dynamic. But as I don´t know where to else ask for dominance in my life, I thought that setting an ad her might help :) Love to hear from you

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20 y/o      Salt Lake City, Utah

Sex isn't a necessary part of satisfying power exchanges between a Dom and a sub. I'm looking for a confident, respectful Dom who doesn't need sex to be a part of our relationship.

I am a strong person and I believe my submission only makes me stronger. Any Dom in my life must respect that my submission is a choice and that it doesn't make me any less powerful. I take pride in my submission and I would like to find a Dom who can share that pride with me.

I enjoy soft 24/7 play (for example, my Dom setting some rules that I must follow every day), with more intense scenes that we plan out before they take place.

I strongly believe that communication is the core of a successful D/s relationship, so I will always be honest with you and I will expect you to do the same with me. I will only feel comfortable submitting for a Dom who can successfully communicate her emotions and opinions to me.

If you feel like we would be a good match please message me! Tell me about what you would want from me as your sub, and what you could give to me as my Dom.

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