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Balance

For me, there would have to be some balance between work, hobbies, social life, and worshipping my dominant (in ways both kinky and non.)

There would have to be boundaries set, communication in pla ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 7:10 am • 5 Replies • 1813 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Balance

232

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

Online feels too impersonal to me. I would have a hard time connecting with someone without face to face interaction, especially if that person were to order me into a "Compromised position" so to sp ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 6:29 am • 13 Replies • 4365 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

233

"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

Speaking partly from experience here: A lot of new submissives, particularly men, may suddenly be overcome with newly-discovered thrills of submitting, or wanting to submit. But they know nothing ab ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 3:06 am • 22 Replies • 5012 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

234

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

^The thing is, there have been a TON of women in the work place over the years, who I wanted to approach on a "more than superficial," level but was afraid to- for the exact reasons you describe above ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 7:11 am • 60 Replies • 12454 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

235

Being sexually open

Eh....BDSM is kinda like electrical engineering. You can't run home and tell your relatives that you just ran 1200 amps from a major substation to a new offsite switchgear. You know they aint gonna un ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 4:08 am • 20 Replies • 4622 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Being sexually open

236

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Ah, icks. I don't know how I feel about the term ick, but I have a few. Disrespect is a big one for me. I get very turned off by impatience and over eagerness. Honestly, bad spelling and grammar as we ...

Sat Oct 28, 2023 11:05 pm • 60 Replies • 12454 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

237

Do Dom/mes Settle?

I agree with the above two posts and while I have standards, there are some things I am willing to compromise on, and others are deal breakers for me.
I've stated before that I'm willing to settle fo ...

Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:34 am • 13 Replies • 3373 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Do Dom/mes Settle?

238

What Really Turns You On

Knee high leather boots. Plus, physical strength.

Fri Oct 27, 2023 6:21 am • 94 Replies • 21821 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What Really Turns You On

239

What really pisses you off?

I could write pages but I'll go with the top ones that come to mind.
Going down the highway on my way to work, cop has some dude pulled over and is at the window jawing at the speeder.. and all the r ...

Fri Oct 27, 2023 2:58 am • 66 Replies • 14828 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What really pisses you off?

240

First Snowfall

Bogus Basin has Snow! Our local ski area, in the mountains right above town, just got it's first recorded snowfall of the season. Snowboarding is still a long way off, at least a month, but it has ...

Thu Oct 26, 2023 3:13 am • 24 Replies • 3546 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

First Snowfall