Im confused about the Bond to your Other

Slapping hard and fast rules to a relationship will tend to make it an institution.

The same goes, IMHO, for strict definitions of who is "real in The Life" as opposed to others who are more cas ...

Sat Jul 14, 2018 1:51 am • 10 Replies • 6754 Views

Questions about what to expect?

Another thing to remember. If you're new to this, it may take time to figure out if it is what you really want.

I had thought I was a sub at one time, but after coming in here and reading that whi ...

Tue Jul 10, 2018 11:21 am • 3 Replies • 3678 Views

A red flag or not?

I'm probably not the ideal woman to answer this as I'm a masochist and I don't do long term relationships, but I've been around a lot, been with a lot of people and I've seen some basic patterns. Fir ...

Fri Jul 06, 2018 12:35 am • 11 Replies • 7182 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hi. I'm Miki. I have been around this site since the initial push for 1000 members but I don't recall posting to an "Introduce
Yourself" thread.

At any rate, In the interests of brevity, my p ...

Tue Jun 12, 2018 9:03 am • 3121 Replies • 957452 Views

Why?

They probably can't make up their minds whether to get into it for keeps. A lot like many Subs. I am interested in being a full-on House Sub but not at this moment, so I post to that effect on my pr ...

Fri Jan 19, 2018 3:38 am • 6 Replies • 8188 Views

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The Dominant

Unfortunately and probably not worth much but "Break-ups are never easy, nor is there any appreciable difference between 'our' break ups and those affecting 'vanilla' relationships."

Easier wri ...

Fri Jan 19, 2018 3:30 am • 19 Replies • 28058 Views

Cuckold and forced bi

I know this thread is more for dudes than not, but 2 cents for ya. And I'm not a gal to mince words so read with caution.

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One thing women and men have in common is 'the back door" a ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 6:56 am • 44 Replies • 27543 Views

Question...

I consider it along the same lines as (what used to be called) "swingers"... and personally, though I am currently idle, if/when I get into a "full time house sub" role, I would be open to my master ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 5:39 am • 26 Replies • 22243 Views

Profile visible to members only?

Hey Lexie..it is something we are working on and we should have up for you this month, hopefully more towards the beginning than the end. We appreciate privacy is a big issue for many of our users. I ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 5:29 am • 20 Replies • 14259 Views

Contact with the dom

Cmon people its all just imaginary and not real ...you have no clue to what the other person is. Its just play. never take online interactions seriously and dont get hurt.

I was about to say the ...

Fri Jan 05, 2018 5:17 am • 19 Replies • 16611 Views