Part time D/s questions

Master Bear is spot on --
YOU are the Dominant , and you are being too selfish if you use all your precious time in a scene without leaving time for good after-care.
It is up to you never to use ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 10:04 pm • 28 Replies • 13258 Views

A soft release

Intriguing topic, Bunnie ---

I'm no better at break-ups than anyone else, and there may not even be a right way... and yes, from one experience, I know how wounding it can be suddenly to be the ho ...

Sun Feb 03, 2019 1:30 am • 20 Replies • 10892 Views

Q(?) for the Doms/Masters/Daddys

I'll veer this a bit --faces are individual, as are minds. The sparks are there fairly soon or they are not--totally individual reactions and attractions.
What I'd like to offer is about bodies an ...

Sat Feb 02, 2019 11:37 pm • 5 Replies • 5324 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

TKS for the thumbs up, Bunnie--I'd like to compliment you on your newish profile picture--no wonder you can't accept new messages!

Tue Jan 01, 2019 5:49 pm • 25 Replies • 15586 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

Interesting posts here, and a kudos to Bunny for posing an intriguing question.

I'd like to buck the trend a bit, and offer this perspective... As a Dom I desire a sub's freely offered submissi ...

Tue Jan 01, 2019 3:27 pm • 25 Replies • 15586 Views

Breast & Pussy Bondage

Great thread...!

Being a more gentle Dom, I might add a couple of less extreme but really effective pussy sensations/punishments or whatever......

"Tiger Balm" is an ointment or lotion sold ...

Wed Dec 12, 2018 9:52 pm • 14 Replies • 6764 Views

"collared" status

I agree with TallOne's essential reminders, whatever the quibbles with particulars might be.

I'd suggest some of these definitions somehow get included in the welcoming notes the staff creates. W ...

Fri Nov 30, 2018 5:40 am • 55 Replies • 16580 Views

BDSM: Best Advice You've Received?

Almost too basic to be needed--- but it can be a trap anyway---

DO NOT 'scene' when tipsy/drunk, and certainly don't scene with a drunk/tipsy Dom or Domme.

Same goes for an angry partner. I ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 11:36 pm • 34 Replies • 17982 Views

Difficulty with kneeling

Haven't seen this mentioned yet, but a good bit of kneeling by a sub is frequently associated with oral service. To get yourself at the same relative height, AND not need to kneel at all, consider ...

Tue Nov 13, 2018 3:22 pm • 19 Replies • 11363 Views

Long Distance Ideas

If I read you right, you want "fun" punishments (an oxymoron, but hey..) he can use on you when your are bratty.

Maybe some simple things might work for him, on you...How about he makes you strip, ...

Fri Nov 02, 2018 10:52 pm • 4 Replies • 4544 Views