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Making the first move

I guess, to me, it all depends on what one calls "The first move".

If you talking about simply making contact, then I do not care what way it goes. Emails, coming to to either one at a meet or w ...

Mon May 29, 2023 4:02 pm • 26 Replies • 9749 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Making the first move

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LIMITS as stated in your profile

Because people are dicks.

Someone slides into a PM and starts talking about shit you don't want to hear about. Posting limits should keep things on an even flow.

That is, if they actually r ...

Sun May 07, 2023 3:40 pm • 39 Replies • 11531 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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LIMITS as stated in your profile

603

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

Doms are not the only ones who abuse the trust. I know from personal experience there are those inside the collar who take advantage of a given relationship. Doms place their honor and strength on ...

Sun Apr 23, 2023 11:17 pm • 7 Replies • 3689 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

604

BDSM

I am not sure it is something that can be taught.

I have about 30 years in all this and I still find new faucets to the jewel of BDSM. But I will tell you what my viewpoint is:

It has nothi ...

Fri Apr 21, 2023 2:11 am • 8 Replies • 4129 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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BDSM

605

Gay for a man to love being pegged?

Anal penetration has nothing to do about being gay. Why do you associate it with such? That is one of the things we, as a society have to unlearn.

You like being pegged? Great, but why ...

Sun Apr 16, 2023 7:51 pm • 15 Replies • 6623 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Gay for a man to love being pegged?

606

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

I would love to see the coding to ban something like this.

But let's face a fact or two. If one says stupid things in a public forum and other see it, they are going to block you as they fi ...

Mon Apr 03, 2023 12:05 am • 34 Replies • 12742 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

607

Bondage

No slip knots.

Sat Mar 11, 2023 6:57 pm • 8 Replies • 3665 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Bondage

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

Never done a closet, due to concerns of air supply. But have done it with a cage. However, I would suggest properly placed cuffs and straps to rope bondage. A great deal less of issues with circ ...

Mon Mar 06, 2023 5:59 pm • 34 Replies • 13098 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Locked in Closet to Sleep

609

Live-In Slaves

Kept in a cage, naked all the time. I feed her when I feel like it and let her out now and then to fuck and go to the bathroom now and then.

Oh, I'm sorry. That was my 90s internet alarm going ...

Wed Mar 01, 2023 9:32 pm • 32 Replies • 18662 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Live-In Slaves

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In His honor

Do you have access to his jewelry? Something he is not currently wearing? If so, pick something and wear it. If he gets better, take the punishment he gives out (if any). If things don't get be ...

Mon Feb 27, 2023 1:36 pm • 14 Replies • 6398 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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In His honor