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Posts by TopekaDom(dom male){Chaos }

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Potential site improvements?

A self destruct button. Every good lair has a self destruct button. We don't actually have to wire it to anything, but it should have like a clear lid we flip up and a key to turn before we push ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:44 am • 29 Replies • 7688 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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Potential site improvements?

602

Crossing a line?

Being accused of satanism is a big pile of crap. christian nationalist label anything they don't like as "satainist". Its a simple control issue. I have been putting up with it for decades now. ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:38 am • 9 Replies • 3123 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Crossing a line?

603

CNC fun ~

Well back in the 2000s, I used to be part of real time group that grew out of am Alt.com chat room. We used to meet once a year in St. Louis. About 200 people or so.

Anyway, I took this piece ...

Thu Feb 16, 2023 3:15 pm • 9 Replies • 4497 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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CNC fun ~

604

What do you enjoy more?

It is the absolute level of trust that the s type gives to me when I want to do some outrageous things to them.

Well that and tears.

Tears give me a massive hard on.

Wed Feb 15, 2023 7:33 pm • 22 Replies • 7094 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What do you enjoy more?

605

Screenshots publishing

The problem is people will write shit to someone because they know they can get away with it and the worst thing will happen is a wrist slap.

I never got this idea that once you hit send, that mess ...

Tue Feb 14, 2023 10:11 pm • 37 Replies • 7857 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Screenshots publishing

606

being rude

Heh.

While I have not read the rest of the replies (is that rude of me?), I thought I would drop my 2 cents of opinion:

More often than not, in an online D/s setting, you will hear (or see as t ...

Mon Feb 13, 2023 10:20 pm • 35 Replies • 12042 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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being rude

607

Foot fetish

The funniest part I find with a Dom with a foot fetish is how widely accepted it is today than it was when I started in the lifestyle. Back then, I was repeatedly told I could not be a Dom if I love ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 5:14 pm • 57 Replies • 21802 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Foot fetish

608

first time

Are bdsm dynamics not normal?

Please elaborate for us who aren't the brightest bulb in the tanning bed.

The thing is, much like a vanilla relationship, each BDSM relationship is different from e ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 5:10 pm • 8 Replies • 2117 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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first time

609

Turn offs in new conversations

I am frequently disappointed with men (Doms) on several sites.
I don’t like to be called “cum slut, etc in a first brief encounter.
I don’t identify with addressing one as Master during first messa ...

Tue Feb 07, 2023 3:56 pm • 113 Replies • 29930 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Turn offs in new conversations

610

Water sports yes or no?

As with any given activity within the lifestyle, Watersports and how it is done/received is dependent on the s type. With those I have worked with, some loved it for the "gift" I gave them. Others ...

Tue Feb 07, 2023 2:38 pm • 55 Replies • 18772 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Water sports yes or no?