My 1st sub

Something I always do early on, which might make a really great first thing, is require a Daily Affirmation. An Affirmation is a short pledge acknowledging her submission and my dominance, and I requi ...

Sat Jul 27, 2024 4:52 am • 7 Replies • 586 Views

When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

When you're new or unsure of the right reactions to make. Good to have an experienced mind working in your favor even if not as your partner

A combination of safety chaperone and technical advisor. ...

Fri Jul 26, 2024 7:45 am • 16 Replies • 1007 Views

When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

You so eloquently summed up everything my group is. Thank you for someone finally understanding:)

My slave was a moderator on a group like that at the now defunct site TheSafewordsClub. I've seen f ...

Fri Jul 26, 2024 7:44 am • 16 Replies • 1007 Views

Re: Proof?!

I've had a few doms (lower case is intentional).
And appropriate...
Maybe doms should prove their dominance.
Those people have already proven they don't know anything about D/s. True submission, no ...

Fri Jul 26, 2024 7:35 am • 56 Replies • 3307 Views

When Is It A Good Idea To Be Under Protection

OK ok ok ok....
subbies can be protectors (mentors) of other subbies as well and Domly Dom/mes.


I have always encouraged subs - mine and others - to form relationships with other subs. I've ev ...

Fri Jul 26, 2024 7:11 am • 16 Replies • 1007 Views

Solo Pain Experiment?

Lots of excellent suggestions here. Here's a quick and simple one:

Take a rubber band and tie a knot in the middle so it has two loops. Put the thumb and first finger of one hand through the loops ...

Sat Jul 20, 2024 8:43 am • 9 Replies • 692 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello.

I'm a 60+ straight male dom who's been playing these games for over 40 years. The meaning of the first part of CruelPuppetMaster is obvious, and the PuppetMaster part refers to my very wonde ...

Thu Jul 18, 2024 8:26 am • 3116 Replies • 952283 Views

Masters/Owners

Hello. Well, you raise several interesting points.

"Doms who like to degrade and humiliate their submissives. "
Only people can be degraded, not objects. You may be treating them like an object in ...

Thu Jul 18, 2024 8:06 am • 4 Replies • 365 Views