Humiliation kink

I would agree that it’s cathartic, for both. It’s not just a release of suppressed/repressed emotions, or pressure, it’s also providing a safe place where the parties can share and explore the deeper ...

Sat Nov 08, 2025 1:55 am • 18 Replies • 3004 Views

Breakup Rules?

Any advice I would give for a break up is to have the conversation, amicably if possible, and then spend time with a “no-contact” with that person until you both have had a chance to reflect on what h ...

Sun Oct 05, 2025 10:59 pm • 12 Replies • 4007 Views

Slavery in bdsm

I mean no disrespect, but you sound arrogant. Your entire post comes off as only you know “the one twue way” to have a slave. There are many definitions of what a “slave” entails, and how a submissive ...

Mon Sep 01, 2025 4:29 pm • 4 Replies • 5064 Views

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

This is ridiculous.

I like Topeka. But this is stupid. The ladies are not victims. They made a choice. They're adults. We blame men when they think with their private buts but not women? Get a grip ...

Sun Aug 24, 2025 6:38 pm • 41 Replies • 13280 Views

Cloaking vs Deception

I’ve thought long about your question and feel as though I read it for the first time. Lol
While I am very open about myself, there are a lot of things I keep in my boxes and don’t share outright. It ...

Sat Aug 23, 2025 5:00 pm • 3 Replies • 3535 Views

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

It is utterly hilarious the amount of Doms replying on this thread!

Well, the OP didn’t ask for replies from submissives only, and asked for advice in general…besides, if you were really concerned, ...

Thu Aug 21, 2025 4:15 am • 41 Replies • 13280 Views

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

Be very descriptive of what you want in a partner.
For the extreme fact that these ppl accomodate 98% communitynprofiles ive always told ppl to specify themselves to be owned even if they're not so ...

Tue Aug 19, 2025 5:13 pm • 41 Replies • 13280 Views

How do you deal with fake/insta doms?

I have not had any experiences with instadoms trying to seduce me, but I can tell you one thing…they don’t see you as a real person. They are attention whores trying to use others for their own valida ...

Tue Aug 19, 2025 2:56 pm • 41 Replies • 13280 Views

Dom how would your sub's life change after submitting to you?

In my opinion, if someone asked me how their life would change if they became my submissive, I’d respond with, “How would you want your life to change, or would you?”
Obviously, things change w ...

Tue Aug 12, 2025 1:39 am • 28 Replies • 10723 Views

The narcissist

I know that what I’m going to say is probably going to piss people off and cause a lot of good people to doubt me and distrust everything I say from here on out, but the truth is the truth…I know a lo ...

Sat Aug 09, 2025 4:36 am • 14 Replies • 6084 Views