Looks

I think that a lot of it has to do with if there is sex and romance involved. Personally I haven’t been rejected properly in years due to looks. I believe that has to do with my I don’t seek rule. I j ...

Mon Apr 08, 2019 5:05 pm • 49 Replies • 27835 Views

A curious question for the Dominants...

Depends on the dynamic - personally if the dynamic extends past playtime I would expect both the lack of either would be a red flag and I would step away quickly. Life is too short for getting only pa ...

Tue Jan 01, 2019 1:34 pm • 25 Replies • 12769 Views

What brought you here?

Great stuff @Master James - pride is what dictates our drive to be in the right. I really enjoy hearing from other Master’s - I feel like lessons are best learned from experience and the experiences o ...

Mon Sep 10, 2018 10:14 pm • 7 Replies • 3768 Views

What brought you here?

This is my 25th year anniversary living my life dedicated to the principles of BDSM - I found this lifestyle early in life a little man of the rope young age of 18. I can not speak enough of the rewar ...

Mon Sep 10, 2018 7:36 pm • 7 Replies • 3768 Views

Kinky Alphabet.

F - Flogging

Wed Aug 15, 2018 1:52 am • 129 Replies • 54801 Views

How do I find a Dom?

Just like anything else you have to go in with your eyes open. I would suggest looking at core values and use those as your blueprint. Odds are you will not find the “perfect” Dom due to none of us ar ...

Tue Aug 14, 2018 7:00 pm • 17 Replies • 13153 Views

Just be who you are

There is nothing more gratifying than falling asleep with a smile on your face.

I didn’t learn how to genuinely be happy with life till I was in my mid thirties, prior my time was spent just like ...

Sat Aug 11, 2018 9:53 pm • 0 Replies • 2275 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello all
43 Male - Master - Houston Texas
I am a bit of a traditionalist
Open to adding a long term slave
Will not hit on you (I believe the submissive chooses their dominant)
Honest to a fau ...

Sat Aug 11, 2018 6:03 pm • 3188 Replies • 1024798 Views

Re: Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

I dont know if Dominant men have the same difficulty finding submissives but its very hard to find them.

There are a lot of reasons : the instant gratification factor, people looking for what they ...

Sat Aug 11, 2018 5:49 pm • 149 Replies • 91097 Views

Should be a class for new Doms.

I don’t know if there should be a class - one can not ultimately learn responsibility and ethics from a class. I feel like we as a community do not police ourselves as well as we use to. I can remembe ...

Sat Aug 11, 2018 5:45 pm • 10 Replies • 8099 Views