Familiar faces

I'd mention it, yeah. Kink isn't an excuse to cheat. Worst case scenario the other half says "oh, right, we're experimenting with some stuff, but thanks for the concern!". I'd probably make sure to sh ...

Mon Feb 07, 2022 7:08 am • 11 Replies • 2444 Views

How Do I introduce my vanilla guy to bdsm ?

I'd probably either wait until you're past the "talking to" stage of knowing him before trying to ramp things up, or if bdsm is very important to you, only date people who are interested in it from th ...

Tue Jan 11, 2022 9:54 am • 13 Replies • 3776 Views

Gender identity ideology

Assuming progression continues as it does, which is that Western society becomes more progressive towards gender identity, and then presumably the rest of the world follows and we reach an end-state, ...

Sun Jan 09, 2022 8:29 am • 113 Replies • 18810 Views

Where is good erotica?

I got into BDSM thanks to utopiastories.com, lol.

Sun Jan 02, 2022 2:18 am • 22 Replies • 6269 Views

Collars

Knightsundere

Ah from the mouth of babes, comes ca-ca..........No one in this lifestyle since its very beginning, has EVER , "forced people to sacrifice things they may not want to/being forced t ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 2:01 am • 72 Replies • 14996 Views

Incorporating sexuality into everyday living

I think you're over-reading "it's not all about sex" ahah, posting on a BDSM website is arguably an admittance that you are, on some level, here for/about sex/regard sex highly in your relationship. A ...

Tue Dec 14, 2021 12:02 am • 18 Replies • 3767 Views

Collars

Frankly the morphing of a lifestyle remains the purview of the participants. The collar should be a big deal as it is provided with real meaning for most of us. Thankfully I will continue to believe i ...

Mon Dec 13, 2021 11:51 pm • 72 Replies • 14996 Views

Female Dominant's...Where are You?

Sorry, didn't mean it as a direct response to you Kuro. This exact thread pops up at least once or twice a month x_x

Mon Nov 08, 2021 2:24 am • 25 Replies • 8544 Views

Female Dominant's...Where are You?

Hi, four year veteran of trying to find dommes online (I'm switching to irl only once I move and settle down in a month).

There are plenty of dommes. Just way too many horny men, and as it turns o ...

Mon Nov 08, 2021 1:58 am • 25 Replies • 8544 Views

Where is good erotica?

utopiastories is where I got into this stuff. Still check it for the classics c:

Mon Oct 18, 2021 8:52 am • 22 Replies • 6269 Views