What it's like for Dommes

Every man should be forced to set up a Grindr account with fake pics at some point in their lives. I'd never ever thought to send a dick pic before I made an account myself but it absolutely reinforce ...

Mon Mar 21, 2022 4:00 pm • 54 Replies • 12508 Views

Submissive male

There's a lack of service-oriented submissives because it requires a mindset that appreciates a non-tangible reward. I'd go so far as to say you can't train a mindset like that. You can reinforce it v ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 7:13 pm • 34 Replies • 11397 Views

Submissive male

I don't know how much more submissive you can get than being a sex slave. Do you mean they should be submissive outside of the bedroom/in normal life? Not suggesting that's unusual, just not sure.

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:22 pm • 34 Replies • 11397 Views

Finding a mate

I hope I read this post correctly, in that you're wondering why marriages and "sex as taboo" are still the foundations of relationships even though they don't function well per your research/thoughts. ...

Sun Feb 13, 2022 9:28 pm • 4 Replies • 2009 Views

Finding a mate

I hope I read this post correctly, in that you're wondering why marriages and "sex as taboo" are still the foundations of relationships even though they don't function well per your research/thoughts. ...

Sun Feb 13, 2022 5:31 am • 4 Replies • 2009 Views

Personal ads in the wild

I blatantly put it out there, mostly because I consider it a large part of my personality to be interested in sex as a freetime activity moreso than a romantic special occasion. I have to imagine it's ...

Fri Feb 11, 2022 6:18 am • 7 Replies • 2544 Views

Familiar faces

I'd mention it, yeah. Kink isn't an excuse to cheat. Worst case scenario the other half says "oh, right, we're experimenting with some stuff, but thanks for the concern!". I'd probably make sure to sh ...

Mon Feb 07, 2022 7:08 am • 11 Replies • 2883 Views

How Do I introduce my vanilla guy to bdsm ?

I'd probably either wait until you're past the "talking to" stage of knowing him before trying to ramp things up, or if bdsm is very important to you, only date people who are interested in it from th ...

Tue Jan 11, 2022 9:54 am • 13 Replies • 4456 Views

Gender identity ideology

Assuming progression continues as it does, which is that Western society becomes more progressive towards gender identity, and then presumably the rest of the world follows and we reach an end-state, ...

Sun Jan 09, 2022 8:29 am • 113 Replies • 21996 Views

Where is good erotica?

I got into BDSM thanks to utopiastories.com, lol.

Sun Jan 02, 2022 2:18 am • 22 Replies • 7314 Views