Is there such a thing as a "Top" Woman?

Nothing in life seems strictly black or white to me, life is fluid? Though i have found some things in my life to have remained pretty constant, static even, such as being gay and total bottom. i wa ...

Sat Feb 18, 2023 7:24 pm • 6 Replies • 1094 Views

Overt vs Subtle

Tallslenderguy,

I do not mean to hijack your thoughts on @CC post. Your thoughts help me to define mine better.

I may have misunderstood the original question, are you discussing when someone ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 10:03 pm • 8 Replies • 1386 Views

Overt vs Subtle

I never considered if “Subtle Doms” are rare. I too desire this kind of Dom but never really thought to call Him “subtle.” There’s a quote I have posted on my profile that says,

“If a woman is not ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 8:28 pm • 8 Replies • 1386 Views

Overt vs Subtle

I completely relate to this. If someone tries to come in being all demanding and "in charge", I will become combative and be very much "oh hell no". Probably why some have then said they wanted to sub ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 8:02 pm • 8 Replies • 1386 Views

Overt vs Subtle

i think (and encounter) this a lot, so wanted to throw it out there to the community for discussion.

i have a deeply submissive side to my nature? (seems that way), but am often hesitant to put tha ...

Tue Feb 07, 2023 7:23 pm • 8 Replies • 1386 Views

Spitting

When i originally saw the title to this thread, i didn't realize that "spitting" was going to be about spitting out semen.

I thought it was gonna be about spit and spitting. i've encountered som ...

Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:59 pm • 11 Replies • 2735 Views

Spitting

i grew up knowing i am gay, a total bottom and a cocksucker. i can trace my crushes and attraction to guys to 7 years old. Alas, i grew up in a religious culture and consequently tried to suppress my ...

Mon Feb 06, 2023 6:30 pm • 11 Replies • 2735 Views

Water sports yes or no?

It is A LOT of fun- for me- it is deeply bonding

me too... but only if the chemistry is there.

For me, all 'kinks' need to be mutual to work. We're all pretty complex, and it's not always easy, ...

Sun Feb 05, 2023 6:39 pm • 55 Replies • 12209 Views

How does one find a female dom?

Big ditto to MissBonnie and Solace.

And, i'll throw some of my own thoughts into the discussion.

First off, i think thexephoes made a great start at answering his question by posing it in the f ...

Thu Jan 26, 2023 1:14 am • 24 Replies • 7498 Views

Re: Dick pics

I really don't know how to deal with guys sending me unsolicited dick pics.

What is the best way to handle this ? ( excuse the pun )

Please forward them to me, i'm a gay total bottom and don't ...

Thu Jan 19, 2023 4:56 am • 76 Replies • 11213 Views