Re: Edging/holding back an orgasm

Because im naturally curious:
How does one manage to hold back an orgasm? I've read books about the Dom bringing their subs to the brink of an orgasm and then telling them that if they cum there will ...

Mon Nov 14, 2022 6:23 pm • 18 Replies • 5244 Views

Re: Well...maybe not "for fun..." But, question...

...how you reconcile the lifestyle if you've been raised very conservatively religious, hardcore Christian....
Experiences, thoughts and quotes are welcome. ...For that matter, so is everything else. ...

Mon Nov 14, 2022 9:17 am • 6 Replies • 1599 Views

Re: What characteristics do you look for in a potential dom/

I've seen a lot of relationship advice recently from people with very different viewpoints, and I'm curious about what other people actually care about and value in a woman/man they want to date.

A ...

Sun Nov 06, 2022 5:28 pm • 16 Replies • 4732 Views

Water sports yes or no?

This is a very interesting topic and I'm glad you posted.
When I first entered the world of BDSM, I was not interested in any way in watersports, as I saw it strictly as a way of degrading someone, w ...

Sat Nov 05, 2022 3:18 pm • 55 Replies • 17948 Views

What it's like for Dommes

Thank you Oceanic for starting this conversation!!

i have a few thoughts to add to the conversation.

i've long thought about the differences between men and women. my own journey has taught ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 7:19 pm • 54 Replies • 17049 Views

Re: Water sports yes or no?

I was hoping for some insight as this is not something I have done myself.
However recently its something that has come up in conversation.

Personally I have never thought it would be something th ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 5:37 pm • 55 Replies • 17948 Views

Happiness in a relationship

i think this is a great topic of discussion, i have some thoughts to toss into the mix.

i grew up in an era and culture that was unaccepting of gay people. i grew up when the standard idea was that ...

Tue Nov 01, 2022 5:48 pm • 29 Replies • 6001 Views

Where do our desires stem from?

Idk, just speculating here.

i do think we are a part of nature and that nature demonstrates that opposites attract. Two oppositely charged ions attract, and if there is chemistry, a bond forms (the ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 3:21 am • 9 Replies • 2661 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

? And watch because he’ll try and get you back if you go away. When a narcissistic piece of shit looses his toy he’ll step it up and be “nice” to get it back.

He sounds highly manipulative and a s ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 8:04 pm • 34 Replies • 10192 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Thank you for your reply, it’s really helpful to get an outside perspective. I am very self aware of my own issues and short comings, so I tend to rationalise things as being a ‘me’ problems. I ha ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 6:47 pm • 34 Replies • 10192 Views