Helpful hints (hopefully) for profiles and post

Starting this thread smiling and with friendly intentions.

When you read a profile or post, what are some of the things you encounter that may be a blind spot to the writer? Not necessarily a pur ...

Mon Sep 26, 2022 11:39 pm • 23 Replies • 3937 Views

Forum Fightclub

>>> Personally, I am of a belief that written responses are useless because they don't properly convey the subtle nuances of tone that we would use when speaking aloud to understand one anoth ...

Mon Sep 26, 2022 7:46 pm • 134 Replies • 15713 Views

Re: Why is there a segregated personals catagory just for tr

There's a personals category for subs seeking, doms seeking, etc. Yet they put all trans-related personals in one group as if transpeople don't fit any other category. Surprising as it may sound, tran ...

Sat Sep 24, 2022 7:02 pm • 16 Replies • 3529 Views

Dom's wanting submission and trust without earning it

i don't see it as a matter of earning my submission. For me it's more a matter of Him finding the keys to the rooms inside of me and knowing how to open the doors. i know where a lot of the keys are, ...

Tue Sep 20, 2022 7:20 am • 49 Replies • 16822 Views

Give me Ideas to play with my slave

Emdiinta,

I am not kink shaming you, it seems like they are not regarded as a human being and if I decide to shame you, it would be for that.

It's tricky, eh? What's missing here is the "slave ...

Sun Sep 18, 2022 5:21 am • 50 Replies • 12665 Views

Give me Ideas to play with my slave

Emdiinta,

I am not kink shaming you, it seems like they are not regarded as a human being and if I decide to shame you, it would be for that.

It's tricky, eh? What's missing here is the "slave ...

Sun Sep 18, 2022 4:02 am • 50 Replies • 12665 Views

Give me Ideas to play with my slave

Have you asked her for ideas? (i realize you may already have done this). i know some people think this ruins or violates the dynamic, but i think it can deepen it if both are on the same page.

T ...

Sat Sep 17, 2022 3:24 am • 50 Replies • 12665 Views

One month in and struggling

Pre qualifier: i do not presume to advise you or present a standard here, these are just my thoughts for what they may be worth to you or the discussion.

lol, sorry, just trying to be clear about i ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 8:57 pm • 16 Replies • 4396 Views

Re: Social Accountability

The synopsis being social accountability for evaluation of personal dynamics. Is, are, should an individual, couple, or group be felt to legitamize, defend, or validate the dynamics of their relations ...

Thu Sep 15, 2022 7:51 pm • 18 Replies • 3302 Views

Drinking his climax cream

Well... the OP is about "drinking" semen.

i'm a gay bottom and have read a lot of discussion about the effects of semen on the bottom on gay discussion forum. The study evidence, so far, is just be ...

Sat Sep 10, 2022 4:50 pm • 68 Replies • 13949 Views