What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Self awareness/openness
Awareness of others/listening
Curiosity/the desire to see and understand

Wed Dec 23, 2020 7:34 pm • 119 Replies • 41718 Views

Re: Can you be a sub and still be a feminist?

How do you indulge your submissive side while also maintaining your own sense of power and independence? What would a D/s relationship look like if that dynamic didn’t apply 24/7? All advice is greatl ...

Wed Dec 23, 2020 1:34 am • 15 Replies • 5806 Views

Domestic Discipline

Personally, stuff like domestic discipline and punishment do not connect with or evoke the sub in me.

i do not see discipline and punishment as synonymous. To me, just the idea of punishment shut ...

Wed Dec 23, 2020 1:09 am • 8 Replies • 5461 Views

Looking for special someone

Ditto dijinn.

Adding some thoughts as well.

i did read your profile, it's sparse. So is your ad. You note that you are in a poly relationship, but do not make clear in your ad or profile that ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 8:31 pm • 9 Replies • 3594 Views

Why is it so hard

i'll venture some thoughts.

Anger is an emotion, it isn't necessarily rational. If a person knows they are real, questioning that they are may hurt them. i think anger is often, if not usually? an ...

Sun Dec 20, 2020 7:51 pm • 20 Replies • 8218 Views

No dommes want me ???

Ditto Kara.

@ShadowyXx

This is meant to help.

The title of your thread it "No dommes want me." To which i would reply: "Who are you?"

Your profile is sort of generic and virtually emp ...

Thu Dec 10, 2020 4:59 am • 16 Replies • 8770 Views

Re: Is Anal Rimming the new Blowjob?

My feeling is that "Anal Rimming is the new Blowjob"

Thoughts??

Not at all for me. For me, any act of penetration is Top/Dom. Being gay may have something to do with that, idk? For me, the ...

Wed Dec 09, 2020 10:11 pm • 5 Replies • 4008 Views

A curious mind wants to know: Do a lot of men or women enjoy watching web cam people?

To answer the OP personally I dont

This isn't my area but it something I have some knowledge on.
I disagree with the statement above that is NOT a BDSM community thing, that statement is a broad ...

Wed Dec 09, 2020 9:04 pm • 19 Replies • 7386 Views

Re: Naming ceremony for my Penis - ideas!

My wife and I are new to our sub/Domme dynamic but enjoying it and like keeping it fun!
I’ve proposed that she name my penis, and that naming him be symbolic of taking ownership of him!
I’m lookin ...

Wed Dec 09, 2020 7:51 pm • 16 Replies • 8563 Views

Let’s talk about WETNESS ladies/gents

Why yes, yes i do. When a guy turns me on, i drip pre-cum... it's a pretty good gauge as to his affect on me. It's kinda ironic because i'm a total bottom and don't even like to use my penis, but it ...

Mon Dec 07, 2020 2:45 am • 11 Replies • 6638 Views