Age-Gaps - Attracting Interest in Older Men - Not Reciprocated

@Miki

lol, no offense taken, my guess and implication is they are scammers. i do not even know if they are truly "young women" or if they are just scruffy guys smoking a cigar and playing the numbe ...

Mon Nov 23, 2020 1:57 am • 25 Replies • 8605 Views

Re: Age-Gaps - Attracting Interest in Older Men - Not Recipr

I keep attracting a lot of interest in men that are a lot (20+ years) older than me. I am not reciprocating the interest so I added to my profile that I am not interested in age-gap relationships but ...

Mon Nov 23, 2020 12:36 am • 25 Replies • 8605 Views

Fun Game for Dominants!

idk, crochet, when i think about it, seems another form of tying knots....

Sat Nov 21, 2020 7:54 pm • 47 Replies • 13268 Views

Sexual health

OraclePollon wrote: "You have to start looking out for yourself, people will lie. This is one of the easiest things to "lie" about, so unless the person you are talking to has never lied (spoiler they ...

Tue Nov 17, 2020 11:36 pm • 20 Replies • 7744 Views

Re: The end

How does one move past the ending of a d/s relationship when you have been betrayed? How do you stop the hate and resentment so you can move forward?

For me it helps to step (sometimes way) back a ...

Tue Nov 17, 2020 8:19 pm • 22 Replies • 6816 Views

Sexual health

In order to be able to discuss STDs without the stigma, we need to get away from using the word "clean". It is also very vague, as the OP pointed out certain infections are not routinely tested.

T ...

Tue Nov 17, 2020 7:32 pm • 20 Replies • 7744 Views

Sexual health

@justataste,
Thank you for your op and this discussion. I’m hiv poz and undetectable. I put it in all my profiles and get tested for STI’s routinely. The guy who gave it to me lied about being poz, ...

Sun Nov 15, 2020 8:33 pm • 20 Replies • 7744 Views

Question for Female Dommes and chime in anyone please

lmao... oh boy... sorry.

Like Bonnie, i'd think this guy was ignorant and taking his cues from the wrong source. i don't think an experienced sub would ever say that.

"Bitch" is a hard word to ...

Fri Nov 13, 2020 4:04 am • 30 Replies • 11389 Views

Myers Briggs and BDSM roles

Hmm, it's an interesting question but I suspect it will be fairly spread out randomly. I'm enfp-a for reference tho!

Oh wow, this is interesting. i just met a Dom guy who is ENFP-A... just on the f ...

Thu Nov 12, 2020 11:46 pm • 23 Replies • 10228 Views

How would you make your sub cum

i find this a vast topic, but i'll try not to be too 'vast' in my response lol (thank you for your indulgence). Some of my thoughts.

i'm a gay total bottom with some sub who was also married to a ...

Wed Nov 11, 2020 10:41 pm • 15 Replies • 5548 Views