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Preface: just one subs/persons views and perceptions here (mine). i don't purport to be an authority or to speak universally.

Okeedokee, i'm going to respond because many sub (and Dom) attributes ...

Thu Sep 17, 2020 8:27 pm • 11 Replies • 6794 Views

Re: Feminization is not humiliation, it's elevation

Feminization is not humiliation, it's elevation

i don't think feminization is either (i.e. "humiliation" or "elevation"). i don't think gender makes one inferior or superior.

i wrestled with ...

Wed Sep 16, 2020 6:24 pm • 11 Replies • 8278 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Bunnie wrote: "As many have suggested, by nature we can tend to worship our Dominants, however, there is a way of achieving that that isn’t the age-old “based on religion” type of worship. I believe t ...

Wed Sep 16, 2020 4:24 am • 35 Replies • 14362 Views

Most men don't blog. Why?

i hate writing. i have nothing of value to add. i am a jokester i go for the quick and easy laughs. i am not one to have anything of sustaniance to add that will stand the test of time. so i stick to ...

Wed Sep 16, 2020 2:18 am • 35 Replies • 15585 Views

Re: High Pedestal and Expectations?

The question that I'm finally arriving at, is for Dommes, what is it that gives you confidence and keeps you from having imposter syndrome? I know experience will help with this, but as a newbie I ...

Tue Sep 15, 2020 10:22 pm • 35 Replies • 14362 Views

Most men don't blog. Why?

i've considered blogging and probably would if the forum was not an available medium for expression. i always have to parse down my profiles, i tend to write books, so a blog to me in the cage contex ...

Mon Sep 14, 2020 5:57 pm • 35 Replies • 15585 Views

This ones for my fellow submissives...

Just a few cents to add to the pot, by no means 'advice.'

When i think of the name of this site (i.e., The Cage), it sort of has layered meaning beyond the obvious. i think of a cage as relative ...

Mon Sep 14, 2020 5:13 am • 19 Replies • 7290 Views

How to start?

i don't think you have done anything wrong or bad, It can be a scary thing. Openness is vulnerability, there's no way around that that i know of. But hiding, being closed means remaining unseen, unkn ...

Mon Sep 14, 2020 1:08 am • 4 Replies • 4926 Views

How to start?

i like what Mark wrote. So ditto that.

i'd especially ditto the write a "kick ass profile" advice. From the dates you have on your profile, you've been a member for close to a year now, but you ...

Sun Sep 13, 2020 10:27 pm • 4 Replies • 4926 Views

The deffinition game!

"kink": a personal sexual need/desire that falls outside 'the norm.' (and everybody's "norm" is different, so just using a term is not enough, we have to learn to communicate and share our personal s ...

Sat Sep 12, 2020 9:17 pm • 6 Replies • 2548 Views