Re: Does anyone care about feelings as well as the sexual as

As a switch (Primarily dom male due to never really being able to find a switch and im more dom than sub), its just hard to find someone to actually care about my feelings and be there for me. Like I ...

Mon Sep 07, 2020 8:25 pm • 26 Replies • 8588 Views

Re: Are you a true Gaslighter?

*chuckles with those that get the irony here



i left the discussion, i couldn't submit myself to that kind of stuff. i'm not that kind of sub. If i feel someone is gaslighting me directly, i ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 8:13 pm • 30 Replies • 5886 Views

How long does it take you to fully trust a partner?

Awesome question, i think it's great fodder for discussion. Thank you for posing it.

i look at "trust" two different ways. One is trust extended in a specific instance, the other is a more built o ...

Wed Sep 02, 2020 10:17 pm • 44 Replies • 11572 Views

Re: Are you a true masochist?

Well are you? Who else can relate to me?

I mean I am still submissive in nature to the right man but I really only desire to be given pain. That is where I will be submissive, to get my pain.

I ...

Wed Sep 02, 2020 7:27 pm • 115 Replies • 20041 Views

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

There used to be an ice cream parlor in Louisville KY when i lived there, they made an amazing deep chocolate ice cream that had dark chocolate chunks, toasted almonds and toasted coconut. Best ice c ...

Mon Aug 31, 2020 8:47 pm • 143 Replies • 31216 Views

Hidden Fantasies

i'm not sure this is out there, even in The Cage, but here goes. This is one of my lighter ones lol.

Most of my 'hidden' fantasies are connected to my desire/need to be infused, impregnated, sort ...

Sun Aug 30, 2020 10:08 pm • 2 Replies • 1908 Views

Re: Mr d

What is maddening. There is a fundamental difference between you claiming dominate and me being a sadist which the author can validate. You feel. We don’t. Why be bothered and have maddening thou ...

Fri Aug 28, 2020 8:29 pm • 30 Replies • 8534 Views

Good TV series of Femdom

Good luck with finding that. i have not seen this, but looks like a possible for you? "Bonding" on Netflix:

https://www.netflix.com/title/81004814

As an aside, i frequently look up the authors ...

Fri Aug 28, 2020 4:24 pm • 14 Replies • 28025 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Love this question, i think it is very thoughtful. i also think just asking it can help weed out some of the less serious or 'just looking for sex' situations?

i think some make the same mistake ...

Thu Aug 27, 2020 10:42 pm • 35 Replies • 11665 Views

Just how important are words?

Ooooh Bunnie!!! i love this question.

i especially love the written word, but removed the lid, and it's not 'words' that matter, but communication, connection, what words convey. Words can often ...

Tue Aug 25, 2020 8:16 pm • 6 Replies • 1936 Views