What is a submissive really?

howdoIsub,

Thank you for your kind words.

Funny you use the terms "good girl" or "good boy." The one time that phrase was used with me by a Man, it seemed genuine on His part (i.e., not just a ...

Wed May 20, 2020 11:22 pm • 30 Replies • 9255 Views

What is a submissive really?

From my experience. There is no recognition of doing something really well, and if you do something wrong its stored for a later argument.

i don't know if i understand what you are saying, so my ...

Wed May 20, 2020 9:15 pm • 30 Replies • 9255 Views

Reaching Subspace

As with many things it seems the adage: "results may vary" applies.

i think there are a lot of variables and factors involved, and it might be more accurate to narrow it down and say: "I don't t ...

Wed May 20, 2020 12:04 am • 2 Replies • 2143 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

Three blondes died in a car crash trying to jump the Grand Canyon and are at the pearly gates of heaven. St. Peter tells them that they can enter the gates if they can answer one simple question. St. ...

Tue May 19, 2020 11:23 pm • 477 Replies • 137988 Views

Re: How did you discovered you were a sub/dom/switch ?

Hi! So this is my first post in the forum so I wanted to know your stories of how did you discovered this part of yourselves or if it was something you always knew.

i think this is a great question ...

Tue May 19, 2020 9:29 pm • 21 Replies • 9270 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

A painter is painting the outside of a church and has only one side of the church left to paint, but notices he is running low on paint, and he sees storm clouds approaching. He adds water to the pain ...

Mon May 18, 2020 7:59 pm • 477 Replies • 137988 Views

everyone has a joke in them let's hear your fav

Two friends, a blonde and a redhead, are walking down the street and pass a flower shop where the redhead happens to see her husband buying flowers. She sighs and says:

"Oh, crap, my husband is buy ...

Mon May 18, 2020 7:28 pm • 477 Replies • 137988 Views

Manipulation

so 'topping' from the 'bottom' is that manipulation, persuasion, switching or?

(laughing)

i know we need words to communicate this stuff, but it can be difficult to convey some of this stuff w ...

Mon May 18, 2020 4:17 pm • 19 Replies • 7798 Views

Manipulation

Im curious as i have considered manipulation of the situation with consent. Maybe others don't consider consent can coincide with manipulation?

If i understand you, this is where i go with it too. ...

Mon May 18, 2020 4:12 pm • 19 Replies • 7798 Views

Manipulation

The original definition of manipulation i pulled from the internet identifies that manipulation can have a negative or a neutral (maybe even positive) connotation, depending on context, But like other ...

Mon May 18, 2020 4:00 pm • 19 Replies • 7798 Views