Chastity as a Fetish

For me I like it for a couple reasons. Main one is, imo, it is the ultimate form of control. Being tied up, handcuffed, up in a cage, blindfolded etc. is one thing. But your genitals are your most pri ...

Thu May 21, 2020 1:37 am • 15 Replies • 14486 Views

Gaming

I play mainly on PC. There's a lot of games I like but the ones I've played the most and/or most recently are Battlefield 4, the Halo Master Chief Collection, DCS World, World of Warships, Armored War ...

Wed May 20, 2020 10:49 pm • 41 Replies • 10993 Views

Respectfully Why Male Subs?

As a switch I can say its for two reasons.

First of all, I have always found that I enjoy the exchange of power in either direction. Sometimes I am dominant, but I also have desires to be on the re ...

Sun Apr 19, 2020 1:05 am • 56 Replies • 50504 Views

Most comfortable leg irons?

So I'm thinking of getting more leg irons in the near future because I want something more suitable for long term wear. I recognize that police style leg irons are not necessarily known to be the most ...

Wed Apr 15, 2020 11:53 pm • 2 Replies • 3155 Views

How did you discovered you were a sub/dom/switch ?

I was literally just thinking about this earlier today. Its definitely something I always knew.

I've been into BDSM of some form or another since I was first old enough to understand what BDSM was. ...

Thu Apr 09, 2020 7:12 am • 21 Replies • 8366 Views

Biggest Turn On

I'm a switch so I am a dominant sometimes. I have a long list of fantasies/fetishes, too many to mention all in one post. But these are some of the things that get me instantly turned on.

One of my ...

Thu Apr 09, 2020 1:48 am • 53 Replies • 19175 Views

How to let someone know they aren't your type?

I was in a situation like this just recently.

I'm not super picky with a lot of things. Height, race, even age within certain reasonable parameters, and definitely different kinks/fetishes are thin ...

Sun Apr 05, 2020 10:36 pm • 21 Replies • 7622 Views

Quarantine kinkiness

I live with family at the moment so I'm limited in what I can do, but when I'm the only one home I've been doing some self bondage when I can. Sadly I do not have a partner, but I make the most of it. ...

Thu Mar 26, 2020 5:15 am • 11 Replies • 7449 Views

Social Distancing and BDSM

So right now a lot of people are engaging in social distancing to help contain the spread of COVID-19. This, obviously, limits some of our everyday activities and can be quite boring. Many of us may b ...

Thu Mar 19, 2020 7:49 pm • 3 Replies • 2535 Views

What are some clever ways you've discreetly incorporated bondage in public

Some great ideas from everyone!

Also, maybe since everyone is wearing masks for the coronavirus a gag under a mask could be another idea lol

Mon Mar 16, 2020 12:28 am • 9 Replies • 5621 Views