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Turn offs in new conversations

You two should get a room.

Hell No. What it is people are never fucking satisfied.

I fucking QUIT, THESE people that ain't never mofo going to be happy.

FJC. ALMIGHTY.

Tue Jun 18, 2024 3:53 am • 113 Replies • 29522 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations

@Discordant,

*When I meet a new person in real life there is usually a handshake involved and some form of the question, “How are you?”*

When I meet someone new, I say, ''It's a pleasure.'' ...

Tue Jun 18, 2024 12:38 am • 113 Replies • 29522 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations

Discordant -
No response is necessary, just a social thing, or if you want to start a conversation, you can respond with "I'm good, looks like rain" or whatever if I'm comfortable starting a conversa ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 4:09 am • 113 Replies • 29522 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations

New here, but weighing in on the “Hi. How are you?” opening message.

Some of the responses have said it’s strange to have someone unknown ask that question.

My question to those people is: How ...

Mon Jun 17, 2024 2:06 am • 113 Replies • 29522 Views

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Authenticity

Thanks all for your viewpoints. On with business as usual. His "authentic" version of how-i-should-be would have nothing to do with who I am.

Men and their fantasies often leave no room for actual ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 7:40 pm • 26 Replies • 5394 Views

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Subs with mental illness

Most people that have mental illness in this community do so usually for one of 2 reasons. 1. They have been abused by someone in a previous relationship whether it’s romantic, or a family member or a ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 7:22 pm • 31 Replies • 5599 Views

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Subs with mental illness

Everyone has mental illness. It’s part of life. Some of it transient and other mental illness is permanent. It isn’t specific to gender or title. I know several cis male D types on this site with ment ...

Sat Jun 15, 2024 4:17 am • 31 Replies • 5599 Views

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Turn offs in new conversations

Since this thread appears to have been revived (even if only a bit), another one that has popped up recently in my interactions that seems ridiculous to me:

"I'm looking to build an empire."

Thi ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 10:51 am • 113 Replies • 29522 Views

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Question for submissives relating protective tendencies and being in a dynamic

Trying to stand up for someone there days is exactly what the phrase fits the following phrase perfectly.
''No good deed goes unpunished!''

Protectiveness is the base for what is behind someone ...

Thu Jun 13, 2024 7:23 am • 12 Replies • 2424 Views

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Gave Up Sub/Dom Relationship-Feel Lost

Roughandtumbler

*. My husband, to his credit, had tried to be a dom in our marriage but is not naturally suited for if and it just isn’t the same for me.*

I do not know how long you were in said ...

Mon Jun 10, 2024 5:02 am • 20 Replies • 3762 Views

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Gave Up Sub/Dom Relationship-Feel Lost