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Improving all aspects of Submission

Work on your ability to communicate, set and hold to boundaries, and introspecting who you are and what you want out of a dynamic.

Everything else is dessert. Dessert is great, but subjective. Fin ...

Thu Jun 06, 2024 7:01 am • 7 Replies • 1893 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Absolute Beginners

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Improving all aspects of Submission

Low effort messages from dudes

It is worth noting that, if you are the type who believes that initiating the conversation is the man's responsibility (I.e you rarely, if ever take the risk of initiating the conversation yourself) a ...

Sat Jun 01, 2024 2:15 am • 49 Replies • 11275 Views

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MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Low effort messages from dudes

Alternative sites

While I don't know that the site has suffered in any individual way, I have noticed that it has undergone the typical progression that occurs when any similar site grows in popularity and public aware ...

Mon May 13, 2024 1:35 am • 11 Replies • 4153 Views

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MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

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Alternative sites

On losing a sub

For a while now, I have lived an atypical lifestyle that, for a variety of reasons, is difficult for most of my partners to maintain. Despite this, I have had (and continue to have) a fairly constant ...

Sun May 05, 2024 12:09 pm • 11 Replies • 5939 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Femdom

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On losing a sub

Low effort messages from dudes

As a rule, I usually send messages that reflect the effort the intended recipient put into their profile.

With that said, I usually prefer to send longer, individualized, and thoughtful messages. ...

Wed May 01, 2024 8:35 am • 49 Replies • 11275 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Low effort messages from dudes

Authenticity

Ideally, this is a constructive assessment of how deeply you are influenced by social presumption as opposed to your raw, internal drives.
There are two problems with taking this at face value.
Wi ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 1:59 am • 26 Replies • 5400 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Authenticity

Do you block or have you been blocked?

As far as I can recall, I have not blocked anyone. I usually just end any ongoing conversation or refrain from starting one if someone is not to my preference.
I've been blocked by a few people, nev ...

Tue Apr 02, 2024 6:19 am • 62 Replies • 13245 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Do you block or have you been blocked?

Let’s get the facts straight

I’ve found an effective method for dealing with the particularly persistent among them to tell them you only “serve” the old gods. Hint at sacrifice, perhaps mention you only get off during blood ritu ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 5:10 am • 29 Replies • 6915 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Let’s get the facts straight

Making the first move

I usually make the first move when interested, though I am not opposed to the alternative. I tend to be pretty picky and have a lot of specific criteria for a potential partner, so I find it easier if ...

Wed May 24, 2023 7:20 am • 26 Replies • 7975 Views

Author

MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

Heart Profile

Simply put, I heart profiles to indicate an interest. If my profile is hearted in kind, I will usually message and see if there is more to build on.

Thu Apr 20, 2023 7:06 am • 23 Replies • 6292 Views

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MisterAshmodai

Forum

Generally Speaking

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Heart Profile