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Getting to know someone

For me, a meet-up in person is important, after no more than a couple messages- assuming both of us agree the potential chemistry is there, and there are no red flags, or it clearly becomes apparent d ...

Sat Jan 14, 2023 11:26 pm • 19 Replies • 6504 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting to know someone

312

Getting to know someone

It sounds like you are looking for someone who is decisive in his decision making and who appears articulate and confident. This might come across in things like the way he speaks (fluidly, succinctl ...

Wed Jan 11, 2023 7:09 am • 19 Replies • 6504 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting to know someone

313

Stripping and Femdom

I personally don't really enjoy strip clubs, and while I see what the O.P is getting at, I would have to disagree, and this is why.

Goddess Worship implies some kind of two way intimate relationshi ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 3:59 am • 25 Replies • 9873 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Stripping and Femdom

314

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

I have experienced plenty of the same from the submissive side, believe me. There are a lot of flakes out there. I've never approached anyone on this particular site as far as a potential hookup/date ...

Sat Dec 17, 2022 7:57 am • 23 Replies • 8261 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

315

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I agree with you up to a point, there is nothing wrong with being ashamed of who, or what,you are.

My fear, rather, stems from how a prospective date will react to me if she finds out that "You me ...

Sat Dec 17, 2022 7:44 am • 24 Replies • 7039 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

316

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

That is extremely sad that the maledom/female sub side didn't welcome you. That is a travesty.

I don't think it was a travesty, but it was rather a simple matter of scene demographics. Much like i ...

Tue Dec 13, 2022 4:16 am • 24 Replies • 7039 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

317

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I live in one of those states mentioned in the anonymous post. And while I am not actually in a D/S relationship, if it ever got out that I was seeking one, or that I was into any kind of kink whats ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 4:23 am • 24 Replies • 7039 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

318

You there!

LOL

Very funny. I hope you meant this as satire.
I think people are taking this thread way too seriously.

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:08 am • 16 Replies • 3569 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

You there!

319

Re: You there!

Get on your knees. You have 5 seconds and four of them are past x

Awaiting Orders!

Yessh milord...
Right-oh!
Okay.

For the Alliance!
Defending Your Honor.

Sat Nov 26, 2022 10:47 pm • 16 Replies • 3569 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

You there!

320

Drawing the line for Taboos

I would draw the line on anything that would get me in legal trouble, and/or harm my reputation and standing.

However, I understand that in some areas, the laws against certain kinds of sex betwe ...

Wed Nov 23, 2022 3:59 am • 20 Replies • 7459 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Drawing the line for Taboos