Why do you choose to submit?

Wow that's a good question and a tricky one I'm gonna have to think hard lol.
I guess for me it's about that instant connection (I'm a sapio lol)
The deeper you get to know that person and become ...

Thu May 08, 2025 5:38 pm • 8 Replies • 443 Views

As a masochist, what do you like and dislike about pain?

Hmm ok for me pain clears my mind it allows the world to go quiet and disappear. Something I can't seem to find on my own when my world gets chaotic.
There is probably nothing of the top of my head I ...

Fri May 02, 2025 7:04 pm • 8 Replies • 481 Views

Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

For me I have always been submissive it's in my nature.
Always putting others above myself or doing things I know I probably shouldn't but it's who I am. But then regards to the lifestyle do I just ...

Fri Apr 04, 2025 7:16 pm • 18 Replies • 1095 Views

Friendship within the Lifestyle

I think if they are lifestyle friends and they respect your dynamic if in one and don't try to interfere, and respect your choices and kinks.
I belive friendships are always important to have around ...

Thu Mar 13, 2025 9:52 am • 7 Replies • 626 Views

Brat Taming Advice

Ah one does not tame a brat they handle them

Fri Mar 07, 2025 8:47 am • 16 Replies • 2106 Views

How to deal with Loneliness as a Submissive

This can be hard, but I think for me I just try to keep myself busy educating myself and doing things that make me happy. Reminding myself of who I am and what my worth is. I don't look for Doms but r ...

Mon Mar 03, 2025 8:01 am • 10 Replies • 1811 Views

Dominant women on the rise?

I personally find that the majority of Dominants I have come across are insta Doms or bed room only or simply kinksters. I think comming across anyone who truly values the lifestlye and understands it ...

Mon Feb 17, 2025 5:57 am • 9 Replies • 1069 Views

AuDHD asks: Got specific examples of D/s in everyday life?

Some times I would have free time in a sence where I would write or play with my ropes or find something else to do to keep my mind busy and try not to dwell on him not being available. I do have a ch ...

Tue Feb 11, 2025 3:18 am • 8 Replies • 904 Views

AuDHD asks: Got specific examples of D/s in everyday life?

Hmmm, being ASD myself I find in a dynamic in need TPE, I find it grounding when I have structure and routine . I get lost with out it, change is hard for me so I rely on that alot from my Dominant. A ...

Mon Feb 10, 2025 3:28 pm • 8 Replies • 904 Views

Q for female subs - Which punishment?

Hmmm I'm not sure about the options here.
One it sounds like abuse ?‍♀️ unless this is something that is not a hard limit and was discussed while vetting.
To me personally knowing that i have disapp ...

Fri Feb 07, 2025 8:17 am • 70 Replies • 7286 Views