What do you think of people that do not read profiles?

My message success rate is way higher than 4%. I read profiles though.

Sweetlydepraved,

I believe the reference to chapters is my fault not your own. I have encountered egregiously long prof ...

Fri Jun 23, 2023 7:17 am • 63 Replies • 13035 Views

What it's like for Dommes

And I thought it was just me who was dealing with this. Thank you for sharing your block filters. I would pay a lot of money to be able to just auto-block folks who do this because it's so dang anno ...

Fri Jun 23, 2023 6:57 am • 54 Replies • 17020 Views

Boobs Fetish

Boobies are the shit. Big, small, real and fake. Boobie fan all day and all night.

Wed Jun 21, 2023 7:57 am • 16 Replies • 4801 Views

Re: What do you know now...

very interesting question! I'm still newish, but for me it's also informed consent. I learned that from this site actually, so thanks folks!

What are the most important things about BDSM that y ...

Tue Jun 06, 2023 7:16 am • 7 Replies • 1909 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

I don't have sadistic or masochistic tendencies, so this is a pretty fascinating thread for me. Typically, if I can imagine myself relating to something, I can also begin to understand the opposite. ...

Sat Jun 03, 2023 1:07 am • 37 Replies • 17783 Views

Time wasters?

That is so not O.K. and I'm sorry that happened to you. I would report that message right away to this site. I work in tech that IP address shit is something stupid people who can barely use the In ...

Thu Jun 01, 2023 9:54 am • 65 Replies • 14491 Views

Vetting….

Dollmaker - I know people who have gotten ripped off on dating / various websites. Someone I know got ripped off on linkedin. They are highly organized pros and it's gross of them to prey on people ...

Thu Jun 01, 2023 6:13 am • 19 Replies • 4991 Views

Vetting….

Based on my experiences here with guys, if (hopefully when) I'm considering any relationship, vetting is going to have to be a group effort. I'm going to be asking people I know here to talk to them ...

Thu Jun 01, 2023 4:52 am • 19 Replies • 4991 Views

Relationship and Separate D/s dynamic

Miki told no lies. Agree 100%.

Then one is looking for an "open relationship". Those work, from time to time, but one ought not have too much invested in the relationship with the partner no ...

Wed May 31, 2023 9:39 am • 10 Replies • 2899 Views

Making the first move

I think it's totally fine for anyone to approach anyone. I don't reach out to people typically, unless it is a female. I figure that the type of guy I'd have a good relationship with would want to p ...

Mon May 29, 2023 12:40 am • 26 Replies • 7704 Views