attitudes

Have you looked locally instead of online? That may yield better results. There are many predators here, and it is frustrating weeding them out. Sometimes being so blunt on a profile does come across ...

Sat Apr 20, 2019 12:00 am • 16 Replies • 8523 Views

Experience with Triangles that Aren't Menages or Poly?

Great question! I'm interested to see the answers you get

Fri Apr 19, 2019 11:51 pm • 6 Replies • 3087 Views

Moody Dom (or sub)

Have you tried communicating how you're feeling with him?

If you have, and you're still left feeling insecure, perhaps you two just aren't compatible or maybe he's not expressing himself in a way ...

Mon Mar 25, 2019 2:19 am • 22 Replies • 9840 Views

What to ask to a Dom

Hi, and welcome! Being new to BDSM, I would recommend spending time getting to know yourself a bit more before getting know any Dom's. Also, much like the vanilla world, become friends first. Surround ...

Tue Mar 12, 2019 10:59 pm • 15 Replies • 7052 Views

Protected?

When I first joined I was offered to be protected by a few different Dom's. They explained that they just wanted to make sure I wouldn't fall victim to any predators. They offered to help me explore t ...

Sun Mar 03, 2019 9:06 pm • 5 Replies • 2560 Views

"Trophies" Not like Serial Killer Stuff - LOL

Hope this helps, I love the marks left over after a good play session. So many pretty colors *wink* lol I agree with her, they are fun trophies!

Fri Mar 01, 2019 11:22 pm • 21 Replies • 9010 Views

Real Time and Online : What's your prefence and why?

I've always preferred IRL. Since being on this site I've been exploring with online only and I'm struggling with it. Maybe it'll get easier the more I explore and learn. Maybe not. Time will tell.

Mon Feb 25, 2019 7:37 pm • 70 Replies • 32606 Views

Monogamous, open, and polyamorous

Wow! That's a loaded question! From what I've experienced some people have their own interpretation of each. They also seem to apply different boundaries/expectations/restrictions to best suit the dyn ...

Tue Feb 12, 2019 6:58 am • 21 Replies • 9560 Views

BDSM Test

I was just talking with someone today about the test. I've learned that it changes with your mood and can be manipulated easily. I wouldn't put too much weight on it. I plan to use the results to expl ...

Mon Feb 11, 2019 2:35 pm • 6 Replies • 2374 Views

Questions about end of play/relationship and hiding kinks

Hi, sorry to hear about your relationship fizzling out. It happens often. But we get to pick up the pieces, learn something from the experience, and move on to the next.

The first though that popp ...

Fri Jan 11, 2019 6:25 pm • 6 Replies • 2316 Views