Checklist - Bootblacking

I was really excited to see this topic pop up.

I bootblack. I do not say that I AM a bootblack because as a leatherwoman I believe, for myself, that this is an earned title that is given by a boot ...

Thu Oct 19, 2023 5:23 am • 5 Replies • 535 Views

Lack of Dominant gay men on The Cage

Hi there

Lesbian here. I met my Dominant/Wife on this site about a little over 4 years ago. It was an absolute fluke but queers on the Cage do exist. To be fair I see queer women far more frequ ...

Tue Sep 26, 2023 8:21 am • 7 Replies • 830 Views

Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

Guy Baldwin’s views on this topic should be thrown into the mix

https://leatherati.com/the-old-guard-classical-leather-culture-revisited-4fdc796aa25

https://ayzad.com/old-gods-die-hard/

Anyo ...

Thu Sep 07, 2023 2:05 am • 20 Replies • 2179 Views

Could someone explain Old Guard vs. New Guard

Since there is a LOT of misinformation here, as a patched in senior member of a Leather club and who and tries to espouse Leather values in her life, I urge you all to please read the article that Dj ...

Mon Sep 04, 2023 8:03 pm • 20 Replies • 2179 Views

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

I made a statement on another post that seems to have troubled some folks. I don't apologize one bit, but I want to move the discussion to a new thread because the OP of that post deserves her space. ...

Sat Aug 12, 2023 12:01 am • 25 Replies • 2556 Views

Overwhelmed

Wrong!

Post Topless Pics.. Expect the fucking results

Just replying to boost the fact that you've outed yourself as a victim blamer cum rape apologist.

People have the right to post ANY pic ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 11:58 pm • 38 Replies • 4548 Views

Overwhelmed

Wrong!

Post Topless Pics.. Expect the fucking results

Just replying to boost the fact that you've outed yourself as a victim blamer cum rape apologist.

People have the right to post ANY pic ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 8:41 pm • 38 Replies • 4548 Views

Overwhelmed

I want to publicly apologize if I was one of those who made you overwhelmed. It was never intended to make you feel overwhelmed or uneasy. I apologize for my part.

If all you did was send a greeti ...

Fri Aug 11, 2023 8:18 pm • 38 Replies • 4548 Views

Trans Lives Matter

This should be in the "Just for fun" section.

What's that supposed to mean? Supporting trans lives and rights is an integral part of being in the kink community and thus belongs right here. I certa ...

Wed Jul 26, 2023 10:34 am • 6 Replies • 927 Views

If everyone has an opinion then why try to silence people?

Let me get this straight.

You ignore.

And you act as if others are ignorant when you self project your insecurities?

You're a hypocrite.

See, this is where I move on.

I'm fine with dis ...

Tue Jul 04, 2023 9:15 am • 23 Replies • 2121 Views