Submissive verses Slave

It's a difficult thing to navigate and I do feel that it really boils down to personal preference, personal morality, and what sort of dynamic you have. I've seen the term used interchangeably in the ...

Fri Mar 08, 2024 9:17 pm • 34 Replies • 2773 Views

Is addressing HER as Mistress Really Respectful ?

Like most things in BDSM it's all highly individual.

To echo everyone else, it's best to ask what She wants to be called.

Sat Feb 24, 2024 10:30 pm • 22 Replies • 2668 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

No, I don't.

I do, however, struggle to work out what the chuff to say in any message to a D type most of the time.

Fri Feb 16, 2024 9:20 pm • 63 Replies • 4224 Views

Masks

Well, I suspect I'm autistic (albeit with low support needs), so masking is part of the package. I've certainly had moments where I've turned down human interaction because I've been in a comfortable ...

Fri Feb 16, 2024 9:19 pm • 12 Replies • 632 Views

What is the kinkiest personality type?

i'm always consistently an INFP-T and did the 16 Personalities test a few weeks ago and got that results.

Fri Jan 26, 2024 11:10 pm • 25 Replies • 901 Views

How should i start my first meeting with my sub?

I would echo what others have said. Meet as people first with no expectations of play. People can be very different in the flesh from how they are online and you may not be able to stand each other wh ...

Sun Jan 21, 2024 1:43 pm • 23 Replies • 2064 Views

Being told no thanks

I would much rather receive a polite message saying no thank you than no reply at all, I must say. At least that would mean any message I'd sent had been acknowledged and I wasn't playing guessing gam ...

Sat Jan 06, 2024 8:36 pm • 20 Replies • 2222 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

i'm not in a relationship, or collared, so forgive me if i'm speaking out of turn. To me, however, this is a simple matter of honesty and the fact that keeping information back isn't honest and makes ...

Sat Dec 30, 2023 2:38 pm • 40 Replies • 3664 Views