Bonded and alone

I had my first Male Dom/female sub relationship with a girl in high school. I had a pair of handcuffs and she insisted that she wanted to try them on! First in a playful manner, which rapidly became ...

Sun May 08, 2022 10:08 pm • 16 Replies • 5265 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello all,

I go by LatexHer online. I have been around for a few decades and am well known in the midwest, Chicagoland areas. Now moved to eastern Tennessee, and am seeking local friends to share ...

Fri Mar 18, 2022 8:26 pm • 3357 Replies • 1367172 Views

Dating and DS relationship

Straight talk is what is needed here. Honesty is always best. Unfortunately, I have seen several good relationships sour in time due to one partner's lack of understanding. If you are a DOM or a sla ...

Mon Feb 21, 2022 8:40 pm • 5 Replies • 2256 Views

It's so hard to find The One

You are NOT ALONE.

Losing one's play partners is always hurtful. I have lost several in my lifetime, due to accident, disfigurement, or natural death. The other losses I attribute to marriages, ...

Mon Dec 06, 2021 7:21 pm • 11 Replies • 11404 Views

Red flags? Green flags?

Most real people are diverse, yet refined in their choices. People do move around and I will never fault anyone for doing so. By asking everyone here what sends up flags to them is comparing their i ...

Fri Nov 05, 2021 12:44 am • 48 Replies • 13059 Views

The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

Great points . As a Dom who began in his early 20s, now in my late 60s I still don't know it all! The fun of it is learning new things about life, sex, women, power exchange, and a oh so much more! ...

Fri Nov 05, 2021 12:07 am • 42 Replies • 16919 Views

How Important is Connection to you?

Connection is not as important to me in general as is quality playtime. As a dude who was married for 20 yrs, one would think that connection would be self evident. The truth is that time alone doe ...

Thu Nov 04, 2021 11:52 pm • 12 Replies • 4769 Views

Hair

As a Dom man, I do my best to keep my older body clean and tidy. I have had facial hair since I was 13. I had a full mustache by 14 and needed to shave as the fuzz became more defined. As I became o ...

Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:06 pm • 24 Replies • 8563 Views

Your Thoughts Count!

Geesh - how many times in the last 45 yrs have I heard similar stories from women!

A respectful Dominant man is not just after your tail, we are out there on the Internet! ladies do some homework ...

Mon Jul 12, 2021 7:41 pm • 42 Replies • 22726 Views

Prove-Up

I have been in the D/s Community for decades. Have come across an incredible amount of liars, fakers, scammers, posers, and wannabes. These are the very people who ruin the community I love with th ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 9:26 pm • 20 Replies • 8063 Views