The Worst Mistake a Dominant or Submissive Can Make

Great points . As a Dom who began in his early 20s, now in my late 60s I still don't know it all! The fun of it is learning new things about life, sex, women, power exchange, and a oh so much more! ...

Fri Nov 05, 2021 12:07 am • 42 Replies • 12674 Views

How Important is Connection to you?

Connection is not as important to me in general as is quality playtime. As a dude who was married for 20 yrs, one would think that connection would be self evident. The truth is that time alone doe ...

Thu Nov 04, 2021 11:52 pm • 12 Replies • 3269 Views

Hair

As a Dom man, I do my best to keep my older body clean and tidy. I have had facial hair since I was 13. I had a full mustache by 14 and needed to shave as the fuzz became more defined. As I became o ...

Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:06 pm • 24 Replies • 6374 Views

Your Thoughts Count!

Geesh - how many times in the last 45 yrs have I heard similar stories from women!

A respectful Dominant man is not just after your tail, we are out there on the Internet! ladies do some homework ...

Mon Jul 12, 2021 7:41 pm • 42 Replies • 18303 Views

Prove-Up

I have been in the D/s Community for decades. Have come across an incredible amount of liars, fakers, scammers, posers, and wannabes. These are the very people who ruin the community I love with th ...

Sun Mar 14, 2021 9:26 pm • 20 Replies • 6073 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Actually there are several questions which automatically send up a red flare to me.

1. What do you do for a living?
2. Do you rent or own?
3. I like nice cars - so what do you drive?
4. Are ...

Mon Feb 15, 2021 7:23 pm • 126 Replies • 41940 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hello to all the people who profess to follow their own dreams!

I am certainly not a new personality on this site or for that matter by age. I first learned of my "tastes" as a young man some dec ...

Fri Oct 16, 2020 1:58 am • 3185 Replies • 1024064 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Are you financially secure?

Always ends any interest!

Fri Aug 14, 2020 6:29 pm • 126 Replies • 41940 Views

I'd like to pose a question.

Sexy - not too showing photos are a great gift to get at work or anytime. To me that just shows that the sub is thinking about you, which is always a pleasure.

Sat Jul 11, 2020 3:49 am • 28 Replies • 12856 Views

BDSM in Marriage- no more vanilla!

In the lifestyle we are in or want - NOTHING is weird! People who never indulge in their desires and fantasies are the weird ones. They will go through life never knowing the full pleasures of t ...

Sun Jul 05, 2020 6:01 pm • 10 Replies • 6111 Views