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LIMITS as stated in your profile

I agree that subs limits should change over time, but a fully aware Dom already know their limits.

I'm quite sure that a Doms limits can' and so change.

Mon May 08, 2023 7:29 am • 39 Replies • 9268 Views

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I'mME

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Lifestyle BDSM

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LIMITS as stated in your profile

492

How to Have Hard BDSM Conversations

I am in 100 % agreement with dollMaker.

In the beginning negotiations should take place in a neutral spot outside of the roles. Later negotiations should be the same way. One of main reasons is wh ...

Mon May 08, 2023 7:27 am • 9 Replies • 3066 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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How to Have Hard BDSM Conversations

493

LIMITS as stated in your profile

I don’t list my limits in public nor do I discuss my limits with just anyone. Blaring your limits out there for the world to see is just like tossing all your trauma out for everyone to examine. Those ...

Sat May 06, 2023 6:21 am • 39 Replies • 9268 Views

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I'mME

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Lifestyle BDSM

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LIMITS as stated in your profile

494

Let's talk primal

To me it's always been the more animalistic side of things.

Bondage, what with the ties and the ceremonies and the artistry and the toys and tools, can be somewhat ritualistic in nature. Primal pla ...

Sat May 06, 2023 5:14 am • 55 Replies • 21839 Views

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I'mME

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Fetish

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Let's talk primal

495

Re: How to battle Insecurities during sex?

First of all, you are fine as fuck. The advice given in this thread is pretty excellent. I have a similar problem - I don't even like getting my picture taken. I don't think I'm ugly (I like the w ...

Tue May 02, 2023 10:20 am • 17 Replies • 4428 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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How to battle Insecurities during sex?

496

Re: Time wasters?

Anyone else on here, had to deal with time wasters before? Like say you hit a person in their inbox letting them know you interested in them, they reciprocate the energy back and you trying to see whe ...

Tue May 02, 2023 3:05 am • 65 Replies • 15105 Views

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I'mME

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Generally Speaking

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Time wasters?

497

How to battle Insecurities during sex?

Heero,

The only problem I see with you providing the praise is that it is external validation. This is about internal validation. I would suggest that you change it, just a little.

Sure, have ...

Sun Apr 30, 2023 12:15 pm • 17 Replies • 4428 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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How to battle Insecurities during sex?

498

Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

Move on. Start talking to other people. I understand you feel he is everything you feel you want, however, you have been rejected. I understand you feel there is still a slightly open door called the ...

Wed Apr 26, 2023 3:22 am • 33 Replies • 9410 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Advice on being turned down by a Dominant.

499

Is this normal?

Thank you @Heero.
I seem to recall this thread. For me personally, sub drop goes away when I'm in a stable, long-term, committed relationship. I think a big part of the problem that causes sub drop ...

Fri Apr 21, 2023 7:35 am • 15 Replies • 4192 Views

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I'mME

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Absolute Beginners

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Is this normal?

500

Tights

I got me a good pair of tights and man do they add to my outfits from sex Appel to making me feel modest they’re even functional. Chub rub can kiss my ass, they’re also good textile sensory

I secon ...

Thu Apr 20, 2023 7:14 pm • 17 Replies • 7463 Views

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I'mME

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Fetish

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Tights