Submitting
Distance may makes the physical collar hard to place so here they came up with placing eachothers names. When I first came to cage it meant so much the idea of being so connected that 2 people were willing to announce it. I watched "collars" go on and off, people switching people all the time. I became jaded to the idea I loved so much. Collars on cage to me became meaningless to me. There was no respect to the one wearing it or the persons name in it. (Yes this isnt true for all) anyway I refused to wear one.
So I have considered a few before, we have talked gotten close but something always happened. So years later a lot of possibilities and even more thinking I came up with an idea. Yes it may not be unique to me (although i havent seen it) this is my plan. I strongly believe a sub has to offer her submission to her potential before its official. He has to be given the choice just as much as she does. So to bring back what i feel the collar means here is my plan (hoping I dont land on my face)
*kneeling head bowed*
I offer You me, to serve You to be Yours.
I give You my trust my faith my loyalty my body my brain my heart and my soul.
I will be Your best friend, Your confidant, Your strength, courage, support, Your girl, Your muse Your kitten, slut, toy, slave, and lover.
I will be the best I can be for You and I.
I will learn and grow with You and I will travel this path by Your side.
I leave the choice to You.
Will You take this sub to be Your own...
Holding my breath while I wait.
J