Get ready for your education and training, slave.
I am a single, successful, educated professional that has been in and out of the lifestyle for some years.
I am looking for a sub between the ages 18 through 35.
I enjoy to educate newbies, so i would have preference for them.
I'm very serious when it comes to my subs and can be gentle, understanding and compassionate but also firm, strict and even harsh at times. I am able to give you training, guidance. If you like this and you are interested just hit me up with a DM
Recently divorced after 15 years and 4 children— attempting to rebuild my life in a more intentional way. I enjoy quiet nights in as much (maybe more) as going on an adventure. I’m equal parts hippie, redneck and nerd, looking for someone to cuddle and share my time with.
I have over 40yrs experience in the BDSM world. Looking for a sincere sub woman any age that is in need of training from a caring yet stern Dom. Expert in tease&denial, rope bondage, hot wax, oral training , constraint, flogging and many other areas. Please no one over 180 lbs. Also expert in Daddy/baby training.
I’m fed up with one night meets. Lust and casual sex is great but you don’t get the beauty of knowing each other and the higher levels of pleasure that are achieved through a relationship over time. I promise to spend time learning your preferences and training you in serving my needs. I am a traditional dom, can accommodate and travel for the right sub. I am happy to get to know you and am open to online communication before meeting. Looking forward to hearing from you. Have a lovely weekend.
Hello and thanks for taking the time to read I'm looking for someone to train and play with online who is more then a yes sir no sir type of submissive.
I'm open to a variety of age ranges so don't feel shy as long as your legal so a bit about myself I'm 25 and from Canada I've had some live in submissives and a few online but I've been in the lifestyle since as long as I can remember I'm naturally dominant and like to take lead or control over a situation.
I'm open to alot of sexual ideas in either roleplay or actually playing them so if you have something in mind you want to do please feel free to be open with me as well I'm strict but only if that's what you need if that makes any sense.
Hope to hear from you and thank you for taking the time to read through this I hope you have the best day possible and if not I hope everything gets better from here take care,
Lonely Dominant looking for that special connection with a truly submissive woman.
It's been so long since I had someone special to call my own. I miss the banter, giving her structure and setting rules.
I'm not looking for some short term play thing.i want to build a real connection and have that chemistry. I want something long term and meaningful. I don't care if your married or have a partner. Age isn't important as long as you are of legal age.
I would prefer someone fairly close by but I am willing to entertain online only if things fit right.
I'm a 49 year old male dom looking for a female sub. My requirements are fairly specific. The right sub will submit to an ongoing D/S arrangement when we are building a scene. I have (comfortable) sub-quarters at my place (south east of London) where rules will apply. However outside that environment I am consciously egalitarian. I'm also unashamedly sapiosexual. I love super-smart women.
My style of domming has taken a while to evolve. I'm not interested in being a swaggering domly mcdomlypants. I prefer subtlety. I also get a slightly evil kick from depriving my sub of agency (negotiated of course) and then subjecting them to being used and taken beyond the point of reason. I get off on leaving someone utterly helpless and overwhelmed by sensual pleasure. I'll use pain, degradation, mechanical stimulation, complete deprivation of control, or whatever it takes to get them there.
Aside from super smart sluttiness I also appreciate physical fitness. I work out (not to excess) and expect similar from the right sub. The sub will have to stay fit despite my feeding her. It is OK to spoil one's sub occasionally isn't it?
Im 51 years old and am not interested in games or hookups. If you know who you are and you’re looking for a LTR please take a moment to read my profile. Please have a face pic or include one with your reply. I would prefer 30-55 but that’s more of a guideline.
Here goes nothing. I'm a loner by nature, and I'm wierd as hell. I have some strong opinions and have a tendency to fuck things up.
Now if your still here, I am seeking a submissive/slave either or, I mean I expect nothing will come of this so hey. I want a partner in crime, someone to get in trouble with and fuck later that night. Like Harley Quinn. And joker but less toxic. I can be cheesy and strange. But I want something long term, ironically after the last 8 ended in the worst ways ever. I am quite broken and have no self esteem, it's all ego. So if you can handle that and want to chat, let's talk I'm an open book.
I'm a 40 year old monster. I wake up; Take a shower; Hit the gym; Work 12+ hours a day; Sleep; Rinse and Repeat every single day. As you can see, my time is very valuable. So if you plan on wasting it, I will just ignore/remove you. Are you worthy enough to stand by my side? Because what I can not stand is uselessness. I will demand a lot from you.
I need my sub to stand next to me and own her place. When I call you, you should already be on your way to me. I will make you my perfect little sub. I will also take full responsibility over you so if you fall, I will pick you up and carry you over the finish line. I have always been of the mindset that a sub that works very hard needs to be rewarded because a hard working sub is the most sexiest creature on this planet. I've been a Daddy dom for 2 years now so I have quite some experience in that. Still have to learn a bit about being a Dom/Brattamer but in due time.
I'm a 38 year old monster.
I wake up;
Take a shower;
Hit the gym;
Work 12 hours a day;
Rinse and Repeat every single day.
As you can see, My time is very valuable. So if you plan on wasting it, I will just ignore you.
Are you worthy enough to stand by My side? Can you follow that regime? Because what I can not stand is uselessness.
I will demand a lot from you, in private and in professionalism. I need My bratty sub to stand next to Me and own her place.
When I call you, you should already be on your way to Me. I will train you and experiment on you to make you My perfect little sub.
I will take full responsibility over you so if you fall, I will pick you up and carry you over the finish line. I have always been of the mindset that a sub that works very hard needs to be rewarded because a hard working sub is the most sexiest creature on this planet.
I've recently discovered that I'm a Daddy/Brattamer/Dom so I still need to learn all the ropes.
I’m an experienced Dom and BDSM mentor looking for a submissive to live with me in Honolulu, Hawaii, and eventually travel with me internationally.
I am a natural Dominant, Primal, Leader, Mentor, Guide and Healer, in part because I am a Scorpio, Empath and ENFJ-A.
I’m looking for an in-person long-term relationship, not an online relationship. Ideally, it would develop into a forever dynamic.
If you are open to discussing visiting and eventually relocating to me (after we have gotten to know each other and built trust) then message me and feel free to include which dynamics you have been in and which ones are you open to, examples:
For more info about me check out my profile and blog.
Hey! I'm searching for a sub/little. I am an affectionate daddy dom whose kinks include anal, orgasm control, bondage, punishment and praise, spanking, squirting, and ddlg. I'm also open to exploring other kinks! I'm looking for something that will be consistent and has the potential to move to a more serious relationship.
My vanilla interests include reading, writing, exploring museums, hiking, snowboarding, playing games, and climbing. I am a homebody tho haha.
Dominant daddy and master seeking newbie subs that seek training and or daddy’s little girl . Must be willing to get to know each other and be real. I am a trainer and know how to bring you where you want to be. I am caring and loving,like a daddy,but firm and dominant. I am easy to learn from and eager to train you. I am that daddy you always wanted and longed for. Let’s chat and you can ask questions if you like!
BDSM is an interesting thing. No, not because of sex, but because of the psychology behind that. Deep in my heart I do believe that dommination is an art and submissiveness is a power. So you hold it all. And just you can give it away.
I am 33yo 180cm 75kg domminant male who is in need of the woman next to him. Yes, you heard me right-next to me, not behind or beneath me. At first you need to know what you whant and what you are willing to give for it. I will ask. Also, you should be willing to relocate. But rather than that-please be a bit literate, curious, young, petite.. And most of all-from a broken family. Daddy issues etc. In that case we will find each other.
So please do not hesitate and pm me with all the fears and needs you have. I will try to help as best as I can.
i'm jon 39yrs full time dom seeking a sub own/train and teach about bdsm life style and guide her in real life to be her mentor
I had a great relationship with my last sub and ended that for her to continue her jorney
Now searching new candidate
So if you are new and ready for a life changing experience where satisfaction is the real goal
Come join me
We talk about everything in private
Hard, rough Dom or caring gentle Dom...I think I am a mixture of both . Its like two sides of a coin, they are still the same coin
I am a 60's plus male near Canterbury Kent...There is no greater compliment from a new submissive, or any submissive come to that than the first time she kneels for you without you demanding or telling her to. Everything else that follows on from that simple, but that very complex act has to start somewhere and the act of willingly kneeling before you... is the start of it all, it is true submission. It's a bit like my pet hate, 'it happens to guys as well' it's when they demand from the very first message to be called Sir, or Master...
Just because you call yourself a Dom does not mean that you are the 'superior being' far from it.
The submissive has all the control right up until she offers her submission as a gift, and it's a rare gift, true submission is given by choice, not demanded.
How come you might ask...think about it for one moment. In the Dom/Sub relationship, nothing, absolutely nothing happens until the submissive says so, there is no messaging, no first meeting, nothing
It feels better when you do things for someone else rather than yourself isn’t it? You need to serve and craves for a purpose. That’s what I’m looking for. I want to take the reigns of your life and give you a clear goal while making you feel useful and valued.
I will guide you, own you in every aspect. It’s contradictory but constraints give you freedom: the more control you give the better you feel. You might have mixed feelings about this, giving yourself it’s risky and makes you vulnerable but, at the same time, it sounds satisfactory and fulfilling and there is something inside you craving for it.
Regarding kinks, I like orgasm control, humiliation, TPE, and more things we can discuss. I’m a bit sadistic, I will enjoy making you helpless and desperate.
I’m looking for a Dom/sub or a Master/slave relationship. I even like some aspects of DDlg. In any case we can discuss about it. Don't be afraid if you don't have experience, you can share your doubts with me if you have them
Cheshire Dom 49, seeks new connection to explore, develop & grow
There is something particularly special about combing a deeply caring attitude and recognising the delight that pain can bring to a dynamic. The Sadistic with the Daddy.
If you seek a compassionate, caring and kind Dominant who will take equal pleasure in delivering a thorough flogging while delivering release again and again until you are unsure if you can take any more…. We should talk
Hello i live in north west Victoria Australia. I am currently here looking to meet a female sub that live around the Swan hill or Mildura areas.
Being someone with not a great deal of experience when it comes to real life Dom/sub relationships i would ideally be looking for a sub that is a beginner or someone with not a lot of experience so we could learn and gain experience together as our relationship progresses.
I am 53 years old but i am not concerned with how old a sub should be as long as she would be committed to her role .
I am looking for a long term relationship but only on a casual basis due to my commitments that i will explain after we get to know each other better
(single and not married.)
Please look at my profile to see what i am into or curious about and if you live near me and are interested then contact me and we can see how things go from there.
I'm a 40 year old, CIS, Straight, Dom, Male. Originally from FL, now living in MA. Yeah, I did it backwards. I'm special. Deal with it! LOL
That said, while I'm not exactly looking for anything specific, it never hurts to make the attempt to see what's out there. Feel free to check out my bio, shoot me a message, or if you really have psychic powers...stare at your screen till I respond. That last one probably won't work though.
I'm looking for a woman from the ages of 18-25 years old, to become my slave. I will train you to be a real slave and will be treated as such, to obey, do as your told without hesitation and never see yourself as a human being but an object to me use to my pleasure and serve to better my life. I am a strict and fair if you show progress then I'll be more flexible to your struggles. I believe a slave should do as her commands it and never stop him from doing as he please, therefore I do not respect safe words or limits. if you are interested in become my slave, message me I'll look forward from hearing you.
I am looking for a long-term sub/slave/pet to take possession of a total 24/7/365 TPE I am controlling strict firm have very few limits want someone who is into and craves everything the lifestyle offers. I have been on here for awhile on and off try other relationships but never worked I know who I am and what I want also the mental aspect is just as important as the physical am willing to start online as long as it progress to real long-term if interested or have questions just send a message
TL/DR: Any Alpha subs out there? Ass kicker in the streets, but submissive in the sheets? Looking for a strong & independent woman with a burning desire to submit to start a 24/7(ish) monogamous D/s relationship. If this sounds like you, meander on over to my profile. Cheers!
I am a Master in D/s lifestyle, seek submissive/slave female to collar and own. Must be willing to have BDSM sessions. I seek a long term relationship based on total control on all aspects of the relationship. You will have no say. The only relationship you will have is me. This is a lifestyle not a part time thing. I get a lot of responses, but only respond if you want and understand this type of relationship. I am seeking one that is submissive, honest, loyal, caring, loving, obedient, and desires to belong to only one. Will only respond if you tell me why you are the lady I seek in my profile and serious about having this relationship. You will always belong to me. Lets not wait and meet. Let me know how to contact you. You always need to show these qualities and be happy living this way.
Hey there. This is Dom Papabear neatfella, looking for a White, Latina, Mixed, Black or Asian submissive female, she must be curvy, have a shapely big ass, She must give me Obedience, Loyalty, No Drama. My sub need to be someone that is legit. I want a female sub that will exclusively be mine and claim her as my own, have emotional connection, heart, body, soul and become my friend at the same time.
I am strong, tall, black, handsome 5’ 11” tall with youthful good-looks, athletic built 182 lbs., dominant male but with a soft heart. I'm a Dominant man who takes charge but also romantic. (I will privately DM you my photos, upon request) Message me if you are serious and interested
Dominant looking for D/s LTR with sweet submissive
Hi all. I'm hoping to find a sweet submissive girl, aged 25-34, to build a loving, long-term relationship with. I'm interested in a 24/7 dynamic that would evolve into a TPE, but I also enjoy the softer aspects of doting on a sub. I'm also interested in traditional, 1950's household elements. Open to start off online, but must be willing to relocate in the future.
I'm childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, have social/left-wing politics. I have some years of D/s experience under my belt.
The woman I'm looking for is a book lover and an artist. She's a feminine type, a real girly girl. Smart, but also smart enough to let me lead. Her ideal future consists of a cozy life, with our own little herb garden and a room dedicated to making art. I want to come home to the scent of freshly baked goods and a lady covered in paint or clay or poetry. I'm very attracted to short women with long, dark hair.
Does this spark your interest? Message me or check out my profile for more about me.
Hi.You are a submissive woman flying to France and you are expecting some kinky games with a mature disciplinarian. I would like to teach and to pervert you .Please, no time wasters. But newbies or shy ladies are welcome . Couples too , for cuckolding.
I've recently made the transition of day trading to being a stock broker for others at a prestigious firm. The move has been stressful and this next stage of my career will be financially the strongest move I've ever made.
I'm looking for a local bratty play partner, which may or may not develop into something greater, who is interested in impact play and orgasm denial, among other things. My relationships have primarily been complete lifestyle relationships, in and out of the bedroom. If I seem like something you want to take a shot it, you'll most likely find the most fulfilling relationship of your life. I care for my subs as much as I discipline them, health in body and mind is important to me, and something I will keep you in line with.
Feel free to send me a small nudge if you'd like me to reach out, I work quite a lot more than the average person yet I will value you more than you ever believed possible.
Do you want it all; a fun, intelligent man, with who amazing at the kinky sex life; who will be your Dominant in the bedroom and my equal partner outside of it.
In our world...I'm a Dominant, and I'm looking for a submissive woman. Someone who will love to explore her submissive part of her with me discreetly. A submissive willing to learn under my tutelage and follow my lead. BDSM sub Master
I seek one additional slave to enhance and complement my existing order. Totally open, transparent and negotiated arrangements with clear rules with daily tasks as well as expected behavior and boundaries in a soothing environment that can be fun and engaging. Send a pm and a pic for consideration.
Hello! I'm looking for female sub, slave who interested in being controlled and dominated in every aspect of life. I would decide what you could eat, what you wear, people you meet...
If you are interested in this lifestyle, message me
I am a Genuine Strict DOMINANT from Canada Looking for suitable submissive
I am a real Dom and Master from Canada, with long life BDSM experience.. I am strict but caring. I am into mind control , reward and punishment , humiliation , and most importantly deep submission in the BDSM dynamics. I am genuine and interested to find a true sub that enjoy being controlled and disciplined regularly. I entertain online and real life if in Ontario. if you are really true sub and looking for long term deep relation, contact me.
I do respect the limits . I like spanking,obedience training and many more. if you are interested drop me a line and let me know how we can start chatting.
In what you wear
How you act
How you look
What you say
How you preform
All will be subject to RE/DI of verbal and physical means
Methods of domination can very from common, aggressive, intensive to extreme.
All would be agreed upon before a relationship begins.
I need someone that will be by my side 24/7 without hesitation or question. My life would become their life. I live a pretty good life.
Serious people need only to respond.
You will be expected to relocate.
Looking for a lifetime girl and entrepid travel partner!
I am a simple man who has lived a not ordinary life. I wouldn't really claim that my path has been extraordinary, just filled with experiences and glimpses of the world not seen by many. I am alpha, but in a protective and thoughtful way, not the type A jackass way. I am slow to anger, quiet and thoughtful, but resolute and consistent in my discipline and intent. You will always know where you stand with me and what is required of you, except when you are blindfolded...
I am tall, trim and, surprisingly, still have a full head of hair. Yea!!! You should see my cousins. I have a bit of fun teasing at the family reunions.
I love to travel, but am not much for the cruise/resort lifestyle. I'm more for spinning the globe, picking a spot at random then go hang out with the locals. Ok, a bit more thoughtful than that, but you get the idea.
I've lived this life before for long periods of time-decades. After the last relationship ended I dated back in the vanilla world, but found myself wanting. The relationships took more than they returned. I am successful and secure. For the last 10 years I've been single. I've lived my plan, raised my children well and find myself exactly where I want to be-debt free with an open horizon. Everything is in place except that elusive she.
I am seeking a submissive woman....minimum height 5'4".....a BBW, chubby or whatever you want to call it....she should be between 45 and 75.
I am seeking a " live in " situation....someone with me 24/7....who is EAGER to " live the lifestyle "....
She would be totally cared for, supported financially, physically and emotionally.
It would be a very kinky but very LOVING Dom/sub lifestyle...
If you are a woman who wants to be dedicated to me and live with a man with a high sex drive who is EXPERIENCED .....I am here...
I am not interested in discussions of domination and submission...not interested in blogging or philisophical discussions of D/s....
I am only interested in LOVE 1st and formost....companionship....being cared for and catered to by a woman ready and available to start
the " live in " situation after a trial period of 3 to 6 months.....
I am an educated, sophisticated, successful man.
I'm Treadway, (Dominant ) Looking for a Pet that I can train and a build a connection with Longterm. If Interested, send an application through Private message with your name, age, gender, location, kinks and description about yourself and whether you have prior experience
I want to find a partner that has similar tastes as me and is open to exploring this interesting relationship. The relationship between us doesn't happen just as we meet, instead I want us to trust each other and ease into it.
Speaking of kinks, my major ones are roughplay, breeding, praise and degradation, maledom, height difference, Power dynamic, orgasm denial, petplay, slave play, bondage, latex play, Roleplay, Sensory play, wax play, outfit co-ordination, orgasm control, etc.
I am a 27 year old dom seeking a sub around my age. (22-30) I am willing to accept someone outside that age range. My job requires me to travel all over the United States. I am a dom with some master tendencies. Visit my profile for more information.
High protocol Master type Dom iso slave type submissives
Hello! I'm a Master type Dom who is looking to form a connection with slave type submissives to hopefully forge a strong connection. I have several years of experience in the BDSM scene, mostly in training submissives.
A little bit about me: Most of my interests outside of the lifestyle are fairly common. I enjoy reading, video games, traveling, hiking, watching shows or movies with friends, and learning. I've recently been doing more travelling and have more trips planned coming up.
In term of BDSM, I'm a high protocol Master type Dom. I enjoy 24/7 TPE (eventually, after trust is established/earned) giving rules, protocols, clothing and meal selection, and position training. I don't believe in rushing into anything, but over time, I hope to build a connection such that I am entrusted with My slave's life completely and utterly, a responsibility that I absolutely do not take lightly.
Perfection isn't found, its made. I am looking for a sub who will let me break her down and rebuild her into my perfect match. Low self esteem, not a problem. Not happy with your life or how things are now, we will work on that. I am not looking for what you are now but rather what you could be. Ill break what you are now and build you into what I desire and you will find comfort in that position. It wont be easy, there are steps where you will feel humiliated and sad, but do as I say and you will become very desired.
NYC Dom looking for Sub for long term Relationship
HI I am Rob I am a Dom ,
I am looking for sub who for a long term relationship possibly living together . I don’t do online role playing don’t have the time for that . I am looking a sub with or without experience . Im not into administering lots of pain. I am more of a trainer that will get you to do the things you need to do to make me happy and thus making you happy . I am also big into personal development because the more you grow the more you have to offer .
I am looking for someone who is about this life , looking to totally submit themselves to me . In return I will train you to be a perfect sub / and a better you . There will be different rules of behavior for when in public and private life.
My limits are :
Hello there. Im 20 and looking to chat with someone my age. Im new to all this but thought id give it a try , but open to just chat online. Star wars nerd and thought id give this a try see what happens