D types as mentors

I think it’s definitely possible, it just comes down to an open communication with one another so there is no room for frenzy or hurt or anything else my midday brain is forgetting.

It’s personal ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 9:15 am • 23 Replies • 2053 Views

The instinct

Sometimes things can feel organic and natural like that — and that’s fine. But sometimes too it can come on as a bit of frenzy and that could be a whirlwind you can easily be swept up. Try to take it ...

Tue Mar 08, 2022 3:03 pm • 19 Replies • 3646 Views

New to dynamic!

Hey there, I hope you are well today!

1. What interested you, to becoming a part of this lifestyle?

Oh man, where do I begin? I think the intimacy, ultimately. I was raised Catholic so discover ...

Thu Feb 17, 2022 10:33 am • 3 Replies • 1716 Views

Consensual Psychological "Abuse"

I don’t think you are weird for wanting to engage in such a state of play, no. I think we find ways to decompress in our lives and sometimes that manifests in wanting to explore humiliation and degrad ...

Thu Feb 17, 2022 10:21 am • 9 Replies • 3721 Views

To everyone

I’m sorry to hear that that has happened to you. I feel that, as it’s happened to me. Some people think it’s cleaner to just straight up vanish but I think that’s a little cruel. I’d prefer just a sim ...

Mon Feb 24, 2020 5:27 pm • 35 Replies • 13223 Views

So... A little help?

If I could guess, probably for the same reasons others can have a fetishising about a person in a uniform. Something compels them to the image. It might even compel them to the texture and feel of the ...

Mon Feb 24, 2020 5:24 pm • 21 Replies • 10498 Views

D/s Relationship

You are ABSOLUTELY not wrong for wanting respect. It sounds like the guy was being an entitled douche nozzle. It doesn’t even matter whether you’re submissive, single or dominant, it’s basic decency 1 ...

Sun Sep 29, 2019 2:11 pm • 34 Replies • 14671 Views

*WELCOME to THE CAGE!* Introduce Yourself Here

Hullo all! Australian fellow here. Just looking for a place to hang my hat, engage in some fine discussion and maybe even meet some like minded folks!

I’m a weird hybrid mix of a Daddy, a primal a ...

Mon Apr 29, 2019 6:55 am • 3159 Replies • 997276 Views

Collars

To me a collar is a sign of commitment and ownership. As a dominant, I wouldn’t do it to a submissive unless I was serious about the relationship - because to me, that symbolism is beautiful.

But y ...

Sun Apr 28, 2019 3:26 am • 33 Replies • 19715 Views

A question for the Doms

Yeah, there definitely seems to be something fishy going on. Or perhaps just a breakdown in communication.

If he’s not communicating to you why all this is happening, then that’s poor form - and n ...

Sun Apr 28, 2019 3:22 am • 37 Replies • 16085 Views